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im 15 years old and last year on thanksgiving my family got together and my 56 year old aunt brought her bf who is 26 and every family thing he is always there with my aunt and i hang around with them because i think they are really cool. Anyways I know that he's been in jail a lot of times and he has tattoos all over his body and I know he smokes weed. He txts me and he recently told me he broke up with my aunt and that he really likes me. I really like him but it kinda scares me. He said he wants to have sex with me but i told him im only 15 and he says he will wait until i turn 18 to do anything...He knows where i live but I don't wanna stop talking to him cuz i like him. (My mom and dad have told me to stay away from him but I can't help it...They know he has txted me before but I told them we stopped txting) Everytime he txts me i get this nervous feeling in my stomach...i just dont know what to do cuz i dont wanna stop talking to him...I can't say goodbye to him... (link)
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well.. that is a very bad scenerio you are in.. if you cant tell him goodbye... please start ignoring his texts and / or he doesn't stop tell him your not interested and the police might be involved... thats nothing good... hes out of jail with tattoos broke up with your member of the family and wants to have sex with you... dont be stupid and do this,please ignore him before it gets very bad
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ok im a sophomore this year and i dated this jerk in 7th grade and he was awful to me and dumped me repeatedly and cheated on me so much and i dumped him the last time and totally refuse to talk to him. i seriously hate him like everytime hes around or i hear about him i got instantly heated and angry. its been like 4 years and im still not over him even though i make it seem like i am. what can i do? (link)
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You need to go out! and find someone NEW! get around other people go away from him and loose all contacts with him... he treated you so badly.. I heard when guys treat women badly it lets the brain be more involved in thinking and always up to something if he hadnt then you would be bored and your brain wouldnt focus so much on him , but thats just what I heard once OR read! but I think you should really stop talking or thinking or asking questions about him , its been a while and you really did like him and it must really hurt... I know because he hurt you and that scar is on you for a very long time and it takes time to heal but you need to let it go , once you let it go everything will work out
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I need some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We've been going on since June 9th of this year but I really don't see a future with him. I feel nothing when I'm with him and I don't know why it got like this all of a sudden. There's been times where I almost broke up with him but there's something that's stopping me but I don't know what it is. But the truth is I think we're better off as friends. What should I do? How can I break up with him without hurting his feelings that much because I do care about his feelings. Thanks in advance. (link)
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well at least you guys experimented and you know.. you get a good experience going out with people to find your true one... well if you dont feel anything please tell him now then later because it will just hurt him more and more! Sit him down and talk to him tell him what you told us and be calm about it and tell him look into his eyes that you do care about him but as friends is better and you cant feel anything... that your still by him at all costs.. dont worry he will handle it :)
just do it sooner then later! I think you should end it since you just posted something like this because if you felt something you wouldn't have posted anything like this off. Just dont do it on the phone,text,msn,skype,message,friend,parent,nothing! YOU in PERSON! because if you dont do it in person it will be even more negative then before
good luck
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my boyfriend wants me to touch his cock bt m afraid what to do?
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You should never do something that your not sure of.. obviously you are not sure if this is the right time or not... don't rush into these things , if your afraid and not ready tell him , if he doesn't accept then tell him to go away!
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is my xgirlfriend wanting to work things out with me (link)
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The ghosts are clear... ask yourself! AND HER! :)
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I'm 16/f
okay so to begin with I'm NOT a virgin. I lost it to a close friend and he has nothing to say about this.
So I've Been masterbating since I was in 2-3rd grade not fingering myself but rubbing, anyway; taking a closer look u see that my labia is 'stretched out and a slightly darker color then it should be. I've noticed this before and went to a doctor for it. She said it was not harmful.
What I'm worried about is it appearence. What if a guy wants to eat me out and is digusted by it?? Quite frankly it makes me nervous. Any pointers??
Hugs&rockets --olie (link)
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I am in the same position as you , but unfortunatley no one really has touched me down there to the point you know.. anyways , its fine its normal to have that and I like the guys ''tulip'' description , but its fine you have nothing to worry about , almost everyone is okay with any kid as long as its one... its fine the appearance will never disgust a man.. unless he has something wrong with himself, please dont be nervous... its fine and just relax
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Hey guys, so i like this guy steven. I met him through a friend yesterday and hes sexy and hes got a good personality and is sweet but a bad boy at the same time. I cant get him out if my head which isnt normal. I normally perfer not having boyfriends. Ilike to go at it alone. Id rather they and myself just befriends not that anyone ever likes me further then friends anyway.But i honestly like this guy. Well when i was at my friends it was a little party and it was late and she was giving her bf a back massage and steven said he wanted one so she started to give him one but she told me to take over so she could do her bfs. He didnt have objections and he even let out little moans here and there he didnt moan when my friend was giving him a massage. And the next day my friend said before i came in the room he had said something about getting with me. I think she was just trying to make me feel better but i dont know for sure. She said if i wanted him that i needed to go for what i wanted. And thats a problem for me shes right i dont go for what i want. I think thats why i like to be alone now because its easier then going for what i want and getting rejected. Guys dont even go after me. Im not shy but im not the most outgoing either. Just normal. Many guys compliment on how i look where i work all the time. Yesyerday this guy would not leave me alone about it everytime i said thank you you have a nice day hed start again. And another guy has come in 3 times in 2 days a come through my line everytime and he flirts. I dont want those guys i want steven but every guy that i would ever consider going out with doesnt seem to lke me like that. Im not extremely skinny or overweight. I dont have mufgin tops or anything when i put on jeans. Im not a girly girly either i sway more to the tomboy side but there are girly things i have too. I dont know what im even asking here im just really frustrated. I cant get him out of my mind and for once i want him to like me.
Any advice would be great but specifics would be a huge help thank you! (link)
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wow.. well all I can say is this guy might have a thing for you , if you like him , why don't you switch it up you dont have many boyfriends why dont you give this a shot? it might last and / or it might not.. what can happen.. I mean do you trust your friend that this guy might be into you? if he is then why dont you try and schedule something with you , if he says yes then why dont you , plus rejection comes out you said , but either way if he wants to or not it is fine :) everything will be okay and trust me things will work out fine :) just go for it , I mean what can happen? and if he did moan he sure well... wanted to amuse you and definatley 100% GET YOUR ATTENTION! I dont see why you dont give it a try :) he likes what he sees just liek those guys that hit on you.. just go for it :)
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16/f I've been going with this 16year old boy for about 3 months we had sex for the first time at my house and when he came in he kissed me. Then I took him to my room and we had sex and not to be too detailed I went down on him. Since then we have not kissed and I dont know what I should do or say to him, because we still have sex, just no kissing. He's giving me mixed emotions... HELP ME (link)
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hmmm... well thats a bit strange that he stopped kissing you... thats the basics of a relationship physically.. you should keep your watch just like the other person said he might be up to something.. please dont give in so easily , its the worst... if he doesnt want to kiss you then you shouldnt think of kissing him because he seems obviously immature like the other person said and something is going through his mind.. you should consider it again.
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I'm on a diet and I ate kind of a lot of slices of watermelon today. Will I gain weight? (link)
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no its not , dont worry :)
http://caloriecount.about.com/calories-watermelon-i9326
that might help , its fine , you should eat it because it is good for you!
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I really love one of my friends from all my heart , but seemed that he loves my best friend from two days i was at her home and she and another girl made something really annoyed me so i went to this guy to tell him , he made feel that i am wrong and he she is totally right before to let me complete telling him the story and that's so strange on him so i feel that he loves her because he always writes for her hot comments and care for her very much but she's not feeling him at all and all the time talking him with bad things if he really loves her i will go away because i don't want to lose her and lose my heart i didn't tell her about the truth of my feelings towards him because i am really feeling that he loves her but i am not sure and i love him so much but he keeps hurting me to come over my rights for her sake . (link)
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well I think he has a thing if hes psoting her comments and caring for her and hes not doing that for you then I think he likes her... dont worry I think it should help you and there are so many other guys out there that will be a lot better then any before :) just give it time and your heart will meld
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I hate my stepdad.. He married my mom about 11.5 years ago and hes turned into an ASS! He absolutly HATES ME and I do the same. He doesnt even Treat me like a human. Sometimes i do but he says i talk to my mom like a dog. Yet my mom says they are soulmates....Wow O.o Welp He pushes her and Treats her like SHIT and i cant do anything about that.?? I want to live with my Real dad but my mom says no. They also say are getting a divorce and im like YEAH WHOOP:D)In my head) But then they dont.. Help!!! (link)
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well all you can do is wait or move away... you cant do much its her choice not yours... and its your idea of accepting it or not.. when your old enough or if you are 18 like the person said move out... it must be really tought but you have to get through it and dont go near him or your mom as much
good luck
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How do i find my report card if i lost it and i can't go to my school? (link)
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Call them and tell them or leave them a message and they will get soon to you as possible or you can look around more and try to remeber and ask people where you had it last.
good luck
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hi i have a twin and I REALLY think she hates me. the thing is that we are very different she is .... meaner and i always try to be honest and she lie all the timee i dont know what to do she is my only sister and i dont know what am doing wrong i always help her but she doesnt care about mee please tell me what to do (link)
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like the other person said.. communication is the key to everything , you can only talk to her about it.. dont take it personally too much , if she wants to be like that let her be like that dont let her get in the way she may be mean and doesnt care , but dont worry she does she doesnt like showing it much , just mind your own buisness and give her space and your fine , things will work out in the end!
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During the school year, I started drifting away from my best friends. My main one (who I've known since I was 2) didn't have any classes with me and started becoming really close with my other best friend (who I had one class with). I thought it was ok because my other best friend and I were really close. Then it started seeming like they were the inseparable 3. The two that I normally sat with at lunch stopped showing up, so I started sitting with my 7th grade friends (I was in 8th grade). Despite all the fun I was having with them, I was still disappointed that my best friends didn't care enough to even try sitting with me. Eventually, this one girl was able to convince them to come sit with her (even though my best friend said that she didn't like her that much). My best friend started hanging out with other people and would barely acknowledge me when I was right beside her. It hurt, but it wasn't as bad when I was with my 7th grade friends. Then, I started hearing things about how people felt bad for me that nobody would talk to me except the 7th graders. Unfortunately, now I realize the matter. I'm about to be a freshman and I have no best friends in my grade. I would try to mend things with my best friends, but one of them is going to boarding school, the other I'm not as close with, and the other turned out to be a user, a crappy friend, and not a good overall person. What should I do? (link)
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wow.. I was in the same position , my one best friend didn't have any classes with me and the other ones drifted away.. we barely keep in contact anymore... and you know what? I had no friends and I had to sit by myself because they just ditched me so many times, but in the end one or two asked to hang out.. we never actually did.Dont worry once highschool is done , trust me everything will work out and you will go out and meet new people , so don't worry about it. It leaves you the odd one out , the good one , so don't worry about it :) it iwll work out good for you , just patience
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when i was leaving my friends building i met a guy in his elevator. we totally vibed and connected. i felt the spark, electricity - whatever you want to call it! i didnt get his name or number but i cannot stop thinking about him and i really really want to see him again.
i dont know what to do? i should go back to my friends apt and look really good in hopes of bumping into the guy again? (link)
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well im pretty sure if you felt that , then I see no reason that you will .. oh did you? its fine dont worry go back to the apt asap trust me ,if its meant you guys will find eachother.. yeah im pretty sure , does your friend know him? maybe she can tell you more about him , you never know.
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So I was sitting down (cross legged position) for about an hour or 2.. straight. Which was pretty dumb of me because i didn't realize it was bad for you because apparently it cuts off your blood circulation. Well the next morning, I woke up and tried to walk around but my legs were KILLING me!!! It hurts so badly I can't even extend my knees straight. It hurts right behind the knee, and then a little further down by my calves.
I did a little research and maybe its varicose veins?? I can see my veins (which usually I don't) but they aren't like black or super dark. I have tried many things. I elevated my feet for about 20 minutes. I heated it up by taking a hot shower. I massaged my legs. I stretched. it just seems to be getting worse and worse. What is wrong with my legs and how do i fix it??
Going to the doctor is out of the question for me because i'm on vacation and am not familiar with the area. (link)
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Im pretty sure you should go see a doctor asap. Never do things alone because it won't work. You should go see a doctor because it may be serious.. you never know.. good lcuk
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My sink isn't bad at all compared to some people, but I do have a few pimples and I wish my skin was clearer. I feel like everyone stares at one of my zits when I talk to them. I'm 13 and a girl so it's cause of my age I get them but not all of my friends have pimples. How can I get clear skin, quickly and easily. Easy facials, soaps, creams, home concoctions. Anything! And I do wash my face with a special skin product but I guess it's not working! Please help :) (link)
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I had the same problem.. I used accutane.. but you need to see your doctor, it will help you in the long run , I took proactiv but when I stopped using it , all the pimples came back... so I would recomment accutane and different cleansers and mosturizers like people said neutrogena and also!!! my favorite ST.IVES! that is really good :) and it smells amazing and its cheap! You should ask your dermetologist and/or the person who does waxes because they would know which ones would work best for YOUR skin
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I want to upload a music video on youtube but where do I get it from? How do I save it to my computer? (link)
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You download from online devices like illegal music downloading and streaming and then you save it to the computer by saving it , and you can use the youtube converter, mp3 converter it works pretty well.
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I have made up my mind to commit suicide so please dont talk me out of it. If you knew what im going through you'd have mercy on me and shoot me yourself. I solemnly request you to tell me the easiest way to end my existence. I want to over dose. But the problem is that i DONT WANT MY SUICIDE ATTEMPT TO FAIL so please tell me an exact amount of valium pills that I should take ( Im 18 years old) that would ensure that my suicide attempt doesnt fail. My dad beats me. And grounds me. So I cant leave the house and occupy myself in other activities. If I could I would never have contemplated suicide but trust me when I say this that suicide is the only way out from this relentless torture. Please tell me a way that would ensure that my attempt doesnt fail because if it does I'd be doomed for life. I'll wait for your reply. (link)
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Dont commit suicide. Like the other person said before, this is no place to give advice like that. Your life is valuable. And like the other person said, go and please see someone , most of all please contact the police services asap. This is a very bad thing that's happening and no one wants you going through this.
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Hello,
I'm 19 year old femal and my boyfriend is 20.and we have been together for a year and a few months. He is leaving for college in september and I will be staying home going to nursing school. This will not be the first time we will be apart for a long time. He played hockey for a Junior team and was away from home for almost 6 months but would come home on holidays. We stayed together through that, which was hard but with txting and phone calls and skype we made it work..I guess I'm just very nervous knowing their are going to be a lot of new faces that he will be meeting and I'm nervous he will find someone else or things will just go down hill. We did discuss the other day our feelings of him going away to college and I did mention taking a break, but we both do not want to do that, we both really love eachother, and he has yet to give me a reason to not trust him. We have talked about the future and about what we want and we see eachother together. I just don't want to set myself up for fate. And if we really are ment to be and something happens while he is away at school I don't want something stupid to tear us apart forever. Ill take any advice at this point. I've been worrying about this non stop. And have talked to family and friends and they all seem to be giving me the same advice, and that is to break up with him, becvause he is going away and ill be home. I just really don't want to do that.
Thanks for your help (link)
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Seems you really do and him want to work.. well look at it this way.. you guys went through 6 months together , who says you can't do it again? no one is telling you to break apart! Dont do that ,do what you and him want , what your heart tells you to do. Everything will be okay ,just relax and take a breather, if he really does love you , don't worry if he meets new faces and everything he knows that he loves you and not them and can only have them as friends , he probabaly met new people at that 6 month period and look you guys are still together , if you want to be with him , nothing is stopping you , you guys both love eachother , so im pretty sure you guys can make it work :)
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