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Ugly pussy. Seeking imediate advice
I'm 16/f
okay so to begin with I'm NOT a virgin. I lost it to a close friend and he has nothing to say about this.
So I've Been masterbating since I was in 2-3rd grade not fingering myself but rubbing, anyway; taking a closer look u see that my labia is 'stretched out and a slightly darker color then it should be. I've noticed this before and went to a doctor for it. She said it was not harmful.
What I'm worried about is it appearence. What if a guy wants to eat me out and is digusted by it?? Quite frankly it makes me nervous. Any pointers??
Hugs&rockets --olie
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Please hear me on this:
GUYS DON'T CARE ABOUT STUFF LIKE THAT! No guy has ever broken up with a girl for having what you term, "an ugly pussy." And is there any such thing as an ugly pussy? I've never seen one.
So relax, keep your pubic hair at least trimmed if you don't shave it so he doesn't get any hair in his mouth and you're good to go.
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I am in the same position as you , but unfortunatley no one really has touched me down there to the point you know.. anyways , its fine its normal to have that and I like the guys ''tulip'' description , but its fine you have nothing to worry about , almost everyone is okay with any kid as long as its one... its fine the appearance will never disgust a man.. unless he has something wrong with himself, please dont be nervous... its fine and just relax
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How about a male perspective on your request: In all my years of chasing pussy, I am now close to retirement age and married for the past 40 years. I have never seen, or ever heard any of my friends say they, saw an ugly pussy.
On an HBO "After Dark" Special some spiritual sex enhancer taught a group of couples that there were four types of vagina's, you have one of the four; He called it the "Tulip".
As for any boy being disgusted; doubtful. Any boy worth his computer skills these days has already seen naked models, amateur models and probably more porn than I have. He has probably seen many a "Tulip" Vagina.
I married a woman with tulip vagina. Not because she has a tulip vagina, I happen to love my wife in her entirety. I'm not going to explain our sex life to you other than to say her tulip vagina adds to the experience.
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Unless your extended labia is causing you pain for any reasons, such as sitting, using tampons or during sex; relax. You have a wonderful gift. Any young man who says your vagina is ugly is truly inexperienced and does not know what he is missing.
Relax enjoy your body, enjoy being you. You are a one of kind, a unique individual.
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nothing 2 worry about a man that really loves you wont boarder about that so dont worry
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Your doctor is 100% right. It's nothing at all to be uptight about. Private parts both male and female are made from rougher skin than any other parts of the body and tissue as well.
This tissue and parts will look slightly darker or discolored from any other body part. In short, it's normal. As for labia that's normal to have one longer etc. and there's nothing you could have done to make it any less or more so. It's just how it is.
If any guy was disgusted with it and trust me most won't be than they have no business being anywhere near you or that area as they haven't maturity. Most guys FYI, probably feel the same way you do about your private parts when it comes to there's guys have the same discoloration, even left over tissue and scars from circumcision etc so it's not a problem. The only pointer is to relax and know that it's A-okay and will be 100% fine. if you make no big deal of it he'll never think about it.
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The skin down there is normally darker. You're fine. And unless it's hanging down by your knees or something, I doubt a guy will notice anything unusual. Try not to stress about it :)
Skin bleaching in that area isn't a good idea; you can burn yourself or cause permanent damage. Don't do it!
-LM
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