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Why can't I say goodbye? He is 26 and I am 15.
im 15 years old and last year on thanksgiving my family got together and my 56 year old aunt brought her bf who is 26 and every family thing he is always there with my aunt and i hang around with them because i think they are really cool. Anyways I know that he's been in jail a lot of times and he has tattoos all over his body and I know he smokes weed. He txts me and he recently told me he broke up with my aunt and that he really likes me. I really like him but it kinda scares me. He said he wants to have sex with me but i told him im only 15 and he says he will wait until i turn 18 to do anything...He knows where i live but I don't wanna stop talking to him cuz i like him. (My mom and dad have told me to stay away from him but I can't help it...They know he has txted me before but I told them we stopped txting) Everytime he txts me i get this nervous feeling in my stomach...i just dont know what to do cuz i dont wanna stop talking to him...I can't say goodbye to him...
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well.. that is a very bad scenerio you are in.. if you cant tell him goodbye... please start ignoring his texts and / or he doesn't stop tell him your not interested and the police might be involved... thats nothing good... hes out of jail with tattoos broke up with your member of the family and wants to have sex with you... dont be stupid and do this,please ignore him before it gets very bad
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Do you know what he's been in jail for? Look him up on the internet - sex offender's registry. I bet he pops up. You're playing a dangerous game. It may feel good and special right now, but trust me, it will spiral out of control with a quickness, and end in heartache, physical trouble or pregnancy for you and more jail time for him.
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There is a few problems I see with your situation and I will point them out to you, to guide you.
number 1: He is too old for you! You are only 15. He should not be thinking about pursuing a 15 year old girl. That is statutory rape, sweetie. He is a grown man. He is an adult. He should no better than to mess with a 15 year old girl when he is 26.
Number 2: he says he wants to have sex with you. Sweetie, he just wants sex. He made it clear.
Number 3: He been in and out of jail. For what??? For having sexual relationships with young girls??
So for those three problems I see wrong with your relationship, stay away!!! Please do. Do not continue talking to him. He is an adult, you are a child!!!
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Run.....Run fast
This guy is a 26 year old man who is trying to hook up with someone who is 16 years of age and has been in and out of jail.
For starters, It is 100% wrong. If you two were to ever have any sort of relationship that were sexual that IS statutory rape whether you consented or not, What he is doing is something of a pedophile. This man is an adult, You are a child. There is something wrong and sick about someone who wants to get with someone who is only 15 years old. You have a nervous feeling in your stomach because you know it is wrong. Your parents are right, Stay away from the creep. If he text you again REPORT IT. Also I mind as well toss in there that in my state at least "Sexting" is illegal of anyone under the age of 18, If caught you could be registered as a sex offender. You don't want to screw up and you don't want to get in a shit load of trouble then do the smart thing and stay the hell away from him. I'm not trying to be an ass but seriously think about this. It is not normal behavior for a grown man to be trying to hook up with a child. Would it be okay if a 45 year old man had sex with a 5 year old? No of course not. It would not be okay if someone of 26 were to do it too a 15 year old.
Phone calls and text messages can easily be deleted but I'll tell ya what....The data is still traceable despite being deleted or not. Use your head for once and stop talking to him.
You can continue to ignore the advise I give you but if you do not want to get in a shit load of trouble then do something to prevent that now, The more you talk to him the more you leave evidence you've fed into it and these days you'd be surprised what's traceable. This man may think he knows everything but you can't be too smart to be in and out of jail. If that's not his only fuck up.... That's just disgusting.
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Well there are two problems that I see in this situation. First of all he's your aunt's ex and second of all he's 26. If your aunt knew about this don't you think this will crush her and don't you care about her feelings? This is family you're talking about. And right now he's a grown man and he needs to find someone his age because he can go to jail for messing with a minor which is you. If you want to date I suggest you go with someone your own age and not with someone whose dated someone closed to you. You have to ask yourself how would u feel if you was in her shoes and she was in yours. Would you want your 15 year old niece to mess with a man who is 26 and who is also your ex boyfriend. Think about what you're doing and I think the best thing to do is let go because family is forever but relationships aren't you can always find someone else. I hope you do what's right and let him go. Goodluck sweetie. And if you ever need more advice feel free to ask me.
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