Hello my names Lili. I am 20. I am college student. I honestly love people. I am a communications major. I am the go to girl for advice among my friends. You need help ask me and I will do my best to give you advice. We all need advice every once in a while. My goal is that the advice I give you will help you with whatever problem you have. I cant guarantee a perfect answer. But I can guarantee that I will try to help you.
Gender: Female
Location: California
Age: 20
Member Since: June 12, 2010
Answers: 65
Last Update: September 16, 2012
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My girlfriend delays when we must have sex. What might be the cause of procrastination? And our relationship is doing well (link)
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I make my boyfriend wait for 5 months in our relationship before we had sex. I wanted to be ready. He respected that. I told him, I wasn't the kind of girl that is just a one night stand, and that's it. I told him, I wanted a long relationship before we had sex. Ask your girl why. It could be she's not ready for that step. You have to respect that. maybe she does believes in no sex before marriage. Respect that. You have respect your girlfriend and her decision. I don't know how old you are. But there shouldn't be a rush for sex. There is a time, where you guys will experience the beauty of it. Sex really is a beautiful with the right person. If you love her, respect her decision why she does not want sex right now.
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Me and my boyfriend both agree that we're ready to have sex and such, but the only problem is sometimes its hard to get him in the mood. I want the mood to be perfect, and he's super good at turning me on, but I'm tired of turning him on with the same technique everytime. Any advice?! (link)
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Talk dirty turns my boyfriend on. Start feeling him up :) And dress cute :) Lingerie etc... Start kissing him slowly, than get on top of him, talk dirty continue to kiss him slowly, than intensely, my boyfriend is hella turned on by than lol
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I feel lyk i m d wrst creature in dwrld.. He loves me so mch... Even after i ve cheated him. I am 19 and female...frm india.. I done sex talk with a boy who i ve nt seen even.. He bcame frnd of mine by one who i thought as my bst frnd as well as a well wisher.. I was true to thm.. I blievd them and even said abt sex hpnd btwn me and my boyfnd.. Bt those mthrfuckrs wr cheatng me they hav rcrded evrytng wtevr i ve tlkd wit thm. And even they wr sayng me to do breakup with mybf.. Bt cz of sm gudness i came to knw tht thy r cheatng me. And stpd tlkng wit thm.. I was hpy wit 1 who loves me thn ths tot wrld. Bt thy wantd to mak me feel sham in frnt of evry1. And thy said and shwn all my talks wit thm to my bf in frnt of the whole clas wen i was absent.. Aftr hearing ths my bf is brkn.. I am realy flng very very wrse fr wt i ve done to.my bf.. I cant face him now. It ll b bettr if i ll die. Thts the btr choice. Pls sm1 hlp me. (link)
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Well it's not much you can do sweetie. I am sorry for the situation you are in. But, the only thing you can do is to say sorry to the boyfriend you have hurt. I mean of course he is not going to forgive you now. Expect that. But only thing you can do is to say sorry. Apologize. Change your ways. Honey, you need to understand that you have a good boyfriend. Stop pushing him away. Or honestly, he will really leave you. I sometimes push my boyfriend away, never by cheating just by attitude. But honestly, be faithful. He loves you, he is faithful to you, be faithful to him. Well I tried to understand your post as best as possible. From what I understand, you have to start being honest with your relationship with your boyfriend.
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20/f: I broke up with my ex 1.5 years ago (together for 2 years and last few months were long-distance). Since then, there have been times when he wanted to get back together but I didn't, or when I wanted to but he didn't. We tried to stay friends but one of us would eventually be unable to keep that up.
He told me that when I went home, he wanted to see me, but he never contacted me. I didn't contact him either because I assumed that since he brought it up, if he wasn't making plans, he didn't want to see me anymore. The summer passed, and he brought it up only a week before I left, so I didn't have time anymore. I was annoyed that it had taken him so long, so I was pretty cold to him. I told myself that this whole mess with him was holding me back from moving on and that once I got back to school, I'd leave it in the past.
Unfortunately, I contacted him about 2 weeks ago. He said he wanted to call and asked why I'd been so unfriendly. I explained and we talked for a while. He asked to videochat; most of it was just catching up, but he kept throwing in compliments on how good I still looked and how he missed the times when we were together.
He refused to get back together when I wanted to because of distance. He told me that he couldn't be in a relationship where he couldn't see the other person every day. I was so hurt because I thought that if you really love someone, you'll endure whatever you have to, even distance. Eventually I gave up trying to get him back and I thought I'd moved on, but then he contacted me again.
I don't understand what he's thinking right now. Why would he compliment me and bring up the past? Why can't he just tell me directly if he still has feelings for me? I'm not sure if he does or if he's just messing with me. I hurt him so much when I broke up with him, so what if he's doing all this just to get back at me?
Sorry for the long post, but I'm so confused. Does he really still have feelings for me or is he just using me to fill the gap until he finds someone else? And if he does, why can't he be more direct with me? (link)
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In my honest opinion, he really just using you to fill in the gaps until he finds someone else. I asked my boyfriend for his opinion. He said if he really liked you he would be willing to try long distance. Like you said on your post, he does not want to do long distance because he could not see the person everyday, but yet he keeps trying to contact you. In my opinion he is just lonely, and trying to fill in the gaps until he can find someone else. My advice is you should ask him directly, if he still have feelings for you. If he can't be direct than say it be the best if you both don't talk to each other. Because you need to move on. It seems like he doesn't really want get back together. best advice is you be direct with him. Hope it helps.
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I don't understand. why do they feel so threatened? i'm a black girl, who's down with dating anyone i'm compatible with, because i'm not racist. I don't understand all the controversy on the internet.
even in real life, my parents seem like they'd prefer if I married another African, for cultural reasons, and I think if I dated someone who wasn't African (not even African American, unless they're like 1st generation), my parents wouldn't think the relationship would last, because of "irreconcilable differences". Even though skin color doesn't determine personality. I understand where they're coming from, and I'm glad they're not like "don't ever date a white/asian/hispanic" person, simply out of racism, but generally it seems like society just isn't that rational about this.
Especially online, I find that a black girl would get offended by a celebrity couple where a black man is with a white woman, or a white man gets offended when a white woman is with a black man, and I really don't get it. when I see a white woman with a black guy, even if I'm attracted to the guy, I'm happy for them, if they look like a happy, loving union. Why would I feel threatened by them? There's plenty of other fish in the sea. People say the worst stereotypes online, too, to either justify or criticize interracial relationships. like I was just on this site called bossip.com and I'll never go on it again, because people there are just so hateful, almost to the same degree of hate as people have on stormfront.org. like someone will try to justify a black girl dating a white guy because "all black men are bad and dangerous" or w/e, or someone will call the black girl insecure and self hating for not only being attracted to black guys. or if a black guy is with a white girl people assume it's only because of sex. why are people this shallow? it's truly depressing. do most people think this way, or is it just on some sections on the internet where people say horrible things to make themselves sleep well at night, because it helps them feel better about their own insecurities?
Like if a black girl is with a black guy all is fine, but when that formula changes, all hell breaks loose. Do they just feel inadequate when someone dates someone of a different race, because they feel it lessens their chance of being with them (even if they're a celebrity), because race is something out of one's control? like if a black guy sees an attractive black girl with a white guy he feels like he can't compete simply because he doesn't have his look? is that where this comes from? interracial relationships have been happening since forever, but since our world is becoming more and more interconnected, people from different places have more similar lifestyles. it's not crazy that people with different looks could fall in love when they have similer ideals and etc. and yet people act like it is
can someone explain this to me, because i'm totally at a loss. it's especially confusing in the context that we're all just humans and race doesn't even exist. but when you say that people just tell you to shut up. i know the concept of race is still a factor nowadays, as racism (both institutional and social) still exists, but it's hard to have a serious discussion about a racial issue like this one when you also acknowledge the truth of race not even being real. because then it's like.. then why is it an issue? as the world is more interconnected, many places in the world are becoming more and more diverse. a white girl and black boy can grow up in the same town together, and fall in love, but it's wrong because they're different skin tones? like am I the only one who thinks this is stupid?
why do people care so much about such superficial things, like some people want to date different races just have their kids look a certain way, or w/e, and I don't get it. what is the point of marriage when it's based on something so fickle. i thought marriage was supposed to come from love, and compatibility (link)
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I honestly wonder that question myself. I am in an interracial relationship. I have seen several people of my race give me looks. ( I am Chinese, my boyfriend is Mexican.) Like I feel like it shouldn't matter what race we are. It matters that we are in love with each other, and care deeply for each other. I honestly wish people will get over it.
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I have been taking french since the seventh grade, at first I was not serious about it. But from eigth to the ninth I have been doing excellent in my class, I m the smartest in p my french class. However I have only excelled in writing, grammar, and reading in French. I still have ways to go on my speaking and listening. I am very self concious and nervous about speaking and liatening, but i been striving and not giving up. Now I going to be a senior this year and I trying to decide if I want to do French, but my mom keeps nagging me about my inability to speak the language fluently. She keeps nagging me with questions ,such as: how can you do French as a major when you can't even speak fluently in it yet? which makes me feel more unsure about French. I have spoken to foreign language teacher and people, and they have told me that not evryone is fluent by gradration . In addition they have told me that a person has to study in a foreign language in order to become fluent. I am confused , i mean I know she means well but her questions make me wonder: am I wrong, should I just give up? (link)
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If studying French is your passion, go for it! If majoring in French is what you want to do, go for it!
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so me and m boyfriend have been together for about a year. we dont live together. I'm in college and was using his laptop to catch up on some homework while he was at work when i was typing something into the top and it came up with past history of him looking at hot sex nude videos among other things. im not sure how i should respond. i feel like i should be upset and angry or am i just over reacting? (link)
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you have a right to be upset. It's one thing for a guy to look at a picture of a girl, if it's just a picture. And mean nothing, if they like in magazines you know. My boyfriend sometimes but not always will look at those girls but I asked a guy friend and he said he looked at those type of pictures too but dont mean a thing to him even when he in a relationship. But in your situation it's more than that because he looking up hot sex. You need talk to him. Because if he just looking that's fine. But this cross the line.
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Hi, Im a female of 14. So there's this boy I like and last night while I was frenching him, people were like ew they're kissing. so today someone asked if i Frenched ir Madeout with him. I don't know the difference. What's the difference between Frenching, Making out, and just kissing? (link)
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Kissing could mean anything. Just a simple peck. or short lingering kiss with no tongue involved. Frenching involves a lot of tongue action. And making out involves a lot of action lol. let's put it that way
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Hello there! ill get to the point. i smoked 20+ cigs for the last 7-8 months. when i play basketball, only one run from the ring to the other side i get tired very fast. and now i want to join our schools soccer team, and i know soccer involves alot of running shits. so i want some tips or advice so that i could run longer. thank you so much. (link)
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you got quit smoking. The reason why you can't run much without being out of breath is because you are smoking.
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I'm 11 and my babysitter is touching me wrong.He's 16 and he babysits me everyday after school. When I finish homework and watch tv he makes me sit on his lap and he puts his hands up my shirt.I say stop,but he says its okay and to just come down.Sometimes he even puts his hands down my pants.I know what he is doing is wrong and I want to tell my parents,but I'm to scared what do I do? (link)
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You must tell someone as soon as possible!!! Seriously this guy is a creep!!! no one should touch you in any way!! So sweetie, I know you are scared, but please go to the police. Tell someone, and stop this before it goes any further.
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I am 23 and my boyfriend is 24, we have been together a year and 4 months, we really love each other and have a great relationship. Were both really close and comfortable with each other and tell each other everything. He is like my best friend and my lover. But here within the last few months our sex life has been diminishing. We used to do it probably 3 times a day or once a day at least, Now we hardly ever have sex. We have sex like once a week. He has a hard job and works 40+ hours so he always says he is too tired, or is feeling sick all the time and has lack of energy. I am always the one that instigates it and tries everything I can to spice it up and get him motivated and "in the mood" But he always stops me when I try, and even when I go down on him which usually guys wont turn down, he will even stop that! It's getting to the point where it is insulting and I start thinking if something is wrong with me. I don't think that sex is everything, but It definitely plays a role in a healthy relationship and I am not satisfied at all and I just do not feel happy. I don't feel like he wants me at all. It makes me doubt myself and his faithfulness. I start thinking if he doesn't want to do it at all with me maybe it is because he has found someone else, perhaps someone at work where he spends most of his time. One morning I was feeling frisky and started rubbing on him down there and he immediately stopped me and closed his legs together like a girl would. I asked him what his problem is, I know he isn't much for morning sex because he usually wakes up feeling really tired and unmotivated, but I was really getting my feelings hurt. It made me feel bad that my own boyfriend is rejecting me. I had a conversation about it with him and started crying because I got pretty emotional, he really hurt my feelings. He told me that it wasn't me that he just does not feel in the mood for sex anymore and that it doesn't mean that he thinks im not sexy anymore, it is just because he is tired and just does not feel like it. He said that he doesn't have energy anymore and never feels like he wants to do it. He even said that he dreads doing it! That comment hurt my feelings pretty bad. I don't understand what is going on, I mean he is only 24 and it's almost like he is going through some early stages of men's menopause! He said he would try to have sex with me and he did try and we had sex, but it just didn't feel all that great, because we werent really connected emotionally. I felt like he was just caving in to get me off his back, I didn't feel like he actually wanted to have sex with me! I mean, I don't get what he expects me to do, because I am not happy or satisfied and I cant make him want to do something he doesn't want to do, but I have needs! I mean what am I sopose to do? Get a sex machine or something? I cant just rely on my vibrator all the time! I would never ever cheat on him, I would feel so guilty and would not be able to go on knowing about what I did, it would just eat away at my conscious. I`seriously would not be able to even go through with cheating, I would probably break down and start crying and say I can't do this, But I am just saying, If I did cheat on him, he couldn't really blame me really, because he doesn't want to have sex with me! Most girls these days would cheat on their boyfriends if they did not satisfy them, because people cheat when they are unhappy! I am unhappy but I would never do that, but he is a great boyfriend emotionally! But he lacks being a great boyfriend physically! Please help give me some pointers and some tips! I don't know what else to do, I really love him but I am just so unhappy right now with our sex life. (link)
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Honey, when me and my boyfriend first had sex we did it practically three to 4 times a week. we are both 20. We both live with our parents for now. Lately reason for the past month and half we only have sex once a week, simply cause his mom is around or we both at school or hanging out together but with other in the room. But trust me we get our freak on with other ways. He always kisses and sucks my neck and nipple (hella turns me on) while I massage his thing. when his mom in another room, while his mom is one his dad watches tv we turn up movie while he was turn on from earlier or if we both start touching each other we have sex then. My advice is maybe you guys dont actually have the actual sex cause of time, but once or twice a week now satisfy us now because we have pleasure time every now and then. My advice is why don't you guys make out, do something maybe once a week or every other day when you have chance that you guys want each other. Life is busy, there's always time for love making. The long 1 hour love making once a week is worth it :) and maybe one or two quickies are good too. just keep in mind that there is time for sex and relationship is more than that. Most time we cuddle
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I'm 13 years old and I wear g-strings. Is that to young? (link)
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Yes, sweetie it is young! You are 13. You don't need to dress all sexy underneath there! You're 13. I'm 20 and even I don't wear g-string for my bf. A thong and some cute panties but about it. Wear regular undies. Trust me there will be a day when you older, where you get dress all sexy.
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Is it considered cheating if you cheat on your boyfriend with a girl? (link)
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yes it is! You are with someone that is not your boyfriend. so yes it is considered cheating.
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im 15 years old and last year on thanksgiving my family got together and my 56 year old aunt brought her bf who is 26 and every family thing he is always there with my aunt and i hang around with them because i think they are really cool. Anyways I know that he's been in jail a lot of times and he has tattoos all over his body and I know he smokes weed. He txts me and he recently told me he broke up with my aunt and that he really likes me. I really like him but it kinda scares me. He said he wants to have sex with me but i told him im only 15 and he says he will wait until i turn 18 to do anything...He knows where i live but I don't wanna stop talking to him cuz i like him. (My mom and dad have told me to stay away from him but I can't help it...They know he has txted me before but I told them we stopped txting) Everytime he txts me i get this nervous feeling in my stomach...i just dont know what to do cuz i dont wanna stop talking to him...I can't say goodbye to him... (link)
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There is a few problems I see with your situation and I will point them out to you, to guide you.
number 1: He is too old for you! You are only 15. He should not be thinking about pursuing a 15 year old girl. That is statutory rape, sweetie. He is a grown man. He is an adult. He should no better than to mess with a 15 year old girl when he is 26.
Number 2: he says he wants to have sex with you. Sweetie, he just wants sex. He made it clear.
Number 3: He been in and out of jail. For what??? For having sexual relationships with young girls??
So for those three problems I see wrong with your relationship, stay away!!! Please do. Do not continue talking to him. He is an adult, you are a child!!!
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my dad wont let me date does he not trust me or what
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well how old are you? Trust me I'm 20 and my parents hate the idea of me having a boyfriend.
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Well i am a virgen and My boy friend is one too and he always talks about how he wants to lose it well I said soon and he said how soon and i said whenever (Dumb answer) And he wants to do it in about 4 days Help!!Idont no what to do So plz leave a comment telling me what i should do !! (link)
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Sweetie all I can tell you is to do have sex whenever you are ready. it should be no pressure. I am 20. I lost my virginity when I am 20. My boyfriend isn't a virgin. I knew from the start, and he knew from a start I was. He never pressured me for sex. He told me from the start that whenever we are both ready for the next step. I been with him 5 months before I lost my virginity to him. Sex isn't planned. It kind of happens when the moment is right. If you are not ready for sex, you should not be having sex. Sex is something you both have to be ready for. You should tell him, that you are not ready right now. If he cares for you, loves you, he should understand.
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i'm 19/f, and i've been dating my boyfriend joe for 9 months. my boyfriend and i met at work and we still work at the same place together.
i've never had a problem with our relationship until i met nick. he also works with us and just got hired about 2 months ago. i hate to admit this, but.. for the past month, i've been having feelings for this new guy nick, even though i've been dating joe the whole time.
ever since i met nick, i've been really confused about my relationship with joe. i've seriously considered breaking up with him and i almost did, but i reconsidered at the last minute. i decided that i want to keep dating joe because i still have feelings for him and i love spending time with him...but at the same time i'm starting to realize that i truly want freedom in my life, and i just can't have that if i have a boyfriend, no matter how good of a boyfriend joe is. that's another reason why i feel like i should break up with him - i feel like i'm taking him for granted. he treats me like a princess, and i don't think i deserve to be spoiled like that, especially when my mind is wandering elsewhere.
i don't know what nick wants from me. i have a feeling he's just a player, but i can't tell. i realize that he's not the most eligible bachelor: he has a one-year-old son with his girlfriend, and i haven't heard much about her, except he's remarked that he doesn't want to marry her, and that he wants to take her to court to get custody of his son. but she also lives with him and his parents, so i mean obviously she's in his life for good, whether he wants her there or not.
nick started flirting with me at work about a month ago. he asked me for my number (in a joking way at first) and in response i said, "no, joe's my man!" and gave joe a hug right in front of him. (which joe loved.) that was the moment when nick found out that joe and i were dating.
but since then, nick continues to flirt with me at work. for example, he pokes me in passing and has hugged me, and after a few weeks of that stuff he asked me to hang out one day, so we exchanged numbers. i didn't know what he intended for us to do when we hung out, (i didn't want to put myself in a position where i could cheat on joe. i wouldn't EVER cheat on him, but i didn't want to be put in that position.) so i invited nick's cousin chris (who also works with us) to hang out with us. i tried to make it a friend thing. chris agreed, and nick&chris decided that we should go to chris's house and go swimming.
so nick called me that night like he said he would, and i walked to meet up with him..and me and him drove in his truck to his chris's house.
it was kind of an awkward hang out: i show up with nick at his aunt and uncle's house..and then we all go swimming in their pool: me, nick, his aunt and uncle and his cousin... very weird for the first time hanging out with two teenage guys outside of work..but i lived.
when we got out of the pool i suggested we have a bonfire, and they liked that idea. so nick's aunt and uncle went inside and the guys made a fire. i sat there while they got some beers and smoked a bowl. i don't really drink or smoke, so that was kind of awkward once again, but thought it was fine. i don't know what nick was thinking.
at this point, joe is texting me asking what i'm doing, so i told him i was hanging out with nick and his cousin. joe flipped out, because he has seen nick flirting with me at work and obviously wasn't happy that i decided to hang out with him outside of work. so, i told joe that the hang out was no big deal and that their parents were even joining us for some of it, and that nick wasn't even flirting with me or anything. (which was true.)
joe was still upset though, so i told nick and chris that joe was upset, and they said "hey why don't you invite him over? we never said he couldn't come." so i texted joe their address and then he came over.
once joe got there, we just sat around the fire for another hour or so. by then, it was around 11 P.M. nick said he was hungry and wanted to go to burger king. i was kinda hungry too but i didn't want joe to think i was going to run off with nick so i said nothing and we continued to sit there for another half hour.
another girl from work called chris and asked if he wanted to hang out, so she was invited over and came over. but it was getting late and i needed a ride home (since nick had brought me there.) nick continuously offered to drive me home since he had brought me to his cousin's house in the first place, but joe said he would drive me home too, and i obviously couldn't take a ride from another guy right in front of my boyfriend. so joe took me home that night and that was the end of that.
i haven't seen nick or chris outside of work since then. i'm really confused as to what nick wants from me, because even though he has a girlfriend, he flirts with me.
what do you think nick wants from me? do you think he wants me in his life as a friend, or something more? i feel like if we were both single, we would have hooked up or would have talked about liking each other by now, but maybe nick just treats every girl this way - i can't tell.
i've been a good girl my whole life, and i've always done the right thing. i can't forgive myself for having feelings for another guy while having a boyfriend. i feel so guilty about it, but i would never take it any further than the emotions in my head - i'd never cheat on joe.
what should i do about my relationship with joe? the less i analyze my relationship (or lack thereof) with nick, the easier it is for me to ease back into my relationship with joe, but i don't know if i'm in a relationship for the right reasons. i know nick is probably not the right guy for me - i mean, he comes with a lot of baggage for one thing, and he's also not even single - but i can't stop thinking about him. and i know i shouldn't, because i already have a good boyfriend.
does having feelings for another guy mean i should break up with my boyfriend? does it mean that i subconsciously don't really like my boyfriend that much? i'm so lost. (link)
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I believe you should stay with your boyfriend especially since your boyfriend treats you so well. This Nick guy sounds like a player. Trust me I know, if a guy knows a girl is taken, they should back off and not continue to flirt. Plus he has a baby with another girl. He has baggage. You definitely should stay with your boyfriend.
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right, im 17 and im struggling right now with a sticky situation i seem really confused with my love life, like i dont know what i want right now.
i've dated this guy for over a year and it was the best but around november last year he ended it then he came running back to me , so i decided alright il give him a chance but hmmm i went on holiday right and when i came back he kept saying we were gonna get together but now its been 7 months and im tired of waiting i still have feelings for him & such but i got to the point where i cant take it anymore. he wanted to see me but i rejected him ,
another thing is that i've known this other guy for quite some time but recently we started talking alot and i really like speaking to him he always compliments me , hes nice we have good convos and well thats something me and my ex dont have , he never compliments me hes done things to me that has made me hate him so much but yet i always end up forgiving him and giving him a chance , around febuary he started dating this girl while he was telling me he wanted to be with me and ah i dont know what to do , he left her for me but i cant forget what he done :( plus he also had the cheek to tell me he had sex with this other girl but how it meant nothing..i understand i appreciate his honesty but it hurt alot cause even though we weren't together it killed me inside...
sometimes i feel to move on from him but I CANTT i dont know what stops me from moving on i wanna get over him but i have feelings.
However im afraid im gonna end up falling for this other guy, the way he speaks is so different im SOOO CONFUSED :(
i thought i would be happy to get back with my ex one day but the past helps me recognise his errors too.
please help me im really on the urge to losing it ;/ :( pleaseeee ! (link)
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I been in the same boat you been in. I was with my ex for a while and after we broke up, our relationship was on and off. He always send me mix signals. And one day I was sure we was going to get back together, but no we never did. All he ever does is hurt me all the time. I was emotionally broken. I got over my ex. I had to let him go, later on. I'm 20 now. My ex was soooo high school. I have a boyfriend now, who I love, who lights up my day, who treats me like a princess. Give this other guy a chance, but take things slow with him. Hope this help. You need to get over your ex because he's the one who hurt you so much. Sometimes enough is just enough. You deserve better.
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i dnt want to sound all jealous or like a gf that doesnt let her bf have friends or anything but today i was at the mall right? Just hanging with my pops. and outof no where my bf is walking with some chick, i wouldnt really care but the werid thing is that he has been ignoring my texts for the past two days. so i dunno what to believe . they were not holding hands or anything .. what a relif.. but i was thinking , maybe he is cheating on me bcuz he was at the mall with another chick,hasnt texted me in 2 days and maybe he waz busy so mabye he couldnt of texted me but being at the mall is not busy. o ya he texted me saying y i didnt say hi and all and said that they r jus friends . can anyone help me ? do u think his cheating ? thanks for reading (link)
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Well you might want to question him. I mean not answering your text for two days is not good. Well my boyfriend sometimes go a hour or two without answering cause he gets busy, or he sleeps or helps his parents out. I mean I get that, or he goes hours without responding cause he is at work. But two days is extreme. And I know all my bf's friends that are girls are only friends. I met them all. And I honestly trust him. And if he's hanging out with his friends guy or girl I know, just like he trust me when I am hanging out with my guy friends. So trust is something you need to establish with him.If he isn't holding hands than maybe she really is a friend. You need to talk to him.
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i am 10 and i wanna have sex so badly with a boy ,is it okay?!?!?!? (link)
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If this is a serious question, than the answer is no. Seriously, you are way too young to think about sex. I didn't loose my virginity till I was 20 cause I waited with guy I love. Trust me there is a time and place for that when you are ready when you are older. Wait 6 or 7 years for that. At ten your body is not developed yet, that is when you hit puberty. Trust me, your tooooo young
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