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laptops do and donts? I used his laptop, saw porn history and I don't know how to feel...
so me and m boyfriend have been together for about a year. we dont live together. I'm in college and was using his laptop to catch up on some homework while he was at work when i was typing something into the top and it came up with past history of him looking at hot sex nude videos among other things. im not sure how i should respond. i feel like i should be upset and angry or am i just over reacting?
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A lot of boys look at porn - but then again, a lot of girls do too, whether they admit it or not.
Of course it's gonna bother you - he's looking at other women, whether he finds them attractive or not. Either way, I guess it bothers some more than others.
Just talk to him about it - say you were doing your work and that his history came up when you were typing in the search bar and see what he says.
Don't stress about it though - it's just visual and nothing physical. Remember that :)
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It's ok. Most all guy's look at porn. If you have sex with him this does not mean you are not good or anything. Like I said most guy's look at porn. Now if he said that this girl can fuck bitter then you...that's not ok. But he did not said that. But know this: you are not over reacting. Most girl would have acted the way you acted. It's ok to freak out. As long as you don't take it out on him. Like we all said:I don't think you will ever find a men that does not look at porn a blue moon. If you think that he should only look at you boobs and stuff(and STUFF)he might think you are being unfair. Are you? Well him going out and having sex with a woman IS chatting. But looking at porn....don't know.But know this if he can look at porn so can you.
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You are over reacting, This is typical guy behavior. Almost every guy you date will have his moments of porn, Getting all pissy about it isn't going to solve anything. As long as it doesn't effective your relationship then he isn't doing anything wrong.
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Literally every boy you ever date will have the same thing. If being upset and angry over something likely to occur with every guy you date sounds like as much a drag to you as it does to me, then yeah, probably an overreaction.
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This is quite normal boy behavior. but only you would know how you feel about it. You need to talk with your boyfriend and tell him how you feel.
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you have a right to be upset. It's one thing for a guy to look at a picture of a girl, if it's just a picture. And mean nothing, if they like in magazines you know. My boyfriend sometimes but not always will look at those girls but I asked a guy friend and he said he looked at those type of pictures too but dont mean a thing to him even when he in a relationship. But in your situation it's more than that because he looking up hot sex. You need talk to him. Because if he just looking that's fine. But this cross the line.
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