AdviceMistress answered Wednesday October 26 2011, 3:59 pm: Everyone thinks about it differently and has certain rules about it. It's pretty much cheating because it's another person and not your boyfriend it should just be you and him in the relationship. Making out or what have you with someone else is cheating! [ AdviceMistress's advice column | Ask AdviceMistress A Question ]
Carriebeca answered Wednesday October 26 2011, 3:02 pm: I don't know if this question refers to you and your boyfriend or someone else, but I'll answer as if you're the one who's cheating.
I would say yes, because it's not the sex of the person that matters. It's the betrayal of trust between you and your boyfriend that makes it cheating. Sorry if the truth hurts, but I think you should own up to your actions and take responsibility; we all make mistakes, it's how we learn what's right.
Once the mistake is accepted, you can move on, whether with or without your boyfriend is up to him.
Hope this helps, good luck, let me know what happens? [ Carriebeca's advice column | Ask Carriebeca A Question ]
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