|
He has a girlfriend, but he flirts with me...
Hey, thanks for taking the time to read this. I am 17, female. The boy I will be talking about is 17 as well and also has a girlfriend. This kid was in my 10th grade english class and now this year we have a class together. In english, I felt like he was flirting with me then but he went and got a girlfriend half way through 11th grade year. This year in the class we have together, I feel like he is flirting with me again... there is this girl in my class who has an infamous name around our school for doing something illegal and my friend wanted to know who she was so he told me to take a picture of her and send it to him, I am not bold enough to do something like that so, this boy who has a girlfriend took the picture of her for me on his phone and sent it to me. I thought that he did it just so he could get my number because he needed to send it to me. I am usually not a quiet girl but on the off chance I am being quiet, he will intentionally talk loud enough for me to hear to the girl that sits in between us and say something mean about me so I look at him, tell him he's mean and smile at him and he'll flash his charming smile back. I will sometimes be talking to the boy that sits to the left of me and the boy that has the girlfriend will laugh because he doesn't hear/can't understand what I am saying when I wasn't even talking to him. Next month my best friend is putting on a benefit concert and he told me to recruit many people to go. I told the boy in my class that I would really like if he would go and he wasn't aware of what it was so I explained it to him. After I told him how he goes about getting a ticket and telling him that he better go, he said he would feel like a dick if he doesn't go knowing that I would like if he did. He didn't say anything about telling his girlfriend and seeing what she wants to do. Also, when he realizes I am having problems with something in that class, he will come over to me, lean over me and explain it to me. The thing that really made me think he's flirting is last week, I was listening to my best guy friend singing a song and I said how happy his song makes me and how good of a singer I think my friend is and the boy with the girlfriend said he could probably do better.
Do you think he is major flirting? If so, what do you think I should do about it considering he has a girlfriend? Thanks
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships?
Let me ask you a question.
How would you feel if you were his girlfriend and he was doing this behind your back? You wouldn't like it or appreciate it very much I bet.
Point blank he is off limits, he's not single and he's being a jerk. To flirt with someone else besides your girlfriend is pretty much asking for trouble. If I were you I'd be friendly like "hi" "how are you?" and thats its nothing more. Stay away from him he's bad news. Think about it this way even if he were to let's say "break it off" with his girlfriend and go out with you. What's not to say he won't do the same thing behing your back and talk/flirt with another girl behind your back?
]
More Questions: |