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boyfriend hanging with another chick
i dnt want to sound all jealous or like a gf that doesnt let her bf have friends or anything but today i was at the mall right? Just hanging with my pops. and outof no where my bf is walking with some chick, i wouldnt really care but the werid thing is that he has been ignoring my texts for the past two days. so i dunno what to believe . they were not holding hands or anything .. what a relif.. but i was thinking , maybe he is cheating on me bcuz he was at the mall with another chick,hasnt texted me in 2 days and maybe he waz busy so mabye he couldnt of texted me but being at the mall is not busy. o ya he texted me saying y i didnt say hi and all and said that they r jus friends . can anyone help me ? do u think his cheating ? thanks for reading
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Yeah, the breakup is coming babe, so be ready for it. He is just too chicken right now to go to you and make the announcement.
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Well you might want to question him. I mean not answering your text for two days is not good. Well my boyfriend sometimes go a hour or two without answering cause he gets busy, or he sleeps or helps his parents out. I mean I get that, or he goes hours without responding cause he is at work. But two days is extreme. And I know all my bf's friends that are girls are only friends. I met them all. And I honestly trust him. And if he's hanging out with his friends guy or girl I know, just like he trust me when I am hanging out with my guy friends. So trust is something you need to establish with him.If he isn't holding hands than maybe she really is a friend. You need to talk to him.
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Girl just relax! This has been done before. If he didn't answer ur texts many he seriously was busy, I mean can YOU anser EVERY SINGLE text at the EXACT moment u get them? I know I can't! And maby when he was gonna hang out with this other girl he didn't feel any importance over it to tell you. Until he probably saw "that expression" on your face that told him what you thought. So just calm down, and hear him out!
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Your boyfriend should have atleast told you that he was going to be hanging out with someone else... and him not answering your text is not right... I advise you confront him and talk to him about how your feeling and if he doesnt seem to care than its time to leave him and move on good luck and I wish the best for you
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Your boyfriend is being sketchy and lying to you.
No respectful boyfriend ignores his girlfriend's text messages for two whole days. He couldn't have been THAT busy.
The fact you saw him at the mall with a girl you didn't know? He's cheating, or at least thinking about it. You don't hang out with just one person of the opposite sex, alone, if you are in a relationship. If he did have a girl best friend that he liked to spend time with, you would have known about her already.
If he really was just friends with her, he would have said hi to you and introduced you.
I suggest you CALL your boyfriend (texting just lets him have time to think of excuses or ignore you) and ask him to meet up in person. Then ask him to explain himself and be honest. Tell him that if you want to continue dating each other, he has to communicate with you more often, and tell you about girls he is hanging out with. Tell him you want to meet his friends and know the people he spends time with.
If he can't handle this, then he is not mature enough to be your boyfriend and you are better without him. If I was you, I would have dumped him on the spot.
-Abby
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