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My boy friend wants to have sex Help!!
Well i am a virgen and My boy friend is one too and he always talks about how he wants to lose it well I said soon and he said how soon and i said whenever (Dumb answer) And he wants to do it in about 4 days Help!!Idont no what to do So plz leave a comment telling me what i should do !!
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If you don't want to lose your virginity yet,don't.Because if you do,and didn't want to,your going to regret it.Just tell him the truth.
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Stay a virgin. Don't let him pressure you into losing your virginity. EVER. Because, what happens when you two break up? (If you have sex, you probably will break up, due to the emotional wreck that comes after sex. I, for example, am going to stay a virgin until the day I marry. There is no better wedding gift than looking a guy in the eyes on your wedding night and being able to say you waited for him. And yes, God has a future husband for you out there. And a future wife for your boyfriend. Think about it, would you wan't your future hisband doing what your boyfriend is doing right now? Probably not. And neither would his wife. Besides all the emotional wreck that comes after giving your everything to a guy, there is also a bunch of physical consequences, Pregnancy, for one thing. Then STD's, 1 in every 4 girls who have sex end up with an STD. And when you are having sex with a guy, you are also having sex with all the girls that guy has had sex with, and that increases the STD possibilities even more. Imagine looking at your husband on your wedding night and telling him you have an STD? This will lower your chances of getting married A BUNCH. And if youre not sure ou are ready, YOU'RE NOT. When you are, you will know it. So tell your boyfriend you don't want to have sex with him. If he understands, hey, this might be your future husband someday. If he leaves you, hes a complete jerk and you should thank God he saved you from a guy like that. Remember to stand your ground and do not give in. There is nothing more unique and beautiful than a pure, virgin, girl. So don't fall into the crowd of those used, impure girls. Stay a virgin. You will eb happy you did it. P.S- 90% of girls who had sex before marriage regretted it and wish they had waited. Be strong. Good Luck!
-Millie :)
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Sweetie all I can tell you is to do have sex whenever you are ready. it should be no pressure. I am 20. I lost my virginity when I am 20. My boyfriend isn't a virgin. I knew from the start, and he knew from a start I was. He never pressured me for sex. He told me from the start that whenever we are both ready for the next step. I been with him 5 months before I lost my virginity to him. Sex isn't planned. It kind of happens when the moment is right. If you are not ready for sex, you should not be having sex. Sex is something you both have to be ready for. You should tell him, that you are not ready right now. If he cares for you, loves you, he should understand.
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The best advice I can give you when it comes to sex, be you a virgin or long time practitioner: NEVER EVER ALLOW YOURSELF TO COERCED OR FORCED INTO DOING SOMETHING YOU DON'T WANT TO DO.
Sex has to be mutually agreed to to be enjoyable. If one partner is not willing or is anyway not an active participant it is not going to be an enjoyable event.
It also has to be understood that NO means NO when ever one or the other says it. Stop also means STOP whenever it is said. TO continue is RAPE. You do not want to have sex. If your boyfriend in anyway forces you to do something you have told him you don't want to do that is RAPE. It is that simple.
If your boyfriend has put a time limit on when you have to have sex he is not much of a boyfriend. If he does not respect you enough to wait until you are ready then his only interest is sex not lot love. Tell him to get lost.
There are boys out there who will respect you and love you for who you are . You deserve to find a boy who does respect you and is in love with you not just lusts for you. Many boy confuse lust for love. Your current boyfriend has placed lust ahead of all else. Show where the door is.
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Asking a question on here shows you arent ready. I dont know how old you are. Having sex now will ruin you. Youll want it more and more. You may end up pregnant. When you do find that man you want to marry you'll regret not lossing it with him.
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