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so my boyfriend of over seven months just broke up with me. He's 15 and im 16/f (almost 17 in a couple days.. thats right. he broke up with me a week before my birthday). MANY times before i wanted to break up with him. i distinctly remember 4 times and he was so scared and begged me not to, so i stayed with him and tried to work it out. He ended up treating me like a princess last week and i was happy and fine, everything was good,and then he dumps me. He said he was just tired of fighting (because we fought alot that week.) i asked him to give me a week,and if he still felt the same way by then, i would do what he wanted. well he gave it over night and then broke up with me through a text message in my firt period class. he said he just wanted to be with his friends and be single...i guess so he could flirt with other girls and keep his options open(he wasnt the type to cheat and leave me for someone.) he was like "maybe we should break up and get back together later" he just put me on the shelf so he can come back to me later. well i dont want him back. its been hard on me. i just want to know he cares, but i havent contacted him or talked to him at all since, which its only been like 4 days but still.. anyways, what i want is for him to come back and miss me like crazy that way i can say 'im sorry, you're the one that broke up with me. i dont think that i can go out with you again.' he gave up the only girl that would go out with his sorry butt for that long, because honestly he was an ass. so on facebook, i deleted everything.. all the pictures and stuff. now idk what to put as my status. im not going to put something sad because im NOT going to let him know that i miss him. i want him to wonder what im doing. so please help me think of some stuff to put as my status thatll make him wonder what im up to. ANYTHING will be helpful. i know it seems like a stupid and insignificant thing that ask, but Im in desperate need of this lol. Will Rate. (link)
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"had fun with him today :)
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Is the 7th time a charm?
April, 26, 2011
I tried to commit suicide today for the 6th time today. I cant do anything right.If I had apistol it would be over by now, but i am a felon and I do not know where too purchase one illegally. I've tried pills, exsangunation, more pills,(note: 375 tylenol will not kill u even w/oa stomach pump I got this idea in my head that if I took tylenol long enough, slowbleeding ( I got 25 tylenol I took a day for 8 years, finally developed an ulcer and almost beld to deathSO Close that one. And then today, electrocution, I poured a bath. Got some electrical instruments, a lamp , and a telephone because the stupid space heater wouldn't work. And it did nothing. Good for nothing. Oh yeah, and self immolation...thatdidnt quite work because my mom ran in the house and I didn't want her to get hurt. I really dont undersstand what I'm trying to say, I think it's just that someone has to know a sure way to die. This Hell can't be anymore worse than the real Hell. At least in my mind. I've been on meds, docs, I can't get a job. Haven't had one for over almost a year. At least i can sit and rot in hell. I'm no use here. Everything was taken from me, I have no hope or streength to continue with this so called charade. I haven't been in a relationship for 10 years. I don't know what loe is anymore. I can't even love myself. And all I'm going to here is NO NO dont do it it will get better blah blah bllha. For me, it's only gotten worse. It is the endpoint. ood Day, and God Bless, one more day of hell. (link)
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Have you ever thought maybe there's a reason all of your tries have failed? Don't you think you're here for a reason? Whether you believe in God or not, we're all here for some reason even if it may not seem clear to you at the moment. I'm not going to sit here and tell you life will get better but I'm also not going to help you do something that I do not approve of. Everyone goes through rough patches. for some people those patches last longer than others. For some it may seem like it will never end. If I tell you everything will get better, you will disagree therefor it will only make you feel worse for feeling as if those around you can't be trusted. You're the only person in control of your life. If you wake up one morning and say to yourself "I'm going to be happy today" chances are much higher that you will have a good day. You can't just say things though, you have to stick with it. The way you think has a great impact on how you feel. Since you have been thinking in a negative way for quite a while now, it's only obvious that you will not be happy. If you wake up in a depressed mood, thinking negative thoughts, you won't have a good day.
Love isn't the only thing in this world. You said you haven't had a job for almost a year? That should just push you to try harder to better yourself and find a job. Haven't been in a relationship for almost 10 years? How would you expect to be in a relationship if you're so harsh on yourself? You have to gain your confidence back. I'm sure you weren't depressed your whole life. You have to look on the bright side and make things happen, don't expect someone to magically turn your life around because you're the only person with that power. Good Luck on whatever decision you choose to make. If you ever want to talk you can always message me.
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i don't wear makeup everyday, but when i do, I love dark shades or smokey eyes.
I have tons of really good pigmented eye shadows, but somehow when i apply them with my brush they don't look as deep. AND i do use eyeshadow primer.
I used a sponge eyeshadow applicator and it applied it quite dark, compared to my normal brush...so i was wondering if maybe there is an art of making the color show deeper?
I also hate the sponge applicators because they poke my eyeball and never look neat!
SO, how can i use my brush to get a deeper color? (link)
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you can wet the brush before dipping it in the eyeshadow but make sure the brush is only damp. you can also use eye primer, it's like a concealer for your eyelids. it makes the color more vibrant, gets rid of creases and makes your eyeshadow last longer. hope i helped :)
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People at my school kicks me or shouts at me for no reason at all. They even talk about me, thinking that I don't hear them, but I really do. I don't know what I do to them, I'm really kind to everyone. They say that I'm a liar, mean, stupid (even if I get the best grades), and ugly (even though I think that my face is okay. What the heck is with them? (link)
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just ignore them. let them waste their time with that nonsense. keep your head high. haters make you famous. you must be doing something right if you're on their mind. it's called jealousy
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So true. that's the same thing she told me. to use condom the first 7 days and then after that to enjoy. :) . does it feels good when a boy come inside you? do you get more pleasure..?? am sorry for this weird questions. (link)
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haha, no problem. it actually depends on the girl. to me it feels really good. it's like a warm liquid. for some reason it brought me and my partner closer emotionally. but for other girls, it doesn't really feel any different but the fact that they know it turns on their partner(the guy) a lot more turns on the girl more out of satisfaction haha. your partner will definitely enjoy it a lot more than he would if he didn't cum in you.
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OK so it's true?? because i wanna have sex with my boyfriend but i just don't feel nothing down there. i feel so disappointed. i just hope that when i start drinking them i will have feel pleasure down there! (link)
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yes, it's true. you're doctor may tell you to use a back up birth control (ex. condom, spermicide, etc) for the first seven days just to be more safe. after those days are over go have fun with your boyfriend. when he's about to cum, tell him not to pull out. it gives more pleasure to both of you.
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ok , when i have sex i don't feel nothing. am going to start drinking birth control pills. my nurse told me the birth control pills will give me pleasure while having sex. do you think this is true..??? (link)
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i believe it's true as well. i'm also on birth control. i think people say it gives you more pleasure due to the fact that you feel a lot more comfortable knowing there is a very low chance you can become pregnant and he is also allowed to cum in you. just remember to take them on time, make sure you know the symptoms your pills causes, and pills do not protect you against STDs. hope i helped. feel free to ask me any questions :)
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should i use frostwire? i used to use limewire along time ago to downlaod music to my ipod, but it screwed up my computer with a virus. Is frostwire safe, if not what are some other sites that are virus-free? (link)
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i used to use limewire now I only use frostwire. works great. I haven't had any virus problems. the only bad thing about it is if you us itunes too you actually have to drag each song to the file. Not quite sure how to explain that part haha but anyways, i personally love frostwire :) hope i helped
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Hi 19/f
I started taking birth control last month, and am now on my second pack. I am on my second week of my current pack, so I have to finish the rest of this weeks, and next weeks and then I will be on placebos. Once those run out, and I start my new pack, would I be able to take them at a different time? Right now I'm taking them at 8:30 pm because I was living in CA and had to make sure I took them at the same time so 5:30 there is 8:30 where I am now and I think that's too late. I want to start taking them around 2 or 3pm, but I don't know if that would be an issue or not.
Thanks! (link)
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No, it would not since you are actually taking them earlier. Each pill usually lasts around 24 hours. you are still protected even if you miss a pill just the percentage drops a bit. Don't worry. Just make sure you start taking your pills around the new time everyday. Good luck at your new place (:
-- I'm on my third month of being on the pill and I've asked my doctor soooo many questions, this being one of them haha
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so ive been very easy recently. i dont make boys play hard fo rme i give in really easily but i really like this guy and he doesnt like me because im so easy so how do i go from being a complet slut to hard 2 get? (link)
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Drop all the boys. stop flirting. If you like to show your 'goodies' start covering up. not like turtle necks and long sleeves, just clothes that aren't too revealing. learn how to have more respect for yourself. if you continue hanging out with other boys then just remember you're only hurting yourself because the boy you like isn't going to want to be with you if he sees you with other people. show the boy you like who you really are deep down. let him know you're personality before doing anything. if you continue being "easy" no guy is ever going to respect you and they're just going to walk all over you. trust me, i learned the hard way.
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listen i relly liek this guy and we laugh alot and liek hanging out together . we play little games but sometimes we act liek enemys bcuz thats how ppl expect us to be.but now i rly kike him and i dnt know what to do im just a kid but my school has already dating involved and i wnt this guy to like me. what should i do
im a girl and 11 (link)
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There is no reason to act fake AT ALL. You shouldn't care what others think. If you're keep trying to show people what they want to see you're going to have a lot of drama in high school. Finding yourself is a part of growing up, you can't find yourself if you're acting like someone you're not. Just tell the boy how you feel about him. I remember at your age people who were crushing on each other would act like they hate each other in front of others. He could possibly like you too. Just tell him the truth and hope for the best. good luck [:
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Hey guysss!
Basically, im making youtube videos.
BUT, i need help! I need ya'll to tell me how to edit videos! Like how to cut little bits out to get straight to the point..or fast forwarding it, so people can see whats still happening but its just going faster..and how to edit audio for different PARTS of the the same video.. like if im talking normally,then theres something i wana say in a different voice, just til im done saying it and go back to my normal voice. How do i edit my voice like FRED on youtube? and how can i make it slow motion,deeper. Please, im a newbie! and i need lotsa help! i mean, i have windows movie maker on my laptop. and thats it.. and i cant even use that because i dont know how to.. any help would be appreciated! Thanks in advance, peace!.p.s if you had any ideas for my comedy youtube videos then feel free to tell me them! thanksss i need all the ideas and help i can get. Bye guys x i'll give u a 5 if u help me hahaa x (link)
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I've NEVER done it before but I see you need help and the previous answer didn't seem very informative haha.
here's a link on how to edit youtube videos, instead of doing steps 1 and 2, use your own video:
http://how.best-free-information.com/2009/04/how-to-edit-a-youtube-video/
Not sure if I helped, hopefully I did. Good luck! (:
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i want to know wat people think about people who start random fights for no reason (link)
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I think they do it for attention or/and to make themselves feel superior than whoever they start stuff with.
It depends on the type of person they are.
there are people who do it to make themselves feel better.
people who do it because they're bored.
And people who do it without even realizing
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Well My boyfriend Touched Another Girls Butt. And Said He Didnt Mean To,I Just Dont Belive It Im so hurt, I Live With Him I Have No Where Else To Go. I Dont Know If I Should Stay Or Go. I Really Love Him! im Just So Jelous! I Get Jelous Over Anything What Do I Do Please Help! (link)
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he may be telling you the truth. Just try having an actual conversation, don't just ask him if he did it. Tell him how it makes you feel and how he shouldn't be putting his hands on anyone but YOU. if you genuinely love him then you shouldn't let something like this ruin your whole relationship. If it's bothering you a lot then you should go spend a day or two at your friend's house so you can get your head straight. Just remember, he's with you, not her. I get jealous very easily but I think that's just because we are girls haha. What I do if something like that happens is tell myself he's MY boyfriend, not hers. He wants ME, not her. Don't let some stupid girl tear you guys apart, everyone makes mistakes. There's a song that says "you can't live in the past. You either gotta let that shit go, or let me go"
In the end the decision is yours, I can go on and on about what I think but what I think shouldn't matter to you. No one on here knows exactly how you feel about him or the history between the two of you. I would personally talk to him about it and if he ends up doing something again then that's when i would start wondering whether i should stay or leave.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out.
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What does wake and bake mean?? This guy allways says it( not to me) but just aloud it's really annoying whatever itmeans please tell me (link)
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It means waking up and getting high. The guy is probably just wanting attention. they're some songs about it too. just google "wake and bake lyrics" and you can read them
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hey im 13 and i think its time i kiss my bf already but ive never kissed ,,,,and wht i heard is tht he has expirence sooo wht shud i do? (link)
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Just don't really think about it. it's not something that has to have instructions haha.
all you do is go with the flow. you're natural instincts will kick in and you will be just fine :) just because he is "experienced" doesn't mean he's good at it. he an be just as nervous as you especially since it's gonna be your first kiss. have fun. hope this helped if you ever have any questions you can just email me at: victoriadvice@yahoo.com
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whats some fun things to do in the house when grounded? (link)
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well i'm not sure what you're grounded from because i know some people that get grounded from just leaving the house and some people that get EVERYTHING (tv, phone, ipod, etc) taken away and still have to stay home. due to the fact that you're on the computer you can easily entertain yourself. you can also draw, read, write poetry and stuff, exercise, it depends on what your hobbies are.
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So me and this guy kissed like two days ago he didnt have a problem with it. But he has not re4plied to any of my calls or text for the past couple of days. he was my first kiss and like i promised him he would be my first french kiss too. but did he not reply or call back because i am a bad kisser. i am 14 and i am a female. (link)
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there is no such thing as a bad kisser. you are just over-thinking everything. just forget about him, boys will be boys. he's probably scared to talk to you because now he's probably nervous or he's decided to be a jerk which means he wasn't worth your time anyways
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Hi my name is Sabine and I’m 28 years old. I have a question I try to get pregnant from my boyfriend but is not working, we was both by at least 4 different Dr, and all day the same thing “you guys are ok keep trying”. So I when and got the “ovulation text” so I did it every day the last 2 months. So my question is ; is that possibly that I do NOT have the ovulation time????????? (link)
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every girl who has their period has an ovulation time. it usually occurs between days 12-20 of your cycle the only advice i can give you is don't give up and be patient. eventually it will have to work.
also it is said that if you do the "Post-coital Tilt" you have a higher chance of getting pregnant:
When you're done playing, stick a pillow under your hips and elevate them slightly for 15-20 minutes. You're increasing your odds and sperm swimming to the cervix. You don't have to put your legs in the air and you don't need an expensive "infertility pillow," either – just throw a towel over the pillow and get comfy.
you can also visit this site:
http://www.babycenter.com/ovulation-calculator
to help you figure out when you're ovulating.
hope this helps. good luck :)
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Hi...
My friend smokes pot a lot and he invited me to come to his house this weekend and smoke with him. I've been playing it off this entire time and haven't told him that I've never smoked a joint before. It's kind of embarrassing to just tell him that it's new to me though.
I'm a little iffy on the whole issue. I don't know what to think of it. Should I smoke pot with him? It can't hurt to right? (link)
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F/16. Don't do it. Trust me when I say that weed is a gateway drug. Even if you think "oh I'm just gonna do it once, nothings gonna happen" that's exactly what I said two years ago rite before I did it the first time. Now I'm addicted to extacy and I fucked up most of my life. Drugs fuck with your head. I know a lot of people that have dramatically changed for the worse just by using marijuana. I wouldn't recommend dong it but if you do end up deciding to do it, be careful. Your gonna feel relaxed. It'll hit you around 20-30 minute after you do it, everything will just pop out. Don't try to read because it's hella trippy haha (I've done it at school) You can always tell your friend you can't go. You can't really think when you're on it and some people act stupid. I can't tell you exactly what will happen to you because there's people who have the "good journeys" and people who have the "bad journeys" it all depends on how your body reacts to it. My friend ended up in the hospital just because I guess her body didn't react good to it at all. Be careful. Remember do what YOU want not what others want :] hope I helped.
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