Well My boyfriend Touched Another Girls Butt. And Said He Didnt Mean To,I Just Dont Belive It Im so hurt, I Live With Him I Have No Where Else To Go. I Dont Know If I Should Stay Or Go. I Really Love Him! im Just So Jelous! I Get Jelous Over Anything What Do I Do Please Help!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? miranda_love answered Sunday January 9 2011, 10:01 pm: Well there's only one thing you can do is probably give him some space. Just don't talk to him because your probably really mad and jealous right now that he touched another girls butt. He doesn't want to be yelled at and I'm sure you both will get in a fight. When he wants to talk about it he can say he did or didn't or you can bring it up. But for now just give him some space and some space for you too. Try to get your mind off of him because it's making you really hurt. You will feel better about yourself and not so insecure about this guy. I hope my advice helped! I know how that is though. [ miranda_love's advice column | Ask miranda_love A Question ]
-exotica- answered Sunday January 9 2011, 12:58 am: he may be telling you the truth. Just try having an actual conversation, don't just ask him if he did it. Tell him how it makes you feel and how he shouldn't be putting his hands on anyone but YOU. if you genuinely love him then you shouldn't let something like this ruin your whole relationship. If it's bothering you a lot then you should go spend a day or two at your friend's house so you can get your head straight. Just remember, he's with you, not her. I get jealous very easily but I think that's just because we are girls haha. What I do if something like that happens is tell myself he's MY boyfriend, not hers. He wants ME, not her. Don't let some stupid girl tear you guys apart, everyone makes mistakes. There's a song that says "you can't live in the past. You either gotta let that shit go, or let me go"
In the end the decision is yours, I can go on and on about what I think but what I think shouldn't matter to you. No one on here knows exactly how you feel about him or the history between the two of you. I would personally talk to him about it and if he ends up doing something again then that's when i would start wondering whether i should stay or leave.
I wish you the best of luck and I hope everything works out. [ -exotica-'s advice column | Ask -exotica- A Question ]
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