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Sex: Why is my girlfriend delaying sex?
My girlfriend delays when we must have sex. What might be the cause of procrastination? And our relationship is doing well
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maybe shes just nervous or scared. try asking her about it and shell probly express her feelings. give it time and as your relationship gets stronger i think she will open up and commit to you but try not to push her or else she might think you just want sex and leave.
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I have a question. Who or what put the "MUST" in having sex? Last time I checked sex was a strictly voluntary event for which there is no MUST about it. If it is your feeling that your girlfriend "MSUT" have sex with you for some reason then your answer is staring you in the face. She must WANT to have sex with you before she WILL have sex with you.
Try taking the "MUST out of it and try wooing her into a having sex with you. If you do this you will get more sex then if you make a girl feel see is obligated to have sex with you because you have honored her by dating her.
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I make my boyfriend wait for 5 months in our relationship before we had sex. I wanted to be ready. He respected that. I told him, I wasn't the kind of girl that is just a one night stand, and that's it. I told him, I wanted a long relationship before we had sex. Ask your girl why. It could be she's not ready for that step. You have to respect that. maybe she does believes in no sex before marriage. Respect that. You have respect your girlfriend and her decision. I don't know how old you are. But there shouldn't be a rush for sex. There is a time, where you guys will experience the beauty of it. Sex really is a beautiful with the right person. If you love her, respect her decision why she does not want sex right now.
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Sorry but I have to ask. How old are you? That could be playing major role in the reason behind why she is delaying sex. There could be numerous reasons. Maybe she is saving herself until she is married because it's her belief. You should really stop and ask why the rush. If you truly love her then you won't force her. Sure there are physical needs. Don't get me wrong all us guys feel it, even girls want it too. If any guy or girl says they don't then they are full of BS. I suggest you ask her or talk to her. You haven't put enough information on here for anyone to give you a clear answer or to fully understand the situation. Sorry but it's the truth. I'm sure she has her reasons. One thing you have to understand is that women attach themselves usually more emotionally then physically, unlike us men who are usually the opposite. Yeah sure there are those few women that are very very sexual. Honestly, women do it just as much as men if not more, but if a woman wants it to be serious then it is valued with an emotional attachment. I'm hoping this helps you a little. Just don't force her. If she wants to she will.
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