Question Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 4:45 pm
There's this girl who I like (im a girl too) and I know she's bi curious as am I. Thing is we both have boyfriends and she doesn't know I'm interested. Or even if she thinks the same. I don't know where to start. Help?
17/f
My boyfriend knows I'm bi-curious
Additional info, added Saturday September 15 2012, 9:19 pm: I'm not looking for a relationship just to fool around though so I guess it's more lustful. My bf and I have been together for close to year and I do love him very much, I've simply been craving women. Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jay33 answered Saturday September 15 2012, 7:00 pm: Hey if you want to be with a girl then be with a girl. The only trouble I see in what you are asking is that you currently have a boyfriend. Does anyone believe in commitment anymore? If you want to be with your bf then stay with him and work things out. Curiosity is one thing but acting on it would be cheating. I don't think its fair to your bf for you to act on anything without talking to him first. As the other person answers said, cool it with your bf first before switching fields. People may argue with me and say commitment is just a term but some of us still believe in it. Make sure you understand the consequences of any actions and more important be honest with everyone involved.
I forgot to write to answer the other part of your question. If you want to find out then take the initiative to find out. Like I said be open and honest to everyone, especially yourself. You can talk to her about your feelings and see what she thinks and if it something to pursue. Just remember that there can and probably will be consequences to your decision and actions. So don't be shocked if certain things happen. It could be a good thing and it could be a bad. It's a risk you will have to take. [ Jay33's advice column | Ask Jay33 A Question ]
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