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I have no friends and I don't know what to do about this situation


Question Posted Saturday September 15 2012, 3:04 pm

See this is a long story. It all started yesterday when one my good friends didn't invite me to her birthday party. I found after over hearing a conversation between 2 others who I talk to. I was really pissed but then I became more pissed when a majority of the school started to block me on instagram and Facebook. Then I got pissed and wrote a status on how selfish people could be which led to my "friend" messaging me saying to couldn't invite me due to my social anxiety disorder.i said I didn't care about the party but I cared how she lied to me. She said she saw the status also her parents and said we can't be close friends anymore. I was very upset and told her how I got too much going on (grandparents dying, dad not being around, being in the closet, etc) she said it wasn't an excuse to b mean to her. The status wasn't targeting her but to everyone in my life. She said she still cares about me but if she cared about me she wouldn't leave me. I have had 2 really close friends of mine leave me too and she was the only one left. It bothers me a lot because I'm not well liked at school. I want school to be fun becaus my home life isn't show great. What should I do I want to say something to her but what do I say

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AdviceMistress answered Monday September 17 2012, 9:31 am:
I know this may not be the advice you want but its something that I have learned over the years. It's a pretty crappy thing that she did to you. If she is your friend there should be nothing stopping her from inviting you places or to parties. That's not a real friend right there. A real friend is someone that supports you no matter what and will be there for you no matter what. If someone wants to walk out of your life let them go. When she realizes what she did she'll find out what she's missing and by that time it'll be too late.
Also you should take a lesson from this...maybe it's not best to post anything like that on facebook because sometimes it can get you into trouble. Good luck!

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