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There's this girl who I like (im a girl too) and I know she's bi curious as am I. Thing is we both have boyfriends and she doesn't know I'm interested. Or even if she thinks the same. I don't know where to start. Help?
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My boyfriend knows I'm bi-curious (link)
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I'm a lesbian too and if you bi curios, then cool it with ur bf and try to pursue this gurl
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Hi! okay so i'm making a dance for my school talent show in a few weeks and i can't decide which song to do! it's either going to be Too Close by Alex Clare or Country Must Be Country Wide by Brantley Gibert. It will be a pretty fast and impresive dance (i hope) and i need to get started right away! please help!! (link)
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You raise me up
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Please can you tell me how to get rid of sore throat pain? This has been going on for three days! (link)
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Cough drops
Not talking
Medicine
Ice pack n throat
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i've gotten really into spirituality the past 4 years of my life and am really looking into getting dreads. i want them really badly and have for a while now but my mother is so against them. she keeps telling me that you can not get a job with dreads and that people will constantly judge me and i have to hang out with "a certain crowd of people". i do have really nice curls that i like, but i would love the chance to have dreads now before i am too old to experience them and change my mind.. does anyone have any experience on this? (link)
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Yes you will get judged its a part of life but do what you want. For one person who doesn't like it, there'll be 10 who do. Also your hair doesn't detrimine your group of friends.
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im 9 years old and im a girl i have a boyfriend and i dont know if i should tell my parents if you think i should how? (link)
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Yeah I guess you're still like in grade school so it's a cute little phase thing. Just make sure he's your age because if he wasn't that would be bad
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a nickname for the name sean
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Um I call my friend Sean, Sean-Sean but the names to short for a nickname
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i like this boy, and i told him. I think he still likes me but if not how do i get him back? im 13 . (link)
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Be relaxed
Be carefree
Be not in distress
Be yourself with the guy then hell seem to then like you
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What 2011-2012 songs can you play for your boyfriend during a sweet 16 candle lighting? (link)
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This might sound weird but why don't u and ur boyfriend do mini flashmob toghether
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Hi. So I was really interested in this guy and he kept telling me he was interested back and we were pretty much dating just not officially. We were SO close and I am head over heals for him. And then one day he just decided he didn't want it anymore. So he stopped talking to me. And I never really got an explanation as to why and I don't want to be needy and annoying and question him about it. I guess when things were good between us I didn't know how much I had to lose, I always appreciated him of course but I learned how strong my feelings for him are once he decided to end things. So any ways now knowing that I need advice as to this, He texts me maybe once every two weeks. I make sure after he texts me once a week later i text him because I don't want the burden of knowing I'm not making an effort to try with him. I want to know that I tried everything and this situation is just out of my control. But when he does text me I feel SO sad. Like its just a reminder that we'll never be the same way we were before and I would do anything to get that back. I LOVE when I see he texts me and asks me how I am, but i feel so shitty as well. Im trying to move on. Do you think the next time he texts me (if he even does) should I answer? Not to ramble on but also If i don't answer I don't want him to ignore me when the time comes I have moved on and want to have a friendly conversation with him, or I don't want him to not text me anymore because I didn't respond. I am just in a pickle. Any feedback or advice will be greatly appreciated! (link)
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Well I have to admit this was pretty hard to solve but I can help. See don't text him when he texts you. Show that your the stronger one who doesn't care. Once he gets upset he'll realize how he treated you. Also don't be near your phone all the time waiting. Go outside, read, watch tv. Anything to get your mind off the phone
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hi everybody! well im always depressed i accually almost commited suicide a couple of days ago i quit i cut the line, if you get what i mean… i dont wanna leave my friends and family everbody describes me as a happy person… its all fake im never happy i just try to be for everyone elese someone get me out of this rut...!? i have a great life i dont understand why im so depressed maybe im missing somthing im not sure… (link)
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I have depression too. Well I think in your position you should ask your family members if anyone has had depression or bipolar disorder because it is genetic or go relax and think of your childhood or memories and find the source by that way.
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Im in school right now and recently I've been extremely depressed in school Ive cried randomly in my classes within these 2 weeks and idk what to do cus I'm so bored as well I don't do anything all day till my final class which is math I graduate in June and I'm a senior but when I'm in school I get sad being around a lot of people and I want to know if I can do anything to make time go by faster or something (link)
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Well there's no reason to cry. To make time pass, listen to the teacher and don't look at the other students. Care about your work and bring like tissues or a stress ball. Something that will distract you when your upset or go outside and take a breather.
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I continuously say the wrong things to my mom and she leaves me angry. I hate being alone! My crush who told me he liked me is going out with my best friend. My dad came home in a horrible mood and yelled at me for 20 minutes for no real reason. I have to memorize this huge sheet of stuff that I got today and we have a test on it tommorow. My grades absolutely suck. I am keeping up with my exersicing and good eating habits. My mom prayed for me to have a good day today and she is a part that ruined the day! I know there are others on here that want to kill themselves and stuff cuz they hate their live, but I just want some advice on how to get myself out of this rut that has lasted 2 months now. Thanks. (link)
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First of all it's gonna get better. Maybe not today, tomorrow, next week, but it will. I recommend to think about what you say before you say it. It's great that your keeping a healthy lifestyle. In school ask your teachers for extra help and things like that. I'm 13 1/2 and been through alot of crap. I'm just like you going through the same stuff. Just ignore your parents when they're angry or let them give off steam so you aren't involved. Your parents could be going through stuff at work just like you with school. It's ok
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I have tried everywhere and everything and have gone above and beyond to get a job. but without any luck. its like i am going to be unemployed throughout my life and i wish to end my life. i moved to a different city for a guy who promised marriage but the relationship ended within 2 and 1/2 months. now am unemployed without a bf and low savings. (link)
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Don't end your life, you got so much going for you.
1. Alot of women don't have men in their lives so you don't need a man to be happy
2. You'll get a job someday. A boss would love someone who doesn't give up
3. It's gonna get better.
Look I'm only 13 turning 14 And I've never been in a relationship, had a job, or anything else and I'm okay
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Well, I don't know what to put this under. So I am 22 years old and I am just now getting a bit more comfortable accepting my body dysmorphic problems. As far off as I can remember I've always wanted to be a boy. I was born female. Growing up was terrible for me, kids made fun of me up until junior high, for acting and dressing like a boy. My parents put a stop to it and told me to "act normal" or else I would never have any friends. For the longest time I've felt very confused, I just always wanted to appear more masculine to others and I don't really know or understand why. Putting sexual orientation aside. My parents and brothers and sisters would pick on me and thought maybe I was a lesbian. But when I told them I liked boys over girls they began to laugh. My mother even once told me, "Let me get this straight, so my little girl is really a little homo." Yeah, well putting that all behind me now, I finally moved out but I feel very distraught about it all. Living alone means I can finall wear what I want. Meaning male clothing. But I am very nerve wrecked about shopping. And about cutting my hair. In high school for my junior year when I cut my hair I was called a dyke all through out until graduation.
So I guess I would just like some tips or sites or books that can point me in the right direction of passing as a boy rather than having people view me as a butchy lesbian. Not that I have anything at all against them. I just feel terrible having to force myself to look all female. I've done some searching online but all I find are ftm but "lesbian" wise. Nothing on "transfags." One more thing is,I work with two siblings of mine in my mothers catering business. So of course I see them everyday for a few hours. I feel uncomfortable about it all with my family for obvious reasons. Everyone else in my family is, "normal." Meaning straight. At least that we know of, so it only makes me feel more alienated. I don't know what to say to my family about it if they ask. My youngest brother is support of it, he always asks me about it, and he states. "You'll make a handsome gentlemen one day sis." lol But as for my sisters and elder brother, they tell me I'm disgusting and to just be normal. Otherwise I will never get married or have children. Which honestly I don't care much for finding anyone, I just want to feel comfortable with myself and understand myself. I mean you can't love anyone else unless you love yourself first, right?
Well I'm sorry if this is long and hard to understand. But any help at all, thank you for it. (link)
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All I have to say is be yourself. I know that's hard but your 22 years old. you're an adult! So who cares if people think your weird for dressing like a boy or whatever. If you act like everyone else you're not yourself. Look there's 8 billion people in the world so you could find a bunch of people like you. Just keeping loving yourself and you're set. If no one is gonna accept you, they're just jealous because you can be yourself openly and they can't.
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