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Should I text him back.
Hi. So I was really interested in this guy and he kept telling me he was interested back and we were pretty much dating just not officially. We were SO close and I am head over heals for him. And then one day he just decided he didn't want it anymore. So he stopped talking to me. And I never really got an explanation as to why and I don't want to be needy and annoying and question him about it. I guess when things were good between us I didn't know how much I had to lose, I always appreciated him of course but I learned how strong my feelings for him are once he decided to end things. So any ways now knowing that I need advice as to this, He texts me maybe once every two weeks. I make sure after he texts me once a week later i text him because I don't want the burden of knowing I'm not making an effort to try with him. I want to know that I tried everything and this situation is just out of my control. But when he does text me I feel SO sad. Like its just a reminder that we'll never be the same way we were before and I would do anything to get that back. I LOVE when I see he texts me and asks me how I am, but i feel so shitty as well. Im trying to move on. Do you think the next time he texts me (if he even does) should I answer? Not to ramble on but also If i don't answer I don't want him to ignore me when the time comes I have moved on and want to have a friendly conversation with him, or I don't want him to not text me anymore because I didn't respond. I am just in a pickle. Any feedback or advice will be greatly appreciated!
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Well I have to admit this was pretty hard to solve but I can help. See don't text him when he texts you. Show that your the stronger one who doesn't care. Once he gets upset he'll realize how he treated you. Also don't be near your phone all the time waiting. Go outside, read, watch tv. Anything to get your mind off the phone
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