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I.Absolutly.Hate.( Highly Dislike ) My.StepDad
I hate my stepdad.. He married my mom about 11.5 years ago and hes turned into an ASS! He absolutly HATES ME and I do the same. He doesnt even Treat me like a human. Sometimes i do but he says i talk to my mom like a dog. Yet my mom says they are soulmates....Wow O.o Welp He pushes her and Treats her like SHIT and i cant do anything about that.?? I want to live with my Real dad but my mom says no. They also say are getting a divorce and im like YEAH WHOOP:D)In my head) But then they dont.. Help!!!
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well all you can do is wait or move away... you cant do much its her choice not yours... and its your idea of accepting it or not.. when your old enough or if you are 18 like the person said move out... it must be really tought but you have to get through it and dont go near him or your mom as much
good luck
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There is very little you can do to help your mom. What you can do to help yourself depends on how old you are and whether your dad is willing to go back to court for a change in custody.
If dad is willing to go back to court for a change in custody you may be old enough where the court will take your request to live with your father under consideration.
This is not a guarantee and requires a lawyer, probably a court appointed , I will call them a guardian for the moment as I cannot remember the legal term, for you, and probably a visit from social services to both parents homes. It could get very ugly for everyone.
It all starts with your bio-dad going to court for a change of custody; so you need to talk with him.
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I went through something similar when I was younger, The only thing you can do is to ride it out and try to get along with him. Nobody is asking you to adore him just get along with him. Trust me, Respect pays a huge roll and if you both can learn to respect one another it will lift any sort of tension you both have and making living a hell lot easier. You made it clear you don't like the guy but reality is kiddo this is about your mother and what she wants. If she wants to be with him then you are going to have to respect her choices, Your mother is a grown women who is entitled to date whoever she wants too date. If they ever do get divorced then you don't have to worry about the ass hat anymore but in the meantime ride it out. That's about all you can do
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If you are 18, get out. If you are a minor, tough through it. if you love your mom youll stick it out for her happiness. i went throught the same situation. My mom had to realize she was in an unhealthy relationship on her own. Time will fly and youll be out of there soon enough.
if you cant bear to watch it happen make friends with your neighbors. this way if something horrible happens you have somewhere to escape to. and be sure to have relatives whom u trust numbers in your phone. dont have a phone? write the numbers down so u have them.
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