Member Since: July 31, 2011
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Last Update: August 19, 2011
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My dreams aren't literally happening, but it's weird.
One night, I had a dream that I was mowing the lawn. The next day my mom said "why don't you mow the lawn?"
Another night, I dreamt that I saw someone I knew in the park downtown. I NEVER go downtown. The next day my dad called (I NEVER talk to him) and asked if I wanted to see music in the park downtown.
Now I'm scared. I keep having awful dreams about my cat being sick and/or dying. After I had one of those dreams, the next day my cat was sneezing ALL DAY LONG. I'm talking 2-6 sneezes at a time, at least 20 times that day.
When I was younger, like three or four years ago, I had a dream that my mom fell down when I was walking with her. Then a few days later we were walking into church and she fell on the sidewalk and needed stitches. She didn't trip over her shoelaces or a curb, she just fell.
I'm only 15, and I'm a female. I don't know how that would make a difference, but if that helps anybody then that's good.
I told my mom about all my dreams and she told me "ohhh you're a prophet." But I don't know what to think. (link)
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this use to happen to me when i was younger. its normal. i dont know how to explain it. basically, u arent psycic. sorry. when you sleep, a million and a half images cross your mind. when you see something happens your brain has the ability to remember that specific image and draws a link to it. also, sometimes it could just be dejavu.
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Hi there! So I just got my braces removed last Saturday, so now I'm wearing retainers.
Wearing them really makes it hard to talk so I tried to do my research online and a lot of websites said that I'll eventually get used to it and it'll go away after 2-3 days.
It's already Thursday and I still have the retainer lisp. As much as possible, I still talk to people, even though my friends keep making fun of me. I only remove my retainers during meals though.
Is it because I'm not talking enough?-___- I even tried reading a book aloud when I first got my retainers.
Any ideas? I'd like to quit being made fun of now.
Mila, 17/F (link)
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i only wear mine at night. the first couple weeks i wore it all the time. and at first people laughed, but then i made it into fun. like i told jokes with it and would say the pledge with it. soon enough everyone thought it was great. but u dont really have to wear it during the day as long as you put it in once you get home.
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I just got my hair cut and me stupidly saying I want change I got it short. I feel like a little girl and I hate it it makes me want to cry. I allways have bad luck. There's nothing I can do until it grows out which wont be for a couple of months I can't wait that long. School starts soon to so I'm gonna look like a loser I already have confidence problems and now this makes it worse I can't get extensions or anything bc I don't have that money andmy parents sure won't pay for it. I feel stupid pleasee I'm 16f (link)
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google short hair styles. find a way to style it that you will like. and the great thing about hair is you can hide it with a good amount of makeup on your face and a super cute outfit. good luck.
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Hi im 14 years old and i need help I'm curently dating my boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 weeks now, and i care about him a lot. and just 2 days ago when i was at my younger brothers baseball practice i was watching my 2 youngers sibs and 2 other kids that were friends with, and I turned around and i saw my ex-boyfriend walking to another basball field. I kind of just looked at him and he looked at me, we didnt smile at eachother or anything b'cuz we broke up a month ago. but after i keep running into him my stomach drops and my heart starts racing. What does that mean? and i do love my BF but i also think about my ex-BF help please. (link)
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to be completely honest, youve been with your bf for 3 weeks so you probably dont really love him. and when youre 14 you have really strong feelings. youll be ok. stay with your bf. the feelings for your ex will die down the longer u are with this new guy.
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So im 14, 5' 3, 98 lbs and i have never had a period. I have been masterbating since i was about 7 would this interfere? Is there any way to speed up getting my first period? I have had discharge for about 2 years and am an A bra. Am i close? I also found some blood about 6 months ago am i normal is something wrong? (link)
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youre fine. no it doesnt interfere.
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Well today my school went on a field trip and well like first off it was 6th 7th and 8th went and im in 8th but the bus was full so we had to go on the 7th grade one, and well on the way back I had to pee really bad and we were and hour and a half away from home. I got so sick because I had to go so bad, I finally had to get my friend get a treacher to ask if the bus could stop and i could use the bathroom, and my friend had to go and ask because I couldnt get up it hurt so bad. Well the bus pulled over at a gas station to let me pee and it was really embarrasing because when I got off the bus to go, this loud mouth girl heard my friend tell her and screamed to the whole bus that I had to go pee. I was so embarrased mainly because the guy I like was on that bus and he likes me too. Do you think me having to do that is embarrasing because i'm so embarrased! and my friend said when I was gone the boy i liked said I hope shes ok and then tried to look for me. I hope she wss telling the truth I asked five times lol (because I was so embarrased) but do you think he still likes me. Because Im so embarrased and people were laughing. Please help thanks(: P.S. my mom said its nothing to be embarrased about and that I couldn't help it. (link)
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i get that it could be embarasssing. but it would have been worse if you would have peed yourself. im sure he still likes you. everyone pees.
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A while back in June, I went through a pretty nasty break-up. And by nasty, I mean argument after argument and weird feeling after weird feeling. I was dating someone much older than I was; I am sixteen, and he (John) is eighteen. He is leaving for the Navy in December, and I had always known that from the first date. We dated for at least a month, and even though it was a short time, it felt amazing to be with him. We had a picture-perfect fairytale relationship. He was respectful, romantic, and so damn thoughtful. He always put me first and made me feel beautiful, loved, and amazing. I never thought we'd end, and I knew we had a perfect chemistry and mutual interests from day one.
Things went downhill fast. John complained I was clingy after he ignored me for a day and I was worried about him. He knew I am insecure and worrisome, but he ignored me and went out drinking and got drunk without me knowing. I was afraid something had happened or I said something wrong. The next morning, we both apologized. I told him I was sorry for being clingy, and I'd work on it. He said, "Oh, no, no, it was my fault. I should've let you know." And that was that. I thought the argument was over, and I swept it under the rug, but he didn't. He complained day after day, and he ignored me. I felt hurt, unwelcome, and uncomfortable. Finally, I thought things were okay when I went to his house for a day, as usual. We hung out and talked, and when we performed some errands for his mother, he complained again and again. "Mind your own business. I can't stand when you look at other people and their stuff," he said, when I laughed about ducttape on a car. He clearly saw I was hurt and tried to cheer me up, but I walked ahead of him into the store. I felt like I was going to burst into tears. He grabbed my waist and hugged me close and kissed my forehead. I wanted to cry so hard and tell him how hurt I had been feeling, but I didn't. He also complained later that day that I am loud and clingy when I hugged him, climbed in his lap and squealed excitedly, kissed him, and told him I missed him after two weeks of not seeing each other, since we live far from each other, I in Pensacola, he in Perdido. We live in Florida. So that day just made me upset. I felt so uncomfortable.
We ended up breaking up. I was "too attached" and it was "never going to work" since he is leaving soon and we wouldn't "be able to make it work". I was crushed. I told him we could, and he was just giving up too easily. But it was over, and I cried for days, and sucked it up. I didn't start missing him until about a week ago, when the realization that he was gone finally sunk in. He personally told me that if I needed anyone to talk to, or if I missed him, he was always there. So day after day I told him I was thinking of him, or I missed him dearly. And always he'd say, "I'm sorry hun." But last night he said, "I miss you too. So much." I was shocked, speechless, and confused. I thought he was playing games and I asked him questions, like when did he realize it, and is he serious. He said he had a few drinks and usually when he is drunk, he thinks clearer. I didn't believe him, so he told me to ask him in the morning when he was sober, and I did so, and he said that he really does miss me. I didn't know what to say. I told him that our relationship went wrong over a dumb reason, and I missed him immensely, and I wanted things back to normal. He said that he'd love to fix it and try to make it work, that I was worth it, and he misses everything we shared. He also said being clingy was a small problem, but he thinks I can fix it if I worked on it hard enough.
Now, I am being extremely cautious. I don't know if I should let him back in. Do you think he deserves a second chance? I want to give him another chance, but supposedly now he has no gas money to come see me, and he is leaving in December. Should I just move on or try again?
Thanks so much!
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its not like he went and cheated on you. Youre lucky he is willing to take you back. work on your clingyness and give him a second chance. he just sounds like a typical guy.
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I shave my legs and arms and I have hair on my knees and ellbows but I also have hair on my stomach! Is this normal? And is there any way to get rid of it without it growing back? (link)
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yes its normal. youre stuck with it til you can get laser hair removal. but you can shave it or wax and if you use alot of lotion, it will grow slower.
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See some days I can't or don't plan anything so I stay at home and when I do I get really bored and I can't stop eating any tips on how to distract myself from eating or being bored because it's unhealthy and I don't want to keep gaining weight I'm usually home alone so what can I do?? I'm 16f (link)
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drink alot of water when your bored. it creates the illusion that your full and you wont want to eat. also, when you go to get food when youre bored, imagine yourself really fat and cant get to the kitchen.
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i am 13 and everyone i know (including girls younger than me) have bigger breasts than me. is there anyway to help stimulate their growth? big boobs run in my family ( my sister has DD's!) but apparently not me. am i normal? (link)
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Its perfectly normal. but if you are worried about it, take vitamins, and eat more bread.
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I want to know which course is best which durition 12months.can u help me? (link)
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join the military.
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I'm 12 years old, turning 13 in December. a couple weeks ago I asked my mom if I could get a second piercing and she said yes but I had to pay for them myself. It took me a while since I'm broke but finally I made all the money, but yesterday she told me that she had changed her mind and I couldn't get it, after I had taken the time to earn all that money. Is there any way I can get her to change her mind? I really want to get it before school starts! (link)
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Honestly, in a few years you probably wont like the piercing anymore. I got 15 piercings when i was in high school. they arent cool anymore. So wait until your mom approves. She probably said no in your best interest. You can always get magnetic jewels. And you will have extra cash in your pocket.
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I hate my stepdad.. He married my mom about 11.5 years ago and hes turned into an ASS! He absolutly HATES ME and I do the same. He doesnt even Treat me like a human. Sometimes i do but he says i talk to my mom like a dog. Yet my mom says they are soulmates....Wow O.o Welp He pushes her and Treats her like SHIT and i cant do anything about that.?? I want to live with my Real dad but my mom says no. They also say are getting a divorce and im like YEAH WHOOP:D)In my head) But then they dont.. Help!!! (link)
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If you are 18, get out. If you are a minor, tough through it. if you love your mom youll stick it out for her happiness. i went throught the same situation. My mom had to realize she was in an unhealthy relationship on her own. Time will fly and youll be out of there soon enough.
if you cant bear to watch it happen make friends with your neighbors. this way if something horrible happens you have somewhere to escape to. and be sure to have relatives whom u trust numbers in your phone. dont have a phone? write the numbers down so u have them.
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