Member Since: July 31, 2011
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Last Update: August 10, 2011
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I'm 18/F
I've never been kissed, never been on a date, and have never been in a relationship.
Is that normal? I feel like i'm not good enough for anyone to love me, or even like me...
I mean... I've never really put myself out there, or flirted or anything, but no one's ever made an effort for me either.
I'm just kinda freaking out over this. (link)
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Well I dont know if you are pretty or ugly. Fat or skinny. But All you have to do is act like a blonde. Sluty haha I know it sounds Horrible But then when you do find a guy, Do act like that act yourself and he can see what the real you is like and what he has been missing.
~Ashlny(:~
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if your byfriend call you a bitch and said fuck you what can i do should i live him? (link)
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YESS! A guy should NEVER call you that. If you ever want to be more than bf/gf Than you should find Someone Who understands You and wouldnt calll u that
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how to have respect from son. (link)
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Well, I am 13 and my mom Lets me go out with my friends But have to answer my phone, She lets me go to parties at 10 But have to take drug test when i come home.
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Is clearasil oil free daily face wash a good product to use? Cause I just got this evening and used it a few hours ago and my friend has it and her skin is very clear. I don't have too many pimples but I'm a 13 year old girl so it's my age too but I want something that works and it's probably too soon to tell but it looks a little bit better than before. So any advice on this or other skin products is good! Thank youu! :) (link)
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No, Not On me. But WhichHazel Is hmazing. You can get it very cheap at walgreens. It is a liquid. Get rid of Acne Sunburn Dead skin.
~Ashlyn(:~
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Hi, my friend and I want to start a babysitting business and we need some tips on how to convince our parents that we're old enough to become babysitters. We also could use some ideas for a name, price(we are planing on becoming certified babysitters).
Help would be greatly appreciated.
I am 12 and my friend is 11. (link)
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I started Babysitting my sibilings at 10. Then i went on to my moms friends kids. Now i am all over the neighborhood. Just make your way up!(:
~Ashlyn(:~
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Id like to hear yalls opinions about tongue rings on girls 18+. Ive always wanted one because I loveee piercings/tattoos, I like the way they look, and I always like to have something in my mouth like straws, pens, cigarettes (i really want to quit). I wouldn be that girl whos always showing it off and would want it far back enough where its not terribly noticable.
Do you think its trashy when a girl has a tongue ring? (Like i said, not showing if off but if you just noticed when she was lauging or something)
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I say Yes. As long as itsa Stud not dangle or Bridge or anything.
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do spacers hurt when you get them on?
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No, Maybe the second day at worst.
~Ashlyn(:~
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How do I become more extroverted? I am very shy around people I don't know but after I meet someone I'm a social butterfly? I don't understand myself lol (link)
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Well, When i was younger i was very shy also. Now i act like im moving far away and just go up and talk to people. If you are being introduce do the same.(:
~Ashlyn(:~
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I'm 12 years old, turning 13 in December. a couple weeks ago I asked my mom if I could get a second piercing and she said yes but I had to pay for them myself. It took me a while since I'm broke but finally I made all the money, but yesterday she told me that she had changed her mind and I couldn't get it, after I had taken the time to earn all that money. Is there any way I can get her to change her mind? I really want to get it before school starts! (link)
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Welp, I just tried that with my BellyButton And she yelled at me for like 2 minutes then she was done. So if that was sall i would have ran to my room and done it, But i dont want mine done til Winter. Haha(: iF SHE IS SOO Mad about it though I would Just say just kidding or april fools(Even tho its not)
~Ashlyn(:~
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I am 18. He is 20. We have been best friends for 3 years and have done some fooling around during our friendship, but we haven't taken things farther. I asked him on a date and he said yes! But I want to plan it. So where should I take him? we are both super nerds/geeks. (link)
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Dinner or picnik.. I guess since yall are Geeks yall can talk about food and Flowers(:
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My boyfriend promised me he wouldnt drink because i felt uncomfortable about it, said he went on vacation with his friends , and his friend gave him alcohol mixed with another drink, i think it was pepsi, i dont really know anything about alcohol, but he said that he drank by mistake, didnt know it was alcohol and that it wasnt his fault, and as soon as he realized how strong it was and that it was alcohol he didnt drink it, i dont know if hes lying, cause when i asked if he drank he said if he were to drink hed get wasted, hes the type of guy thats like "If you wanna do something wrong,do it right" so he said if he really wanted to do it he would have done more, and it was a mistake it could happen to anyone, my question is, can u really not tell the diff? or is he lying to me?... thank you.. (link)
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Well he is Most likly Lying, Like my sister Acts like She HATES Smoking But she does it so no one suspects it. But he doesnt want to break up with you he really likes you. So if he Was lying it was for a good thought.
~Ashlyn(:~
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what to do after you start going out with a guy? (link)
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Welp, I texted him all the time. Skyped.. Got my friend To talk to him, And then we had our first kiss about the 3rd date. Then he walked me to my buss and kissed me everyday. we went bowling, Skating, Eat. Then i dumped him cuz i didnt feel like we had magic anymore..
~Ashlyn(:~
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Hi.I just want to ask you a question as regards the ''sex before marriage'' thing.Where in the Bible is it forbidden?Who defined fornication as being sexual intercourse before tying(tieing) the marriage ''knot''? And..if one can not wait,then he should marry,according to what Paul said in Corinthians.Ok.But..what if one can not marry at the moment because his parents think he has to get married at 30?or even later?So...does that mean that he has to 'burn'' until the time his parents or other people deem ''right'' for him to get married?If i'm not commanded to ''burn'',why should i?And...masturbation.Is it natural?I have masturbated too,and i,by GOD'S GRACE,have tried to stop it,not doing it now.But,what is the way out?If GOD created human beings and made sexual desire part of the physiology of both married and unmarried people.When married people have the desire for sex,they just do it.When unmarried people(because of certain circumstances) have the desire for the same..what should they do?why does one principle apply to a group of people and does not apply to the other?Where in the BIBLE does that come into play? (link)
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Well If you are 21 or older i think it is fine. 19 Is even fine with me. But Your parents have no say in this. Its YOUR life. Well, I hope that helped.
~Ashlyn(:~
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18/f
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 2 and a half years. We have been doing "foreplay" for the majority of this time but have only started having sex for the past 5 months or so.
Put simple, no matter what I do I can't seem to finish for him. It gets to a point where things feel SO good, up to a point where I physically stop him (i.e. grab his hand or push him off). It seems so intense and so good that I cant take anymore and I just can't help it. So that's the basic problem in a nutshell, however there is more to it but you don't have to read it all if you have any ideas on what could help me.
Anyways, some background things that may hinder answers are:
1.) I dont traditionally masterbate. I do to some degree, but not the way it is normally done. For some reason, i don't feel anything at all when I try to mimic and do what he does to me to myself.
2.) I was sorta sexually abused as a child (hard to get into) and I tend to have alot of "rape dreams". Sometimes I worry this may be blocking things somehow...
3.) Lately, I have been incredibly sensitive. We are eachothers only sexual partners and we always use a condom and the birth control pill, but for some reason even foreplay tends to hurt. It really discourages him caus I always say its sore, especialy since beforehand I always tended to like things kinda rough.
Any ideas? At this point his confidence is almost shot and I know its starting to be a problem. He doesn't even want to do anything sexual because he thinks he's just horrible at it (which I know is not the case). Any ideas why this is happening and what I can do to stop it?
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Welp, When you feel like Masterbate. Dont.. EAT!(: It makes me Happy. Haha do you have A high sex rage? Well anyways you have to try to forget about the dreams. Dont wirte in a diary about the have a dream catcher. The throwing him off part. Well thats hard try having your hands under your butt and dont let them slipp. Hope it helps..(:
~Ashlyn(:~
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okay i don't want any answers about how dangerous this or unhealthy so just dont waste your time if your going to lecture me. Anyways, I have add and I take adderall and have been for about 2 years now and originally suggested to my mom that i went on it because i heard you can loose a ton of weight on it and at first i didnt really have an appetite and when I am on it theres about a ten pound difference from when i dont take it. But Im going into my sophmore year at college and I want to loose at least 15 pounds by the end of august. I know that will probably be impossible but I want to do my best. Anyways I take 20 mg a day and i could probably go all day without eating by than by night I'm starving and crash and eat. I heard if you take 20 mg in the morning and than another halfway through the day you'll be set. Any suggestions? Thanks! (link)
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I havent Heard of any of that. But i am in eighth grade and im Skinny. Im trying to gain weight, Welp, I would stick a tooth brush down my throat. Haha! It sounds bad but eachtime im sick and i throw up i loose lots.
~Ashlyn(:~
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Ok, so I'm 13... I weigh 125 lbs... and I'm 5'3... I think I'm overweight.... my thighs are 31 inches around at the biggest part..... I have a very low self confidence because of my weight... so, what I want to know is.. by the time I'm 16 do you think I would look skinnier because I would grow into myself?? And is it possible that if I grow into myself.. would I lose inches off of my thighs?? I have really big hips and thighs.... I hate it!!! I just dont want to look like this my whole life... also... I have hair all over my stomache!! It is the Darkest around my bellyWbutton though... I have askd my mom if I could bleAch it but she says no all the time,and tells me to just shave it... but every time I shaVe it.. there is little black dots from where I couldn't get down far enough to shave the hair that is starting to grow back in undernEath.. any ideas on tht too?? Oh, and please dont try to comfort me and say stuff like "god made you for who you Are and just accept it" thanks!! (link)
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Well, I am 13 And i am 70 Pounds. I have hair.. On my legs, Little bit arms, VJJ, And honeslty i am trying to Gain weight with my mom. She weighed 113 lbs When she was about to give birth. Anyways I Hate wearing dresses cuz my knees look knobby and i have no boobs. But my advice for you Is to wax any unwanted hair. Look up on youtube Butt excersizes and it will help all down there. Also buthighs Is an Ahh-Mazing workout for your but and thighs, Run everyday and do sit ups. Thats all i have.
~Ashlyn(:~
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I need some advice on how to break up with my boyfriend. We've been going on since June 9th of this year but I really don't see a future with him. I feel nothing when I'm with him and I don't know why it got like this all of a sudden. There's been times where I almost broke up with him but there's something that's stopping me but I don't know what it is. But the truth is I think we're better off as friends. What should I do? How can I break up with him without hurting his feelings that much because I do care about his feelings. Thanks in advance. (link)
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Well, I was in love with a guy named Ethan and 4 Months later i didnt feel anything! Well it was the day of the prom and i dumped him.. Well WRONG day but all guys will be upset but i would say the least hurtful way Is to write a note or call him and say I Would like to be friends (DA...DA..DA..) And All that.
Hint~ DO NOT
: Get his best friend to
: Your best friend
: Or text Message.
~Ashlyn(:~
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