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Member Since: July 31, 2011
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Last Update: August 1, 2011
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This is some of the things my bf does:

1) When I'm texting/calling someone when I'm with him he asks me who I'm texting/on the phone with.

2) He reads my texts over my shoulder.


3) If I talk to another guy he gets very jealous and upset. We were at a party the other day and I was talking to a guy there off and on and he told me he got very jealous and felt I was ignoring him.

4) He's very jealous of my gay (guy) best friend because we hang out a lot and I've known him for years.

4) If I text him back at a slow pace he gets very angry with me, but if he takes long to text back I'm not supposed to be mad at him..

5) He always wants to do what HE wants to do.

6) We live about an hour from eachother and he always makes me go out there to see him bc he doesnt feel like driving here.

7) If I go out with friends he always, in a mean tone, asks me what I did and for details, etc.

8)If I leave his house and we don't talk for about an hour (through texting) he'll text me to see what I'm doing.

There's more but that's the majority of it.... (link)
Controlling? Well, DUH. No offense intended, promise...Psychologically speaking, this is referred to as "mirroring." Which means, GET AWAY AS FAST AS YOU CAN!! This guy is already dippin elsewhere for loving, ya know? So, he is guilty of what he is accusing you of. I'd say...
Buh. Buh BYE.


when i was leaving my friends building i met a guy in his elevator. we totally vibed and connected. i felt the spark, electricity - whatever you want to call it! i didnt get his name or number but i cannot stop thinking about him and i really really want to see him again.

i dont know what to do? i should go back to my friends apt and look really good in hopes of bumping into the guy again? (link)
I'm sorry you missed out on what sounds to be like your "love at first sight" chance encounter, for whatever held you so stuck and the man was gone that fast. You can't sit around on the off chance he may show up or have your friend try to find out who he may be. What if he was visiting, or he was a delievery person? I wish you luck, and please don't let nothing stop you if you ever feel that again...it really is rare to happen like that....




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