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Love my boyfriend, but think about my ex too?
Hi im 14 years old and i need help I'm curently dating my boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 weeks now, and i care about him a lot. and just 2 days ago when i was at my younger brothers baseball practice i was watching my 2 youngers sibs and 2 other kids that were friends with, and I turned around and i saw my ex-boyfriend walking to another basball field. I kind of just looked at him and he looked at me, we didnt smile at eachother or anything b'cuz we broke up a month ago. but after i keep running into him my stomach drops and my heart starts racing. What does that mean? and i do love my BF but i also think about my ex-BF help please.
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Your past relationship just happened a month ago, recently. Your heart might still have love towards him, since every love leaves a mark in our heart.
First of all, I'm not quite sure how your X relationship ended. Depending on how it ended, I can better understand where you are coming from.
I would suggest that if you do care for your now bf, then just let your X go. Which means, focusing on your actual boyfriend and reminding yourself that your X is the past. If you do care for your X where you can't stop thinking about him, then I would suggest ending your current relationship.
Sometimes we need time alone to cope with our relationships and start a new one in a clean slate.
I'm here if you need my help.....
Hang in there, and I hope you clear your thoughts to the best that you can :)
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to be completely honest, youve been with your bf for 3 weeks so you probably dont really love him. and when youre 14 you have really strong feelings. youll be ok. stay with your bf. the feelings for your ex will die down the longer u are with this new guy.
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Don't you think that your current boyfriend is the rebound? I mean if you got out of a relationship a month ago, and started dating your current boyfriend, for about 3 weeks, it looks like you rushed into another relationship, so it's normal to still have feelings for your ex. When it comes down to it, it looks like you love both of them, maybe in different ways.
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