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Last Update: September 11, 2011
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I haven't felt ANYTHING for a year even when my Mum had a miscarriage I didn't feel sad now I look back on it I feel guilty for not feeling sad. I don't know when I lost the ability to feel emotions but for a year now I didn't feel anything but all of a sudden I'm thrust into feeling emotions again all just because my Mum told me off. I don't know whats happening to me and I can't identify half of the emotions. (link)
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I'm very sorry about your mom's incident.
I don't think that you didn't have emotions, it's just that you were hiding them. When we get hurt a lot, we tend to put up walls that prevent our emotions from showing.
The only reason it came out, when your mom & you argued is because she really got you mad.
I would suggest you contront your emotions when they occur. Holding your emotions not only hurts you more internally, but the more you hold the worse it is in the future.
I'm here for you in you need more help...
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me and my best friend are both 17/f. she and her family are currently living with me as of 3 weeks ago. we've had our differences before. It was mainly about boys. I'd never lose my friendship with her over a guy persay, its just different. I expect her not to flirt and be all over the guy that i like; However, she does it anyways. she's a flirty person and she says she doesnt know that shes flirting with them, but that's bullshit to me because she doesnt flirt with any ugly guys. and you have to KNOW that you're flirting. seriously, i know when i flirt with guys. anyways, we have this friend. all i did was ask her to control herself and NOT ruin the friendship by going after him. what she does is she likes them for a short time, then dumps them. i really wouldnt have a problem with her going out with him if i didnt know how she already was. this has happened so many times that its hard for me to count. anyways, the problem i have is that i just cant stop being a bitch for some reason. im just so tired of how she is. and our friend comes over all the time just to see her. it just pisses me off how i ask her ONE time to do something for me and she cant even do it (no, i dont like the guy btw. but i dont like how she is with it either). you cant control your feelings huh? bull. all she is, is just a player. and i just dont know why it pisses me off so much. i mean i probably shouldnt get so mad about it like i do, but ive tried talking to her about it. it really DOESNT work. i just dont know what to do. i really need to do something soon, either get away from her for a while, find some different friends that i can hang out without her being there or something. id never drop her or anything but i CANT stop being a bitch to her, and i really dont want to lose our friendship over this. i just need some good advice.. help?? (link)
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I'm wondering did you date any guy that your friend liked in the past? Their seems to be some type of jealousy in her part, that she needs wants to make a point.
I say that if you talk to her about the incident, and she's not changing then it's time to move on..It is good on her part to understand the way you feel, but it seems that she isn't listening.
I know it hurts to loose a BFF, but she has to understand that she needs to respect what you want or have.
Hope things get better for you, and that this friendship doesn't end.
Try to talk to her and make her understand how you feel, and hopefully she'll make a change :)
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(i think i lost the first post) maybe he led me on but i liked the feeling because i am super conservative 33 yr old girl and now i fell inlove with him... do guys tell the truth? should i trust him or my gut feeling because i feel that i love him more than i do and i find it unfair.i thik he still sees other girls but he denies it.
so many mixed signals and i have committment and trust issues. how do i know what do i like? or do i just like the feeling of being in love ...? will this relationship go anywhere or am i just hanging on to the feeling? so confused! (link)
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First of all, I'm not quite sure why the trust issues or insecurities. Did he cheat on you? Did you catch him doing things he shouldn't have done?
If so, that's why you feel the way you do "CONFUSED"...........
I always suggest to go with your gut. Our gut feelings never lie to us, and they help us cope with our doubts.
You seem to need time alone, to cope with your emotions.
I went through a similar situation, and I decided it was best to spend time alone to clear my thoughts. I now can say I'm over those emotions, and ready to start a relationship with someone new..
Hang in there and you'll see time will heel your heart and wounds....
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I have a grandson we have guardianship on him,he refuses to help around the house,disrespetiful,and has a lot of anger at everybody.we have tried to help him but he doesnt want it.We have put him in 2 places that said they can help him then they call us and say come get him we cant do anything with him.I need help please please please im at my wits end.he is 15. (link)
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I'm very sorry to hear about the situation you are dealing with.
I would suggest you get him a psychologist. He seems to need someone to let it out, all his anger and frustration. He must feel bad that he ain't with his actual parents. Their is a possibility too that he might get tease from his classmates, due to this. Sometimes children can be very mean, and that might be one of the reasons he is mad with the world.
Try to talk to him or find him that professional therapy, which I'm assuming that's what he needs.
May you find the help you need, hang in there...
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I'm 17 and I get guys in their early to mid twenties hitting on me, but when I'm in school most guys just want to be my friend. I've had boyfriends but none lasted very long. There's this one guy that's been hitting on me since I was in middle school, he chased me down the street one time just to ask me how old I was and where did I live. He's friends with my brother and every time he comes to my house hes either staring at me or trying to flirt with me and I don't like him. He's 24 yrs old and he's been hitting on me since I was like 12. I was having a conversation with this one guy and he was 18 and I told him I was 17, he reacted with a holy sh*t. I don't dress slutty or wear make up and I don't understand why older guys hit on me or think that Im older than my age. So is it because I look older or because guys think I'm easy because I'm younger? (link)
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You might look older then your age, and that is one reason why older men hit on you. All you can do, is ignore them older guys and make it clear your not interested in them.
As for the guys in your class, if they aren't interested in more then a friendship that's fine. You will soon find a guy that meets your taste and age, just give it time...
Your young you will meet your lucky froggy soon :)
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Hi im 14 years old and i need help I'm curently dating my boyfriend and we've been going out for 3 weeks now, and i care about him a lot. and just 2 days ago when i was at my younger brothers baseball practice i was watching my 2 youngers sibs and 2 other kids that were friends with, and I turned around and i saw my ex-boyfriend walking to another basball field. I kind of just looked at him and he looked at me, we didnt smile at eachother or anything b'cuz we broke up a month ago. but after i keep running into him my stomach drops and my heart starts racing. What does that mean? and i do love my BF but i also think about my ex-BF help please. (link)
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Your past relationship just happened a month ago, recently. Your heart might still have love towards him, since every love leaves a mark in our heart.
First of all, I'm not quite sure how your X relationship ended. Depending on how it ended, I can better understand where you are coming from.
I would suggest that if you do care for your now bf, then just let your X go. Which means, focusing on your actual boyfriend and reminding yourself that your X is the past. If you do care for your X where you can't stop thinking about him, then I would suggest ending your current relationship.
Sometimes we need time alone to cope with our relationships and start a new one in a clean slate.
I'm here if you need my help.....
Hang in there, and I hope you clear your thoughts to the best that you can :)
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