Member Since: August 19, 2011
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Last Update: October 20, 2012
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should u wear jeans when working out? (link)
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Realistically you can wear whatever you want, but i don't think it would be comfortable or the most efficient attire. Working out in fabric that can easily move with your body and is breathable is best.
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Im 11 im dating a 14 year old am i old enough to have sex with him if so can i get pregnant cuz he says he wants to have a family with me rite now
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It disgusts me that you are even in this situation right now because you're so young. You said it yourself, you are 11 years old, at 11 years old the farthest thing I had on my mind was sex. I'm not trying to be mean, but the answer is no you're not old enough to have sex. A million times, no. Wait till you're older, it will be more special when you're ready, and not just doing it because he says he wants to. Also he's 14, it's might be hard to stomach this but he I highly and I mean highly doubt he means what he says in respect to having a family. You guys are too young to understand the responsibility that comes with sex and supporting a family. Don't do it, because you'll regret it, I say this with the best of intentions, only looking out for you.
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I love painting my nails and stuff, but my nails r a little to short to paint them to my liking. I want them to grow a little longer before I do my nails. But I don't want my nails to look bad for too long so I need something that works fast. I also don't want to spend a lot of money. Maybe something I can make at home. And if u hav any ideas of tht or some nail designs I can do tht wuld be absolutely great (link)
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Nail envy by OPI works wonders, it's less than $10 at drugstores. :-)
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18/F
There is a boy I went to school with that I have had a crush on for awhile now so we finally started texting about 4 months ago, and we Finally hungout one day. We went to this beach and smoked and had a really good time, it seemed like we had lots of chemistry. We kissed at the end of the night. The problem is that he is always busy. He goes to college and has a job and puts his friends before everything so he never has time to hangout or even talk. I text him first probably 90% of the time. So we hungout again about a month ago and we ended up having sex. That was a month ago and we haven't talked since. I haven't texted him and he hasn't texted me.
So basically i'm thinking he used me? He just wanted to have sex? When we hungout it really seemed like we had a connection and he liked me but am I wrong, should I just give up?
I really liked him though. (link)
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I wouldn't necessarily say he used you, because to be fair it seems you both wanted to have sex. On the other hand i do think that it is upseting on his behalf that he hasn't made an effort to communicate with you. I think it's best for you to try not to text him because its been a month and he hasn't made an effort to reach out to you, so it just may be that he viewed the situation for what it was at the moment, but not planning for anything from that. Let him reach out to you, if he's genuinely interested he will. If he doesn't, don't beat yourself up about it. I know you really like him, but please remember you are wonderful and you put yourself out there expressing yourself towards him, you deserve the same effort back, so don't settle.
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hi. well im 20 and i have a little bit of hair on my sides basically i cant do a pony tail with all my hair pulled back because i will look bold on the sides. the thing that covers that are my bangs. but i want my hair to grow back there, it looks weird. i might have lost my hair here because i use to do twisters all the time and us the straightner and used gel to pull it back very tight. please help me i want to know what i can do so my hair grows there... btw i havent had a lot of hair there for like 7 years now and it doesnt seem like its going to grow back. thanks for the help! (link)
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Try to stay away from ponytails, it is because they were tightly pulled back this happened. As far as the hair growth I'd say massage the sides of your head as odd as it sounds, but it will increase blood flow and stimulate hair growth. Also try looking for shampoos that are minty, they also stimulate regrowth because its tingly. I know the brand Nioxin is targeted towards hair regrowth, and they have shampoos and conditioners but i mention this because they have a step in the system which is a spray treatment, so that'd be good for you since you're only having problems in one area, you can spray it just to the sides of your head. Hope everything works out for you!
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hi im 21 and i used to have a lot of hair but i kind of lost it with all the gel and straightning ive been doing to it.i even had the chinese hair staightning done to my hair and i think that has caused it to stop growing. i had curling hair before and now is straigh and verry puffy and rough. please help me. my hair is a disaster. i want it to grow again and make it fuller and curly if possible and make it stop breaking. if i go at this paste i will be bald by 30 because new hair isnt gdrowing... help help help please!!!! i wear extentions but i dont want to wear them anymore (link)
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Hey, I will have to agree with you that the Chinese hair straightening might have in some way affected your growth, a lot of these chemical straightening systems in the market usually do more damage than good. The reason why your hair is not maintaining its curl is because it has become fried. Try using hair masks, deep conditioning will help with the roughness and add protein back into your hair. Most importantly, your hair, nails and skin is a reflection of what you are eating so I would suggest eating healthy foods as well for optimal results. Another thing that would help with growth is biotin supplements, some people stray away from pills so it all depends on what you're comfortable with. When you start seeing some growth i would suggest getting a trim, so you can start getting rid of the damaged hair, its going to take patience and time but the hair that grows in should be bouncy and curly. Best of luck!
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I am 12/F. How do i get this guy to like me? There is this really nice guy who i really like. He is actually one of my close friends but he likes someone else and there is a chnace she might like him back. She is prettier than I am and cooler, but i really like him. (link)
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Hi, well you can't get someone to like you, they have to like you for who you are.
I do think though you are being a little hard on yourself. Try not to compare yourself with other girls and know that you are beautiful and I'm sure you have amazing qualities to offer. It might even be a sign that he likes YOU, because he wants to play with you only. You never know until he states how he feels.
You might me wrong, maybe he doesn't like her, and its only because you are so interested in him that you are picking up on insignificant gestures between them two. I suggest you try to be who you are, do the things you like, if he likes you for it great, if he doesn't please don't try to change to impress him. Its not worth the heartache, you can't force things you have to let them spark naturally.
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I had a wonderful life till I moved south. Here i am a fish out of water. I made a mistake of buying a Sub shop and now have to work 14 hour days 7 days a week. I have no fun anymore - I am not proud of anything anymore. My son took his life late last year and I am taking his method to do to myself. I have been told the breathing nitrogen is painless and within 2 minutes you are gone. Is this in fact the most painless way to take? (link)
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First and foremost, i am so very sorry about your loss.
From thee bottom of my heart i plead you to not take this alternative. Sure there are tough roads in this thing we call life, but we can over come them. Reality is most people would not be content with that much work. That does not mean you simply give up your precious life. You haven't considered selling the Sub shop? Perhaps maybe you can move back, and go back to your old lifestyle where you were much happier. It seems that you made a little business mistake, hey it happens! Don't beat yourself up about it, try selling it if this lifestyle doesn't seem cut out for you. Do realize there is always something to be done, some way in which you can fix a problem. Suicide is not the answer. Inbox me if you want to talk, I'm more than willing to listen and give more suggestions.
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Dumbell :(
My bf fucked me in my ass and he also came in my ass. It did not drip down to my vagina. Can i be pregnant? Im really nervous! (link)
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If it didn't drip down then...No, you cannot get pregnant.
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I'm to scared to go back to school.All the boys are amolst bullies to me. They sexually harass me and touch me.One day when I was walking home from school and a bunch of boys surrounded me and saying hey babe your hot why don't you come to my house to smush I say please let me go I want to go home. I take out my cell phone to call my dad and one of them takes my phone and throws it in the street. I try to run but one of them grabs me and slaps me then pushes me to the ground.They all run away. I'm so scared to go back to school how do I deal with the boys harassing me? (link)
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I suggest you don't wait until it happens again. Tell your parents, what they are doing is a crime. Please tell an older figure, whether it be someone at school like a teacher or your parents. Its better to be safe then sorry, next time it could be worse so please, please, please tell someone and they get in trouble for it.
Some ideas,
perhaps also you can take an alternative route home?
and get someone to walk with you?
You should not be scared to attend school, and this has to come to an end.
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I rarely take vacation time off, because I feel like it's going to the waste :( Finally, I feel overwhelmed and decided to take a week off. Now, nobody can travel with me anywhere, and I feel like if to not take that time off afterall.
My question is, should I just get over my fear and travel alone? if so, where?
Or should I just work and wait until a vacation opportunity arises?
HELP, I'm sooo confused and feel bad that I can't enjoy life and travel cause I ain't got anyone to do it with :( (link)
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I would go for it! Travel alone, face your fears.
When i think of a vacation i think of relaxation, you will be able to be at a tranquil peace of mind. You might discover things about yourself on this trip alone.
I think its a great opportunity, you can always mingle with people at the destination. I would recommend perhaps the caribbean or Florida.
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My life is a wreck. I was naturally just born ugly. My life felt like it was falling apart starting in fifth grade. I had buck teeth, short curly hair (I had extensions then), I was a good foot taller than everyone else(I was 5 foot five, they were 4 foot 5), and I also got acne really early so my face was always a greasy mess. Now, going into seventh grade, I have no friends. I'm terrible at every sport even though I am a "nerd". I have braces, acne, and I'm going to have to get glasses soon. I also wear a back brace because I have a curvature in my spine and if it gets worse I might have to get surgery. I just feel like an awkward lonely loser. All I wanted this year was to be popular. School's starting in three weeks and I really don't want to screw things up this year.
By the way if it helps, I'm twelve, five foot eight and ninety-nine pounds. (link)
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Truth of the matter is appearances are just that, appearances. I wont say that some people dont judge other solemly based on looks because some might, but think about it if someone does not accept you for you why do they matter.
You are beautiful, you need to believe that. Its really hard for many girls in todays society to accept themselves because of the way media portays women.
Confidence is something you have to demonstrate to others, for others to believe in you. You cannot put yourself down the way you do. It saddens me that you are only twelve years old and you feel this way, baby girl the acne will go away, your hair will grow, your braces will be gone someday, all these things will go away. Instead of focusing on your appearance, rather focus on being more social, i guarantee you that people will like you for being you. Look for kind people, and i assure you, you will have genuine friends.
Popularity is not important, it all fades away. So what if you are a "nerd" thats a good thing! Focus on your studies and try to see yourself in a positive light, rather than pointing out yur flaws tell me things you love about yourself
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