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i'm scared about going back to school


Question Posted Thursday August 18 2011, 2:12 am

I'm to scared to go back to school.All the boys are amolst bullies to me. They sexually harass me and touch me.One day when I was walking home from school and a bunch of boys surrounded me and saying hey babe your hot why don't you come to my house to smush I say please let me go I want to go home. I take out my cell phone to call my dad and one of them takes my phone and throws it in the street. I try to run but one of them grabs me and slaps me then pushes me to the ground.They all run away. I'm so scared to go back to school how do I deal with the boys harassing me?

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yibelle answered Friday August 19 2011, 4:14 am:
I suggest you don't wait until it happens again. Tell your parents, what they are doing is a crime. Please tell an older figure, whether it be someone at school like a teacher or your parents. Its better to be safe then sorry, next time it could be worse so please, please, please tell someone and they get in trouble for it.

Some ideas,
perhaps also you can take an alternative route home?
and get someone to walk with you?

You should not be scared to attend school, and this has to come to an end.

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adviceman49 answered Thursday August 18 2011, 9:52 am:
You have been sexually harassed. In the United States this is against the law in all 50 states, even for boys as young as your school bullies. Being bullied by these boys is becoming an unlawful act in most states as well.


If you have not told your parents then do so now before school starts. The statue of limitations has not run out and these boy can be punished for what they have done. If you know there names then that too should be told to your parents. All you need is one name, the police will find out who the other boys are.


Yes the police. This is first and foremost a police matter. Then the school authorities need to be notified as the school can take appropriate action. Even though this took place off school grounds you are protected from school bullying and other things that begin at school off school grounds.


You have a right to attend school without fear. These boys have violated that right. Bullying in and of itself has become in recent months something school officials have become very aware of. Schools through out the U.S. have placed severe punishments in place for anyone caught bullying another student. Sexual harassment is a zero tolerance offence as well as a police matter..


Tell your parent, inform your school principal and report these events to the police. While boys may have thought they were just having fun; this was no fun for you. Well it is time they learned the difference between fun and harassment. It's just to bad they will learn the hard way. Please make the proper notifications before you or another girl are actually physically harmed by these boys.

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GYPSYBABE answered Thursday August 18 2011, 4:57 am:
awwe bless ya it must be hard try and find a mate to walk or run home with or find a diffrent route tel your parents dont let them sexually harass u ;) hope helped a little

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Trauma answered Thursday August 18 2011, 2:30 am:
What these boys are doing is not acceptable. In fact, sexual harassment is a crime. If these boys start doing the same things again, you definitely need to tell someone. If it's happening at school, tell a teacher. And tell your parents, too. And if you can, try not to walk home alone. See if you can find a friend to walk with you, or if it's possible, try to get a parent to come pick you up.

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