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I like this guy but he likes sombody else.
I am 12/F. How do i get this guy to like me? There is this really nice guy who i really like. He is actually one of my close friends but he likes someone else and there is a chnace she might like him back. She is prettier than I am and cooler, but i really like him.
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Hi, well you can't get someone to like you, they have to like you for who you are.
I do think though you are being a little hard on yourself. Try not to compare yourself with other girls and know that you are beautiful and I'm sure you have amazing qualities to offer. It might even be a sign that he likes YOU, because he wants to play with you only. You never know until he states how he feels.
You might me wrong, maybe he doesn't like her, and its only because you are so interested in him that you are picking up on insignificant gestures between them two. I suggest you try to be who you are, do the things you like, if he likes you for it great, if he doesn't please don't try to change to impress him. Its not worth the heartache, you can't force things you have to let them spark naturally.
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Since he's one of your cloesest friends,then he must consider you and love you like a sister and probably not more.If your friends with the girl he likes,you can talk to her and let her know how you really feel about this guy,and that YOU love him.You can also try talking to him about it,of course without pressuring him or making him feel uncomfortableabout it becuase you dont want to ruin your close relationship.Another solution,which is hard,you can try to move on and remain his best friend,you never know,a perfect lucky guy might be waiting for you.Whatever you decide to do,just remember that if things don't work out,keep your head held high because mister perfect is out there somewhere.Goodluck :)xx
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Hey there,
If you want a guy to like you the best advice I can give you is to just be yourself.
Don't try to hard and don't alter your personality for anyone. Guys can see through that anyway.
Don't compare yourself to the other girl I am sure you are equally as pretty and as cool.
get to know the guy more ask him to hang out maybe to the movies or the mall or something.
Don't try too hard to get his attention just be friendly and relaxed. Smile and just talk to him.
you never know if you hang out more he might start to like you also. But if he really has feelings for this other girl unfortunately that is something you're going to have to accept. Its immensely hard but sometimes that's the way life is. You have to step aside no matter how much it hurts.
There will be plenty of other guys trust me. Ones who will see how fantastic you are. You are only twelve you have years ahead of you. I know right now he may seem like the only guy in the world but he's not.
good luck and much <3
Jess 18/f
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