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E-mail: Amy.I@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
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Member Since: March 29, 2012
Answers: 14
Last Update: April 5, 2012
Visitors: 1255
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Well,I have a boyfriend,he has so many friends and hasn't stopped meeting them as well as hanging out with them since we first met,I just felt like giving more importance to the relationship from the very beginning of it,so I started to lose contact with everyone of them,all of a sudden I realized I was completely alone,just my partner and I.So now I'd like to get them back or make more friends I don't know,it's not fair that my bf can still have his friends and I don't,I'm feeling like I was only devoted to him,I don't wanna do that anymore,there are some weekends when he goes to parties or nightclubs along with his friends and I just stay home watching a movie with my cat:(the whole night thinking about my friends and all the things we used to do together back then when I was a single one. (link)
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Its not fair that your boyfriend still gets to have the fun he used to have with his friends and you don't.When you are in a relationship with the person you love,it doesn't mean that you have to forget the other people you love that were your friends before you met your boy friend.Your boyfriend is doing the right thing.He is finding time for both a relationship with the girl he loves and and for his friends.I think you should do the same.For exampl,you and your boyfriend can arrange a day a week for each one of you guys to spend time with your friends.Call your girl friends and make plans with them where you can catch up and have fun together.Its as simple as that.Do the things you used to do with your friends before you were dating,maybe that will remind you guys of the old days and bring you even close with them.You never know,they might be missing you as much as you miss them.Goodluck :)xx
A.I
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I don't understand my math and whenever I listen in class I get it but whenever I take the test I fail and my mom is really mad and so am I but whenever I try to go to the tutoring hours for my teacher she's never there (link)
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Math isn't easy to learn.The secret of passing math with good grades is solving extra exersises.You have to solve so many extra exersises to be literally perfect in the lesson you taking.I use to struggle with math so much,I got a tutor,and all he did was give me extra exersises,and a lot of them,so that when I went to school to do the test,I knew how how to solve the test,and in less time than I usually take.Math just needs parctice,so don't worry.Just keep on working hard and please,done give up because math is one of the most important subjects you're ganna take in school.oh&if things don't work out get a tutor,or have one of your smart classmates help you out after school,you can also ask your teacher to give you extra exersises.I hope I helped,Goodluck and no matter what happens,don't give up.You can do anything you set your mind to.:)xx
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Today I failed one of my written tests at school,the thing is that I'm feeling so depressed 'cause of it,I feel like almost dying,why do I feel this way?I know this is not normal,it's just a test,I need help,please,I need some advice,I'd like to feel like this is just what it is,that's all,that if I study harder,then I'll do better next time,thanks:) (link)
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School causes pressure to most of the students.For the smart people,they have to worry about getting straight A's all the time and being perfect in school work.As for others,its the pressure of getting good grades.Sometimes,you will fail a test,or maybe two,and You will feel depressed about it,but done give up.Your grades is one of the things that you can completely change to the better depending on how hard you try.So how about skipping saturday night out with your friends and having a saturday night in with the books.Trust me it will be worth it in the end,once you're from the top students in class,making yourself,your parents and even teachers proud of what you've accomplished.So don't give up on something you can turn around with your effort and hardwork,just keep on moving on,working hard,being postive.and most importantly be happy,take time and look around you and notice all the beautiful things you have that will help you push and push and work hard to reach your goals and to be successful.
Goodluck :)xx
A.I
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I am 12/F. How do i get this guy to like me? There is this really nice guy who i really like. He is actually one of my close friends but he likes someone else and there is a chnace she might like him back. She is prettier than I am and cooler, but i really like him. (link)
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Since he's one of your cloesest friends,then he must consider you and love you like a sister and probably not more.If your friends with the girl he likes,you can talk to her and let her know how you really feel about this guy,and that YOU love him.You can also try talking to him about it,of course without pressuring him or making him feel uncomfortableabout it becuase you dont want to ruin your close relationship.Another solution,which is hard,you can try to move on and remain his best friend,you never know,a perfect lucky guy might be waiting for you.Whatever you decide to do,just remember that if things don't work out,keep your head held high because mister perfect is out there somewhere.Goodluck :)xx
A.I
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Recently I went to a party and saw a boy I used to go to school with years ago there. We didn't really talk at school but we know who each other were. Anyway we both got quite drunk and ended up kissing that night and we spent a lot of the night together just kissing it was really nice. He told me he had only just been dumped by his girlfriend a week ago and he wanted her to leave him alone. He got my number at the end of the night and has texted me a lot since. Anyway we caught up again last weekend and were both drinking, as soon as he saw me gave me a kiss. We hooked up again that night and he was so lovely to me. We ended up going back to my house and sleeping together. He stayed the night and he was so so nice to me the whole time and seemed really interested. He apologized the next day for drinking so much because he was nervous. He has also texted me every day since and he wants to go out drinking again this weekend. Do you think he likes me or is just in it for the sex? (link)
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I believe that guys differ.Some guys tend to be loyal and treat you right because they genuinly love you, and others just want to get close to you because of the kissing and touching and most importantly sex.The guy has just went out of a relationship,and he's the one that got dumped which means that he's probably not completely over her.I think that you have to give what you two have time,if he truely loves you then hell wait for you and give you all the time you need and all the space you need to decide if you're ganna have a relationship.Some guys ask girls out for drinks,just to get them drunk,and hookup,while other guys,ask girls out for drinks,just to spend time with the girl they love because they simply miss her.Just find out the kind of guy he is,and find out if he wants a real relationship with you that garuntees that your heart won't be broken.No tears,No dissapointments,so be truthful with each other from the beginging.
Hope I helped.Goodluck :)xx
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Ok I know that's a question asked by a lot ot females but my ex ryan and I were together 4 years we have a beautiful little girl together afew months ago I left him cuz he didn't appreciate me he said he was going to change but still hasn't I'm with him almost always but when he gets a text or call from any other female he makes me leave I feel like his "if I don't have anyone else around" girl it hurts so bad he even kicks our daughter out for a female I also have another guy but he knows about ryan he loves me ane has been trying to get me to forget about ryan and be with him I just don't know what I should do should I give up on a 4 year relationship or keep trying? (link)
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I believe that if you love someone,and of course he loves you back,you should be willing to fight for your love and compassion together in order to solve the problems and obsticles you're facing no matter how tough they are.If your feelings are true for each other,then don't give up on the love you've been building up for four long years.Turst me,all couples fight and undergoe misunderstandings,but every problem has a solution.You have a daughter which means that you have to be extra careful with the decision you make.Its not easy for a girl to grow up with only one parent.So no matter how big the problems that you're facing together are,you have to sit down with your ex and set things straight with him.Choose your final decision,carefully and wisely.Ask yourslef does he make me happy?Ask yourslef is it worth fighting for?and if it is,then keep on trying till it works ou between the both of you guys.Finally,talk to him and decide.
Hope I helped,and if things didn't work out with him,doesn't mean they won't work out with another lucky guy :)
Goodluck xx
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So I was wondering what clothes turn guys on or make a girl look cute? (link)
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1.You can wear a blazer jeans and heels
2.You can wear mini shorts converse and a shirt
3.You can wear a tight short dress with heels
4.You can wear a casual comfortable dress with flats
Of course there are many other clothes you can choose,but those are some options.:)xx
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I am sorry to put you on the spot like this but of late I'm starting to feel really depressed and don't know what to do... (link)
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Feeling depressed is normal sometimes.I think everyone passes through a phase where they don't know how they feel and don't done what to do about the way they feel,they just aren't happy and they don't know why.All you have to do is look at life in a positive perspective and avoid the things that stress you out.Like for me,I put my speakers on,and go jogging and put all of my troubles aside.Just know that there are so many things in life to be happy about.You have family,friends,and health.That by itself should put a smile on your face and give you the strength to get up and start your motivational day full of new surprises waiting for you to discover them.
Set new goals for youself,visit new places,make plans with the people you love,avoid the people that make you happy,try something new,sign up for activities,make a movie night with you friends,get a makeover,go to the mall,anything that puts your frown upside down.:)xx
Hope I helped xoxo
A.I
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I've been considering it the past seven years... I attempted once out of all that time and got saved at the hospital. Well, I really want to do it... end my life. When I look in the mirror, I'm not satisfied with what I see. I don't have anyone in my life. I barely have money. Question is... will God forgive me if I ended my life today? (link)
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God is the creator of this world.God brought you to this life for a reason.Everybody,everybody in life is meant to do and be a speacial person in his own way.You have no right to end your life,only god decides when to end your life.Plus,why would you?You done have any money?Get a better job,or work two jobs.You're not satisfied of the way you look,go jogging everyday and get fit,go to the gym.There are a lot of ways to look at the world we live in,and there are several ways to deal with all the difficulties we face in our everyday life,trust me I know its not easy what you're dealing with,but that's not the hard part,the challenge is getting up and fighting for the amazing life you deserve to have.Seriously don't give up on yourself,and keep on fighting.remember to look at everything from a positive percpective and not from a negetive one where your world seems to be falling down on you.Life is beautiful,you just have to take the time and see all of the magnificent secrets it holds.Goodluck :)
A.I
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I'm a 27 yr old attractive female. I'm smart and I have a loving family. I have thought about killing myself since I was 13. I now live in a new city with my fiance, but I know no one here, I'm so lonely and becoming so needy and therefore unhappy. It's not that I was to die so much as I cant go on this way. I don't know if I'm strong enough to pick up the pieces on my own. My fiance says he loves me (he really is the love of my life) but where is he? I don't know, out drunk with his friends somewhere. So, I know it seems ridiculous but remember, I have been thinking this way for 14 yrs, I've thought a lot about it. Any way I can do this somewhat painlessly and not end up in a hospital with brain or organ damage? Please help me (link)
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Done give up on life,why would you?When everything wrong seenms to be happening,close you're eyes and just think of ways to make them better.Whenever something bas happens,learn from it and get up because it only made you stronger.What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
You're beautiful,check.
You have a loving family,check.Whenever you're feeling lonely talk to your family on the phone,or skype with them.
You have a fiance that you love,check.oh and about him,talk to him tell him how you feel about what's going on,spend some quality time together
You live in new york city baby,check.about you feeling lonely,get a dog or go shopping with a girl frnd,you must have atleast one girlfrnd,have a gathering or something fun thatlle take your mind off of the things that disturb you.
Also,you can arrange one day of the week where you can pamper yourslef,get your hair and nails done,get a facial,watch all of you're favorite movies.
When you look at life in a bright and positive way,trust me its not as bad as it looks.
So don't give up,you're beautiful and someday you will realize that.
Goodluckk xx
A.I
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How do I make my stoumach look flat,without having 2 pull it in? (link)
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In order to have a flat stomach,you have to exersise.you can't hide your tummy fat if you have them.You can make them go away by doing pushups and crunches,and having a fit and healthy body.Also,in order to have a flat stomach,watch your calorie intake and drink lots and lots and LOTS of water,its the most important thing.All of that might seem hard,but trust me in the end the results will be perfect ! :D
Goodluck xx
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First of all id just like to say this is more of a statement than a question and for that i apologise i just thought that somebody should hear what im thinking before i die. Im male, 21 years old from the uk and ive finally given up on life.
Ive been trawling the net for days trying to find reasons why i shouldnt kill my self and i just can't think of any, ive felt dead for years, i know its selfish but i dont see any other way.
IT all goes back 11 years when i found out my biological father was a peodophile, what a way to fuck a kids head up, i dont blame my mom for telling me, she got advice from many different people and authorities and was told that it was best to tell me. since then i was never the same i took to stealing and lying, smoking pot and generaly being a prick. i have stolen from my mother so many times ive lost count, ripping her pubs of for £1000's at a time and everytime she has let me back, well i did it again just recently trying to stay out of my own head i picked up an old habit for cocaine and in 2 short weeks of running a pub for her have ripped it off for £900, she and her bloke are in debt up to there eyeballs already and now with this they both might lose there home and job(another pub) i know that im well and truely broken, i should have a seen a shrink years ago but always refused and ive recently come to realise that the drugs the stealing it was always running from the real issues ive left bottled up. It will probably destroy my mom when i kill myself tonight but i figure if i do it im only going to hurt her this 1 last time,
the real question here is do you think she and my little brother will ever forgive me? (link)
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You know the one of the best things a woman can hear is "you're pregnant".Yourse mother loves you no matter what you've done and I know,and you should know that she always will no matter what.When she decided to tell you about your father,it wasn't easy for her,but she did it because she loves you,and because she doesn't want to lose you in the future and she doesn't want to see you get hurt.If you're not on track,and you're doing bad things,simply stop.Get up and do something about the life you're ruining with your own hands,have a fresh brandnew start.Go out have fun,have some quality time with your mom just do anything that will help you start over.As an answer to your question,I say no.The most valuble thing to a mother is her children,why do think you're mom has been forgiving you even though you've done so many mistakes?its because she doesn't want to lose you.If you kill yourslef,she will literally lose you and she will blame herself for not being a good parent.All your mom wants is to see you happy and successfull,what's so hard about that?And as for your brother,then he's just ganna have to deal with it,its not like he as a choice.Just remember,when everything seems to be going wrong in life,family will always be there to help you every step of the way.So,don't kill yourslef.Life is a gift from god,and you have no right to do something horrible like that.
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When I was little, I never had to work hard in school. I've always been smart, and so I could easily do better than the other kids without trying. Once I started middle school, things started getting a little harder, and I generally made do, but once I got into high school, I started falling behind. Now I'm in college, with about a 2.9 and falling, and still no work ethic. I'm not waking up in time for classes, I'm not turning in assignments, and I've developed some serious school-related anxiety (which is contributing to the above). I don't want to have to continue to watch myself slide down this slippery slope, but I don't know how to fix this and make changes that will help me succeed in the long run. What sorts of things can I do to get my life in order? (link)
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School is commitment.Maybe too much commitment for some people.Its natural to feel lost sometimes,the important part is overcoming all of the challenges you're facing and getting back on track.In order to help yourself get back on track,you can write a scheduale,where you specify and write down what you're ganna do during the day and in order.commit to that scheduale.Time management is the ket to succes.You have to split your free fun time and your serious studying time.When you study or do school work you have to be focused and really want that A+.So work hard and don't give up,trust me it will be worth it in the end. :)
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I used to cut myself but I stopped.
I cry in the bathroom like an hour a day because I'm bullied and I don't know if the guy I love likes me.
I just want to commit suicide.
I only have 1 friend and my family also hates me.
How do I deal with my life?! I'm tired of dealing with it. Should I kill myself? (link)
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That's a part of life.In life you're going to deal with so many obsticles and challenges that there will be a moment where you just want to drop everything and give up.But what's the point in giving up if you've gone so far?Look,we all have those days where everything that's wrong in your life decides to hit you at the same time,or when things done turn out the way we expected them to,and that's the part where you're ganna get up and fight for yourself and you happiness.and remember,what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.And baby,if that guy you love doesn't turn out to love you,then just forget about him,you're beautiful and you're better than letting people bully you and play with your emotions.If you're feeling stressed sign up for any fun activity that will get your mind off of things,go get you're hair and nails done,go shopping.So,Work your hardest. Think your smartest.Dream your biggest.Be your greatest. Love you fullest.Smile your brightest What you had yesterday is only memories,and what you will have tomorrow is your dreams.You are beautiful and someone out there is crazy about you,so smile,life is too short to be unhappy:)
A.I
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