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Does he like me; one night stand!
Recently I went to a party and saw a boy I used to go to school with years ago there. We didn't really talk at school but we know who each other were. Anyway we both got quite drunk and ended up kissing that night and we spent a lot of the night together just kissing it was really nice. He told me he had only just been dumped by his girlfriend a week ago and he wanted her to leave him alone. He got my number at the end of the night and has texted me a lot since. Anyway we caught up again last weekend and were both drinking, as soon as he saw me gave me a kiss. We hooked up again that night and he was so lovely to me. We ended up going back to my house and sleeping together. He stayed the night and he was so so nice to me the whole time and seemed really interested. He apologized the next day for drinking so much because he was nervous. He has also texted me every day since and he wants to go out drinking again this weekend. Do you think he likes me or is just in it for the sex?
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I believe that guys differ.Some guys tend to be loyal and treat you right because they genuinly love you, and others just want to get close to you because of the kissing and touching and most importantly sex.The guy has just went out of a relationship,and he's the one that got dumped which means that he's probably not completely over her.I think that you have to give what you two have time,if he truely loves you then hell wait for you and give you all the time you need and all the space you need to decide if you're ganna have a relationship.Some guys ask girls out for drinks,just to get them drunk,and hookup,while other guys,ask girls out for drinks,just to spend time with the girl they love because they simply miss her.Just find out the kind of guy he is,and find out if he wants a real relationship with you that garuntees that your heart won't be broken.No tears,No dissapointments,so be truthful with each other from the beginging.
Hope I helped.Goodluck :)xx
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Like you said, he was just recently dumped by an ex. It was a one night stand. Your a rebound. He's using you for sex, and someone to look forward to on the weekends so he isn't thinking about his ex.
I wouldn't give him anything else. If you like him, DON'T HAVE SEX WITH HIM ANYMORE. Figure out what he wants with you, and go from there.
If he doesn't want committment, why have sex with him? Your wasting your time.
Figure out his intentions, and see what he wants from you, ok?
You deserve better.
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Want me to be as straightforward as possible?as you just said'Just one night stand',that guy doesn't wanna have any commitment again,stay away from him,or keep him as a booty call,if not you'll end up broken hearted hon,believe me:)
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It seems he generally likes you but maybe try hanging outsober and see if he is the same way.
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