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How do I deal with my life?


Question Posted Tuesday March 27 2012, 10:55 pm

I used to cut myself but I stopped.
I cry in the bathroom like an hour a day because I'm bullied and I don't know if the guy I love likes me.
I just want to commit suicide.
I only have 1 friend and my family also hates me.

How do I deal with my life?! I'm tired of dealing with it. Should I kill myself?

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Rogue1216 answered Friday August 29 2014, 6:19 pm:
No you shouldn't, you have a lot to live for, i know exactly how you feel, my girlfriend and i recently got into a fight and i have cut a few times, but if you truly just want to leave and make the pain stop shoot yourself, if you're like me your to much of a wimp to do it, its the fact that your not dead already that makes me think you're not ready to die, please consider my answer,

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mannequin24 answered Thursday March 29 2012, 10:53 pm:
No you shouldn't! I completely understand what you are going through.
Good job for stopping the cutting! It's an addiction that many people can stop on their own, but you were able to.
When I am really depressed, I try to make myself busy. Whenever you feel depressed, try reading a cheerful book or listening to some motivational music.
Also, depending on how close you and your friend are, I suggest talking to her about some of the things you are going through. That way, you are able to vent which also helps.
Set up some goals for yourself. This gives sort of a motivation to keep going. Yes, you will get tired of dealing with life, but that's how almost everybody feels at one point or another. The important thing that really shows character is how you deal with it. When you ignore the depression and try harder to make yourself happier, you are overcoming all those obstacles and becoming a stronger person.
As for the bullying, you should tell a teacher or trusted adult so they can help you out with it. And the guy that you like. If it doesn't work out, don't worry. There are so many other guys, you'll find the one eventually.
I really hope this helps and good luck with everything :)

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Aymy answered Thursday March 29 2012, 4:36 pm:
That's a part of life.In life you're going to deal with so many obsticles and challenges that there will be a moment where you just want to drop everything and give up.But what's the point in giving up if you've gone so far?Look,we all have those days where everything that's wrong in your life decides to hit you at the same time,or when things done turn out the way we expected them to,and that's the part where you're ganna get up and fight for yourself and you happiness.and remember,what doesn't kill you makes you stronger.And baby,if that guy you love doesn't turn out to love you,then just forget about him,you're beautiful and you're better than letting people bully you and play with your emotions.If you're feeling stressed sign up for any fun activity that will get your mind off of things,go get you're hair and nails done,go shopping.So,Work your hardest. Think your smartest.Dream your biggest.Be your greatest. Love you fullest.Smile your brightest What you had yesterday is only memories,and what you will have tomorrow is your dreams.You are beautiful and someone out there is crazy about you,so smile,life is too short to be unhappy:)
A.I

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micZz answered Wednesday March 28 2012, 4:53 pm:
No please don't kill yourself! That's the last thing you wanna do! And did your family say they hate you? Well if they didn't then how would you know? You may just think that if they did well then its there loss they lost a perfectly good child. About the friends thing maybe you should try and make new friends you know but neva give up on that 1 friend you have now cause she's been there for you when no1 else was!and about the bully thing does it happen at school if so then tell ur family and ask if you can go to a new school or tell someone at school if you are abused that kinda bully well you should really report it to an adult that you trust.I was sexually abused and I told my teacher and then she got me to tell my mom and now everything is almost sorted out.pleas don't commit suicide life is precious and you only live once! And things may look bad but things will get better

Hope I helped x

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Melly7 answered Wednesday March 28 2012, 9:29 am:
No don't kill yourself things will get better and you can talk to me melissahigdon7@yahoo.com if you need someone to talk to

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