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Member Since: February 15, 2012
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Last Update: April 20, 2012
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What can I do for I wanna die (link)
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The best thing is to tell someone a family member friend Councler but don't kill yourself things'll get better
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So I'm 23 and thinking lots of death lately....my brother. Killed himself in front of me when I was 15 I watched my aunt die of cancer all my grandparents died I was a foster. Child in many different homes and badly abused as a child ... I get a lot of bad thoughts about ending life what should I do ps... I'm a girl I'm from Canada (link)
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I agree suicide is never the answer. If I could also suggest something I'd say do some random acts of kindness for other people, because you never know just by smilin to someone or helping them you could save them from going through what you are. I read sixbillionsecrets all the time and for a lot of the people depressed they just want someone to notice them. I hope you find a higher purpose in life that makes you happy! Good luck.
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Do I need to trust anybody ?
Is this world just business ?
People do cheat. In that case, why do I have to trust someone and be broken ? Cry ? Be disappointed ?
I know many of you might have experienced this. (link)
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I can see you seem to be very heart broken. I've been there most of us have. To get more to the point yes you should definately want to trust people. Trust is very important with any relationship I consider it one of the most important things. Basically if there is no trust it's an unhealthy relationship that won't work for you. I sometimes have big trust problems. I'm very careful with who I trust. Some good tips when putting your trust in people is look at the relationship. How does that person treat you if they respect you, give you space, and haven't ever given you a reason not to trust them you should probably test their trust with you. However if they are the opposite with pretty much any of those things no I wouldn't trust them. It can be hard trusting because of the emotions like you don't want to get hurt, but good relationships with good people with take you far and help you through a lot of things later in life when you're maybe to that point of done trying. I wish you the best sorry for the length!
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Hi there.
I am a type of person who like to share his thoughts. It was just recently that I spotted this quality in me - I have a very very very good imagination. Really ! I AM NOT JOKING!!!
Ok cut down one '' very ''. Happy ? :P
Now, I thought that I can use (and I do use) this imagination to make up scripts for stories, novels or even films. I have 2 small story scripys ready. I can improve upon that. But my english writing skill is not too good to make me a good writer. I can make up wonderful novels, but the vocabulary and writing style ? It's too basic, too normal. What as a budding writer do I need to do to make myself more skillful in these areas and what do you, as an audience suggest me I should be writing. Any topic, any suggestion. What would you like to be written about...???? Any answer. Thanks. (link)
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I'd say that's a wonderful dream! I'm glad you found one of your passions in life. The only thing I'd suggest is working at basic sentence structures and working on your sentences better. I'm not sure if you just were typing too fast but there's a lot of mistakes on this post with your sentences. Ex: 1st sentence should be something more like I am the type of person who likes sharing his thoughts. Don't start off a sentence with but. Towards the end should be suggest that I do you don't need the me. The sentence at the end what would you like to be written about doesn't make sense. So there are several mistakes with the writing but as long as you study more about writing structure and the grammar mistakes you'll be way better off to your writing career!
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im going threw all that now i want to die i dont have the one i truly love everyone hates me im wrthless (link)
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You're not worthless. You can do anything you want in life. I understand you feel worthless a lot of people have been there I have and still do at times. But please don't kill yourself people love you try to keep yourself occupied with other things. I hope this helps just remember you are your own worst enemy. If you're hanging around negative people that don't treat you like you should be treated stop hanging around them it'll help. I hope I helped you somewhat. Things get better! :)
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First of all id just like to say this is more of a statement than a question and for that i apologise i just thought that somebody should hear what im thinking before i die. Im male, 21 years old from the uk and ive finally given up on life.
Ive been trawling the net for days trying to find reasons why i shouldnt kill my self and i just can't think of any, ive felt dead for years, i know its selfish but i dont see any other way.
IT all goes back 11 years when i found out my biological father was a peodophile, what a way to fuck a kids head up, i dont blame my mom for telling me, she got advice from many different people and authorities and was told that it was best to tell me. since then i was never the same i took to stealing and lying, smoking pot and generaly being a prick. i have stolen from my mother so many times ive lost count, ripping her pubs of for £1000's at a time and everytime she has let me back, well i did it again just recently trying to stay out of my own head i picked up an old habit for cocaine and in 2 short weeks of running a pub for her have ripped it off for £900, she and her bloke are in debt up to there eyeballs already and now with this they both might lose there home and job(another pub) i know that im well and truely broken, i should have a seen a shrink years ago but always refused and ive recently come to realise that the drugs the stealing it was always running from the real issues ive left bottled up. It will probably destroy my mom when i kill myself tonight but i figure if i do it im only going to hurt her this 1 last time,
the real question here is do you think she and my little brother will ever forgive me? (link)
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Ok for the comment posted by masterclinic I see where they were going because they were trying to give you tuff love but those kinds of things are actually takin more negatively for someone in your position facing what you're facing so I wouldn't pay attention to that comment it will only make you feel worse. They're trying to say you're avoiding life and need to man up but not everyone can just face life on. I understand what you're going through but dont be a bad influence like you're father. Be the person you want your family to look up to and tell you're family what you told us and maybe apologize to them for some regrets you have. I wish you the best!
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im 26 years old and i have tryed taken my life a few time and never been good at it.
i am now back in the state where im sick for fighting for some thing that will never work they way i would like i have been dating a young lady for 8 years and she came out the other week and told me she dont love me any more and i dont know what to do i love her with all my heart and i dont want to live with out her im not sleeping or eating all i can think of is ending my life ive tryed speaking to my friends and family and they just tell me to stop beening stupid and thats all (link)
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Yes don't take your like you might not realize but by taking your life you're gonna seriously ruin someone else's that really cares about you. You are so young and have so much to live for. You can still do anything you want in life just work hard at whatever you love and you'll be happy as ever in no time! :)
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I'm in love with my boyfriend but he literally gets mad or upset with me about everything. It's really bad he will get pissed off if I beat him in a video game, or if I don't stay over his house for an extra hour because I don't feel good, if I stop texting him for a couple hours because my hands are full. It's just ridiculous. Don't get me wrong, he's such a sweet guy and really nice to be, never abusive or anything like that...but it's just a bit ridiculous if you ask me and I don't know if I can handle this. I want a relationship where I don't have to worry so much about doing or saying the wrong thing because with this guy something always seems to make him mad or upset. Oh and were both 19 btw. (link)
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He still sounds way too controlling and selfish. By what you said he cares about himself more than your needs and if he truly loves you he'll accept the fact for the moment he needs to let you go
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I used to cut myself but I stopped.
I cry in the bathroom like an hour a day because I'm bullied and I don't know if the guy I love likes me.
I just want to commit suicide.
I only have 1 friend and my family also hates me.
How do I deal with my life?! I'm tired of dealing with it. Should I kill myself? (link)
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No don't kill yourself things will get better and you can talk to me melissahigdon7@yahoo.com if you need someone to talk to
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Hi, I'm a 15 year old girl and my parents just don't understand me.My mom and dad had a divorce and I just hate it. They don't realize what this has done to me and how much its effecting me. My dad is ALWAYS lecturing me about how I'm going to screw up my life when I'm 18 and that he's not gonna help me when I'm older. Every chance he gets he tells me to get better grades and I'm the laziest person ever and I don't do anything. He doesn't Ever appreciate what I do for him and he doesn't realize that I want to do things regular teenagers do. I watch my 4 year old little brother all the fricken time and I never get to do anything a regular teenager does. I never go out or nothing just sit at home watching my brothers. My mom just doesn't give a sh*t she never wants to listen to me and married a complete moron (my stepdad) and they had a baby. He is currently 11 months and I watch him to. My dad thinks I'm a complete failure and he is always putting me down. I cry every night and try to put a smile on my face the next day. I'm fed up with it I need someone to help me to give me a reason to smile. (link)
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Just at 15 living with that already is just too much you need to get out of the situation you're in you and your brother if you have other family members you should contact them and tell them all this cus life could possibly get much better I know if I were you there'd be no way id stay in that house
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my mom is always yelling at me and my sister and brother. She always makes me do things that she can do. She always says her back hurts really bad to where she cant walk but she walks around the house perfectly. She yells at my sister and spanks her to where she lays on the floor and cries.I always feel like crying when she yells at my step dad.And i feel like he is gonna leave us.She always yells and throws stuff for no reason.Just now she said my little sister didnt get spanked and i saw her.My mom put my brother through a wall what do i do to stop her from being an idiot to me and my family? (link)
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I agree tell a trusted teacher or Councler and I know it may sound silly but that's something for the dr Phil show that they'd prolly eat up and get help so it may not happen but I would write into the dr Phil show if I were u
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Hi, my dog is a one year old sheltie and he is my beautiful baby boy. Anyway, he is my family's first dog and it took EXTENSIVE persuasion on my part to convince my parents to get a dog. But we got him a year ago, and he's the sweetest guy. He's completely non-aggressive, would never hurt a fly (he would be SCARED of a fly, that's how sweet he is) and has the cutest little face. We got him when my brother went to college, to help me out with the transition (I am very close with my brother) and my dog has done a great job filling that empty space. However, my mom DESPISES our dog. The reasons why are as follows: He is extremely reactive and barks at everything- its very difficult to walk him because he goes berserk when he sees another dog (but if he has the chance to meet the dog, he is NEVER aggressive. We know it's not out of aggression) so that's the main issue. He barks inside the house if something (walker, biker, truck, or dog) passes by, and it's a loud bark. But this is part of his breed. Shelties are known to be a barky, reactive breed because they were bred to herd sheep and alert their masters if an intruder came into the field. So he thinks he's doing his job. Personally, I think my mom is behaving ridiculously. She said to me that she HATES, HATES, HATES the dog, she wants to put him down, she doesn't care what happens to him, and she hates him. Well, the only thing he does wrong is bark, which is part of his breed. That's it. He doesn't bite, beg or do anything bad. I don't think that's a good enough reason to constitute such hatred- it can get annoying, but nothing more than that. He requires a good amount of exercise, but I can take care of that. I've offered to do a great amount of work for the dog so she won't have to do it all- but I can only do so much seeing as I have to go to school. She complains how she can never do anything she wants anymore because of the dog. All she has to do is a half hour walk with him, then I can take care of the rest after school. So basically, she said she wants to get rid of him and we can't keep him, all because she is overreacting. Here's an issue- I am deeply attached to this dog. I love him soooo much. He's helped me deal with my brother being at college, and he's the cutest, sweetest companion for me. I enjoy playing with him because I want to make him happy. I want him to have the happiest life possible because I love him so much. He is a very deep dog, honestly, and gets depressed if we leave him for too long. He loves us. We're his family, and he loves us. It breaks my heart to think of how much it would hurt him if we got rid of him- trust me, he is a deep, sensitive guy. I cannot even express how much I love this dog, and I will have incredible difficulty speaking pleasantly to my mom if she gives him away. My dad and brother love the dog too, but they seem to be much less passionate advocates for his happiness and well being than myself. Anyway, how do I stop her from getting rid of him??? I love my doggy!!! He's my baby!!!! Thanks, and sorry that this was so long. (link)
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I understand it took me forever to get my 1st dog try before walking him wear him out by playing and take time out to train him not to bark use behavioral technics and maybe get him used to a couple other dogs might help u could go to a trainer also
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What is a good song for really close friendship? (link)
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Forever by red, right thru me-nicki minaj, never be the same-red, just like me-Jamie Foxx, final goodbye-Rihanna
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I'm looking to make a slide slow video similar to what you would use in Youtube with music and pictures. I was wondering if anyone could possibly explain to me exactly how to do this? I am not familiar with Window Movie maker and this video is to post to a family member on Facebook. It will have nothing to do with Youtube I am just looking for video similarities or if there is another program out there I could use preferably free. (link)
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If you have an iPod go to ur app store and search for an app called splice it's free and it's pretty simple to figure out just play around with it and I'll get the hang of it
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Hi, sorry I didn't know which category this belongs in, and it is extremely long.
I'm 18/f and I've had many experiences with deja vu. I'm not a "believer"; I don't believe in any religion, anything spiritual/mystical, or anything along those lines.
I always believed deja vu was something that could be explained by science and psychology, but I'm starting to think differently. This is because of an experience I had with deja vu.
Normally, I get the feeling that I've already seen/done something that is happening, but I know iT hasn't happened. You know, just that normal, creepy 'familiarity' feeling that comes with deja vu.
Normally, when I have deja vu, if I tries to think back and remember "Have I done this before?" or "Why is this familiar?", there is nothing, its all just completely new but strangely familiar.
But the last time I had deja vu, it was different. It was like I COULD remember seeing that exact situation before, but different, like I was unconscious or asleep at the time of experiencing it. It felt almost exactly the same as attempting to remember a hazy dream you had last night. It wasn't a real memory, it felt weird, like I hadn't physically done this before, yet I COULD remember seeing it.
I was shocked. I couldn't believe I remembered seeing this deja vu, and I kinda got mad at myself for not remembering it before I experienced it, like "How could I not remember seeing this happen?"
The point of this is that I'm asking you for some kind of explanation or similar experience.
What is your point of view on this and on deja vu? Can you provide any explanation, whether it be logical or spiritual? Have you ever had a weird experience with deja vu?
Don't worry about offending me, just give me your opinion, even if it is calling me crazy :P
Thanks. (link)
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Hi I've had the exact same thing happen to me in a classroom once in school like 2 yrs ago. It hit me funny one day like absolutely everything about that moment I've seen before but thinking back I knew I haven't déjà vu can just work that way we talked about déjà vu in my astronomy class last yr I love the subject. I don't remember everything that was said about it cus it's kind of complicated it's believed to have something to do with multiple universes and how there's another us living in another demension and when we experience déjà vu we jump time or something somehow I'm sorry I can't explain it cus I forgot a little but she explained it beautifully and it was freaky
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I use to get bullied and now im scared to talk to people. I really want to make friends but people think because i dont talk that i dont like them or something. I started doing online school this year but i thought it would be better if i went back so i could at least try to make friends. Does any one have any tips on how to be less shy or how i could make new friends. (link)
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You can talk to me melissahigdon7@yahoo.com and I'm jelous you take online school I hate school and I don't see my friends here much anyway I suggest getting a job in something you love vollunteering maybe or if you like theatre like me try theatre classes you don't have to go to school for that
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I recently found my biological Dad and turns out that he is living 20 minutes away from me. I've been working with an agency for some time and I found out that he also remarried in 1996 and I was given a phone number.
I am overwhelmed and confused, I'm not sure if I should call him...Hell, I don't even know what I would say. My biggest fear is that I don't want to cause chaos in his marriage but I really would like to find out my medical history and a bit about my biological mother. Do you think I should call and if so how do I start the conversation to make it a little less uneasy?...
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You should definately call him be like hello is this so and so hi my name is... and I was trying to find out a little bit about myself I know you might not believe this but I think you are my biological father is there any chance you would like to get to know me?
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I wish I could have one ounce of control of my life. I'm stuck in a household that is always drama every night. I'm 20/female, and I have no one else to go to. Everyone is hateful here and threatening me they will ruin relationships with the little family I have with rumors. I didn't cause this and I'm the one left with the shame. Why did God give me this? Could I make it on $400 if I moved now? That's all I have. If I'm lucky I'll find a job somewhere but nothing is ever guaranteed. I don't have any friends or anyone that cares in my daily life. If I moved to another state, maybe that chance are better than the chances of trying to survive this hell. If nobody helps me, I might as well commit suicide tonight. (link)
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Don't give up try getting a job now and make enough money then get out of there and u can talk to me don't loose hope things will get better
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Hi instead of self harming myself I've been writing poetry :) would you mind reading some if my work and giving me feedback? I have a lot but here are my three favorite ones :)
This one is called " useless lies "
Today is the day
That I'll give up on trying
Today is the end
Of all the useless lying
Not wasting my tears
If they won't stop the bleeding
Today is the day that my heart will stop beating
My palms are sweaty my vision is blurred
I let out a scream that no one even heard
I blink back the tears I choke back a cry
Today is the end if all the useless lies
"Call me crazy"
some people call me crazy
Some think I'm just sic
I think I'm just lazy
I need something short and quick
Something simple to take away my pain
Something easy to help me live through the day
As my world gets destroyed I'm destroying
myself
Fill the ache in my heart
That can't be filled by anything else
I'm done with crying
My blood is my tears
It's time to let go
Time to face my fears
Some think I'm crazy
Some think I'm sick
I think I'm just lazy
I need something short and quick
" forgotten "
Left alone
Forgotten
Nobody else cares
Left alone forgotten
No one else is there
I can't escape to scared to try
I still feel alone inside
My world crashing
All around me
Raining sorrow
Someone see me
See me for who I am inside
No one cares
No one even tries
Done believing
All your lies (link)
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Very talented beautiful poems :) I write poems sometimes when I'm depressed to it sets me free in a way
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I have a REALLY low self esteem, and absolutely no confidence and I don't know how to change that. I feel disgusted when I look in the mirror and I'm ashamed that others look at me. My smile is horrible, I need braces very bad but my dad won't take care of it. I constantly amnhiding my smile, covering my mouth every time I laugh, or looking down or away if possible. I'm skinny and don't have any boobs and I'm not up to societies standards and that bothers me greatly. I keep wishing I can change things about myself when I already know I can't. I just want to know if there's a way to increase my self confidence, or self esteem somehow (link)
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u don't want your life to depend on what society thinks because even if people like you you still might not love yourself. In my opinion you should care about who you are more than what you look like. Work on finding yourself and then worry about other things. Once you know who you are you should feel more comfortable and not care what others think. Good luck! I hope this helps
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