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I start a full time babysitting job in two weeks and I need to know how to be a fun babysitter. I'm going to be watching an 8 year old boy, A 6 year old girl and a baby boy who is 6 months. I'm not sure what to do to keep them occupied. Please help! (link)
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I have two little brothers(3 and 5... occasionally a 8 year old.) and I watch them ALL the time!
So speaking from experience they just love it when you play outside with them, like running around. Baseball, basketball. Anything out doorsie.
As for the little girl, it all depends if she is a girlie girl or a tomboy. If she's a girlie girl, play with her dolls with her. Tomboy do out doorsie stuff...I'm sure she'd still do out door stuff either way.
They also love to do arts and crafts so that could be something they could do.
Also, if the place your babysitting at allows it, listen to music with them. Dance with them. Have a good time.
The 6th month old, really can't do much so you can make faces and do weird things to make him laugh.
I know it's a late response but I hope I helped a little bit! C:
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I cut myself of depression, and so does my friend.
I want to stop doing it, but I don't know how.
Please give advice! (link)
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When I was in the same position as you, I set goals for myself. For example, Try not cutting for 3 days, once you reach that goal...treat yourself to something. Then continue on to a week and so forth. But continue to treat yourself to something.
You don't necessarily have to do this you can also do other things such as, play games, draw, sing, dance, hang with friends, talk to people(especially when your feeling down. Sometimes just talking makes you feel better.), laugh, do anything that makes you feel better. But whatever you do do not cut!
Cutting doesn't solve your problems. I know how it feels and its really hard to stop. But the human mind can do anything once you set your mind to it.
Tell yourself, "I do not need to cut."
If I can do it so can you! You and your friend both.
If you need anything else feel free to message me. (:
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Can you get pregnant from fingering youself? I'm really scared I finger myself everyday and I've gotton my period already (link)
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Darling, you can't get pregnant from fingering yourself.
I can't believe you're eleven and doing such things, you are wayy to freaking young to be thinking about stuff like this.
My advice to you is..Don't do things like this, wait until your at an age to where you can understand these things.
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Hi everyone i'm 23 yrs old and a young mom i have a situation and would like some input,I've been going over this so many times and don't know what to think.Today my boyfriend of 2yrs and myself got into a heated argument and I wanted to go home (we live apart but stay over at times) anyway i got all my things threw it in his truck and in the process scratched the interior leather roof of his truck and he flipped out our 3 month old was strapped in the back during all this and i was sitting in the back with her . He got out and started calling me a bitch and to get out i refused because of our daughter was still strapped in and he tried pulling me out and when i didn't get out he punched me twice in the stomach out of anger of what i did.My question is he going to do it again, am i in the wrong for starting it by throwing my things ?and should i stay for the sake our daughter? I'm still in shock and don't know what to think of the situation its the first time something like this happened. (link)
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I believe that a man should never hit a woman, in my eye's he is not a man. He had no right to lay a hand on you.
Just like the person below me said, he needs anger management classes and you two need to sit down with a counselor and have a talk.
Now the situation is a lot harder since he is the father of your child, in my opinion that environment is not safe for you nor for your child.
I believe if he was angry enough to hit you over something as stupid as that then I think he'd be willing to do it again.
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Ok, so say your boyfriend wants you to suck his dick, and you kinda want to. but your only 12. what should you do? is it bad if a 12 year old does that or a handjob? (link)
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What.The.Heck?!
You're 12 and thinking about blowjobs already?!
You know what I was thinking about when I was 12? When the next time I was going to go out and play with my friends and get food in my tummy.
Darling, you are wayyy to young to even be having sexual contact, let alone thinking about it.
Why don't you enjoy being a kid and worry about that stuff when you're an adult.
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This year my best friend has become quieter. She's not very responsive and usually sounds bored when talking to me. I'm not the only one she does this to since our other friends have noticed this. If I'm trying to have a conversation with her, she responds with "K" or "That's cool" to nearly everything in a dull voice. I think she may be getting a little depressed and I want to be there for her, but lately it's becoming such a chore trying to talk to her.
If I tell her a story she'll respond unenthusiastically but if she tells me a story that isn't interesting to me, she'll pout and be like "FINE." I try to tell her things when I'm bothered or hurt by something, but she just offends me more than I was originally by not listening to my rants.
I feel like she's not carrying her weight in conversation. It hurts when sometimes she acts livelier when talking to someone else.
It's so tiring, what should I do? (link)
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Why don't you ask her whats bugging her? Why is she acting the way she is?
Communication is the answer.
She may be getting depressed she may not be. If she is try and help her, but the only way to find out is to ask.
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i have been with the same girl for 8 yrs..and she wants to leave me.i realy love her she wants me to move out.i dont no what to do .i am so sad and lonly my life is nothing without her.i just want to kill myself. (link)
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I agree with the person above...or below me. Killing yourself is NOT NOT NOT NOT an option. I know it hurts like hell but it will get better with in time, I'm not saying it will get better right now, it will take some time. But until that time comes hang with friends, have fun! It's perfectly normal to feel this way....Sad and lonely. It may not seem like it right now but the feelings of sad and lonely will go away.
And you know....your life is something without her, you've just been with her for so long you think that it isn't anything without her. You have family and friends who love and cherish you.
Keep your head up and stay strong, I know you can do it, your life is worth living.
Also, if you feel as if you want to harm yourself talk to you friends or family. Sometimes just getting things off your chest makes you feel better. Or call for help.
Smile, 'kay?
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14 (almost 15) female
My boyfriend and I have been dating officially for over a month now, but we've liked each other for a few years and we have been good friends for a long time. You probably think fourteen is too young to have a serious relationship, but I politely disagree.
My problem is that ever since the day we announced we were going out, it seems like everyone I meet has to put their two cents in. At school dances, people we hardly know watch us slow dance and take pictures while exclaiming how cute we are. Every time I speak to one of my relatives on the phone, they make rude jokes or snide comments. Most of my so-called "friends" make crude jokes and try to set the rules of our relationship.
These may not seem like major issues, but they do add up. I try to smile and laugh with these rude people, or sometimes I just ignore them. Lately, however, it's becoming more and more difficult. Please give me some advice on how to deal with these people, so my boyfriend and I can relax and just enjoy our relationships. (link)
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My suggestion would be that you ignore them or you ask them politely to stop. Tell your friends in a nice way that it is your relationship not theirs.In due time in about a year or so when you hit high school? I think you're still in middle school, 8th grade right? If so, it will pass. Just wait it out. Eventually they'll get tired of bugging you about your relationship.
Another thing, don't stress yourself out. Enjoy your relationship with your guy. Don't let them bug you 'kay? [:
Good luck!
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I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, and the other day some girl(not knowing I was dating someone) messaged me on FaceBook. She goes to my school and thought I was cute, and asked if I liked to talk dirty. She seemed nervous about the fact that I was in a relationship, but for a few nights we sexted a few times.
Today, right before we finished out working out a place to meet, I told her I couldn't go through with it. I told her she's a great person, and she deserves better, and that she'll find someone who can see how great she is. I told her that neither of them deserved that treatment, and that I was really sorry.
I stopped it before it was too late, and instead of everyone hurting a lot, she was just a little disappointed but relieved.
My questions are these:
Did I go about solving this the right way in the end?
Should I come clean to my girlfriend, or leave it because nothing ended up happening?
Thanks (link)
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I believe you did the right thing about ending things with that girl.
Now with the coming clean to your girlfriend or not, I think you should tell her. You know relationships are based off trust, if you don't tell her and she somehow finds out that you sexted with this one girl from somebody else she will most likely be even more mad than she would be if you just told her. I'm not going to lie she's going to be pissed and I'm not saying she's going to forgive you, I don't know her personally. But would you rather her find out from you or from somebody else?
And that is all I have to say about that (:
Good luck!
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