i have been with the same girl for 8 yrs..and she wants to leave me.i realy love her she wants me to move out.i dont no what to do .i am so sad and lonly my life is nothing without her.i just want to kill myself.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? MonsterIsNommy answered Tuesday February 14 2012, 8:41 pm: I agree with the person above...or below me. Killing yourself is NOT NOT NOT NOT an option. I know it hurts like hell but it will get better with in time, I'm not saying it will get better right now, it will take some time. But until that time comes hang with friends, have fun! It's perfectly normal to feel this way....Sad and lonely. It may not seem like it right now but the feelings of sad and lonely will go away.
And you know....your life is something without her, you've just been with her for so long you think that it isn't anything without her. You have family and friends who love and cherish you.
Keep your head up and stay strong, I know you can do it, your life is worth living.
Also, if you feel as if you want to harm yourself talk to you friends or family. Sometimes just getting things off your chest makes you feel better. Or call for help.
aturtle1 answered Tuesday February 14 2012, 6:28 am: ever heard the saying"if you love something set it free if it comes back its yours"?get the book out"codependant no more"by melody beattie itsawinner. [ aturtle1's advice column | Ask aturtle1 A Question ]
Sweet_LiL_Angel answered Monday February 13 2012, 2:52 pm: Killing yourself is NOT an option and should never be. It will be hard. Hang out with your friends more and keep your self busy. It happens to a lot of people and you just have to find away to deal with it. I think if you should this female that it didnt bother you so much that she left than it will worry her some. That is indeed along time to be with someone but if you cant change her mind than keep your self busy keep moving. or stay the night with friends or family for a few nights. [ Sweet_LiL_Angel's advice column | Ask Sweet_LiL_Angel A Question ]
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