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question about blow jobs when you are 12
Ok, so say your boyfriend wants you to suck his dick, and you kinda want to. but your only 12. what should you do? is it bad if a 12 year old does that or a handjob?
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What.The.Heck?!
You're 12 and thinking about blowjobs already?!
You know what I was thinking about when I was 12? When the next time I was going to go out and play with my friends and get food in my tummy.
Darling, you are wayyy to young to even be having sexual contact, let alone thinking about it.
Why don't you enjoy being a kid and worry about that stuff when you're an adult.
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That's sick.
Don't do it.
OBVIOUSLY You are way too young.
You show that you have no respect for yourself nor does he to you.
I say you shouldn't have a boyfriend to begin with.
Get rid of him. He's a jerk. He may be nice but all he wants is you and to "get it in."
Like hello!?? Have morals.
Hopefully, you make the good decision.
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I agree with the other two advisers; you and your boyfriend are way too young to be even thinking about sex stuff. Heck you are not even teenagers yet not that it means anything.
What is the all fired hurry today with kids, and I do mean kids or should I say children, to have sex. While your bodies my be physically capable of the act you are not mentally capable of understanding or mature enough to understand all the ramifications of an adult sexual act. Yes handjobs and blowjobs are adult sexual acts which eventually lead to sexual intercourse. It is a natural progression.
Yes you and your boyfriend are entering puberty. This I understand. As an adult male I understand that the hormones now coursing through you are sending signals through your bodies that you need to understand Emphasis on "need to under stand" not act upon.
For the moment I will put aside the possible consequences of your actions except for this one. Your in middle school now and have the remaining 1 or 2 grades left plus the 4 years of high school. When it comes to getting any type of sex from a girl boys cannot keep a secret. They will tell someone. That someone will tell someone else. Before you know it everybody in school will know you did whatever with your boyfriend.
You will become very popular as you will be thought of as easy. Any boy you ever date or hang out with will say he did something with you. Why? Because he will not want anyone to know he didn't score with you. You will get a reputation you don't want and will not be able to live down.
This is what it was like decades ago when I was a teenage boy and I know it has not changed. In fact with social network sites such as facebook it has become easier to spread rumors like this.
My advice is to tell your boyfriend to take care of his problem at home in his bedroom himself.
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I agree completely with the user below me. You are way too young to even be thinking about sexual stuff. If you let your bf (who is also too young) pressure you like that and you do it, one thing will lead to another. Next thing you know, you could end up pregnant. You are not ready for it physically or mentally. Don't do something you will regret later in life.
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If you didn't have doubts that it was bad, than you wouldn't be asking.
YES IT'S BAD! I don't know what the hell has went wrong with girls your age. Always thinking they are ready to do sexual stuff?
Whyy!?!?!?!
You are way to young sweetie. Your boyfriend is way to young to even be thinking of having blowjobs. He doesn't love you. He doesn't know what love is. Boys at that age get 'love' and 'lust' confused because of puberity.
Sweetheart, please save that for a real man that deserves you. Wait ti'll you are older.
This is how I see it,
would you feel comfortable telling your mother and father that you gave a blow job to your boyfriend? Are you comfortable asking them to put you on birth control?
Sucking dick, leads to sex. Are you ready for a child? Do you have a job? A place of your own? Can you support a child by yourself without help from your parents? NO. NO. NO. NO.
How would you feel if you had a daughter, and she was 12 and was sucking a boys penis?
How would it make you feel that after you sucked his penis, he left you like he will do, and went back and told everyone and they started calling you names??
exactly.
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