Im 13. Grew Up On The East Side Of Aurora.
Overall, I Give Good Advice.
Im Just Out Here To Help. Even If Im 13, I Give Good Advice. Trust Me On This One.
I've had a rough time growing up.
But Im Not A Bad Person.
I Like People And Hopefully People Like Me.
E-mail: gloriad78@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Aurora, Il
Occupation: Going To School
Age: 13
Member Since: February 11, 2012
Answers: 12
Last Update: March 10, 2012
Visitors: 1734
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i am a 14 year old girl. My mom always yells at me for things that she thinks i did, but she wasnt even there for. for example i was teasing my little brother, and he WAS giggling and smiling. my mom was listening from the other room, called me in and told me i was making him feel small, being a bully, that i was a little brat and i was a mean person. this happens on a very regular basis, like at least 5 times a week. my self esteem has gotten really low, and i have apparently started to act differently. my mom told me i should b the me that everybody loved, and toldme i had promised not to turn into one of those dumb teenagers, but i was breaking my promise. i snapped and said "oh thanks, so now i'm dumb" and she accused me of not being able to take a joke and said this was exactly what she meant about my change in attitude. once i tried to stand up to her. i showed her how my hands were shaking because i was so scared to talk to her, but she just told me that was because i knew i was wrong about my feelings. she then told me she was human too, and she deserved to have respect. i have been scared to talk to her ever since. so basically my mom doesnt like my new clothing style(which isnt trashy because they let me dress like that in a catholic school) my new attitude and actions that i didnt even know i aquired, and i lost her trust. please tell me how i can get through this!! there is no way i can talk to her obviously, or my dad. my siblings listen but nothing changes. i dont know what to do. i have actually concidered going through extremes to escape this. (link)
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I sometimes go through this. Very often, like you.
But one way you can do this and get it over with, is write down everything in a letter, how you feel or how you feel about your mom's actions and what they're doing to you.
Don't feel like your a bad person. You seem to be very nice and sweet and just trying to make life interesting.
But one thing, never raise your voice to your mom no matter how bad things get. Each time she tells you someuing about your actions say something like "Yeah, i understand."
Or maybe just sit with her at a table. Ask if she can take you out just you two and talk there in public just jot so everyone hears. That way she wont react a certain way.
Well, hope i helped. :)
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In the back of my throat I always notice like white things in their. I always push them out with my finger. (if I can get it out) and they smell disgusting. Idk what it is and it's so annoying. I take care of my teeth so idk why I have this or what it is...help? (link)
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I get those too.
What i do is i get a cutip and scrape it off with that. You can try gurgling some mouthwash or baking soda and water. But if you do it with your hands make sure they're clean. But yes, don't worry about them. Its nothing really. But if they're there for awhile you might wana get that checked out you know.
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Hi! I'm michell. My Dad hates me. Recently he has been extremely cold towards me because he thinks I'm rude to him. I wasn't rude to him. He lives my sisters more than he does me and that hurts a lot. I don't know what I could have done wrong. Or why he can't forgive me for it. My relationship with my dad has always been bad. He never liked me and I never liked him. But recently he's been like talking to my sisters an ignoring me. When we go out together he jokes around with them but when I ask him a question he replies me with a single word. I don't know what to do anymore. I thought he will always love me despite my actions. But I am not so sure anymore. He hates me. I don't care about that part but it hurts when he shows his favoritism! (link)
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I feel you.
One thing you can do is write a letter to him. Tell him how you feel when he jokes around with your sibilings.
Tell him why he shows more love and respect towards your sisters.
Why does he treat you the way he does in general.
I don't think your actions should affect the love of a parents to a child. Forgiveness is the key to everything.
But, try the letter. But you have to to give it to him. Sit with him while he reads it. If he doesn't say anything, walk out and let him think and go try and attempt to talk about your feelings.
I've done this with my father. It helped.
But all people are different. Maybe he'll take it as a bad thing hut im sure he'll most likely take it in to heart and he'll change.
Good luck! I hope you try this.
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But how do I interact I always feel so awkward I mean I am 5,10":( (link)
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Let them come to you.
Just flirt in a gentle way.
Don't hold back. Guys don't like that.
It isn't so hard for a guy to bend down and give you a kiss or for you to stand on your tippy toes.
In the end, things will work out. You'll find someone. Believe and have faith. Im sure your attractive to guys(maybe some girls too) and just say yeah so what if im short, im a munshkin. =) A cute one. ;)
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ok, im like 14 years old and im super short. i hate it soo much. i see all my friends happy with their boyfriends and i REALLY want that. but i feel like all ill ever be to a guy is just a buddy, that short kid who is always just friends. pleaseee tell me IS ALL HOPE LOST? cuz im so cunfuzed and at this point i dont know what to do??? (link)
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Im 5'2.
All my friend are like 5'4 and up.
But trust me, guys like short girls. Its easier to pick up and swirl around and fun stuff.
They can do so much more with shorter tiny girls.
I dated a guy who was 5'11.
And i dated another who was 6'2.
They said they loved my shortness.
They found it cute and attractive.
Go out there and find yourself a cute, tall, nice guy. ;D
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I get really bad cramps when I'm on my period. I was just wondering if anybody knew any home remedies or tips for when it gets really bad. Thanks in advance for all answers! (link)
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Heat up a tortilla and lay it on your belly.
Drink Pickle Juice.
Stay heated.
Take advil.
Eat a banana.
And that's all i got. This might sound rediculous but it does work.
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Ok, so say your boyfriend wants you to suck his dick, and you kinda want to. but your only 12. what should you do? is it bad if a 12 year old does that or a handjob? (link)
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That's sick.
Don't do it.
OBVIOUSLY You are way too young.
You show that you have no respect for yourself nor does he to you.
I say you shouldn't have a boyfriend to begin with.
Get rid of him. He's a jerk. He may be nice but all he wants is you and to "get it in."
Like hello!?? Have morals.
Hopefully, you make the good decision.
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Sadly yesterday a boy named Luke at my school died at the age of 12 to cancer. On Monday, most of the girls are wearing uggs in his honor because he wanted to be a fashion designer. I am going to wear uggs and also I was thinking of buying a free hugs shirt and getting a piece of duct tape writing "in Luke's honor" because I know a lot of people are gonna need hugs Monday. I don't know if I should do it because I fear it might cause controversy. Do you think it will? I don't. I even knew him. He was so sweet and kind and I want to do it in order to spread the love that Luke gave (link)
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I think your idea is brilliant. Its for Luke. No one else. If you get bs leave it alone. Your trying to pay respect. Losing someone basically unexpected sucks. I just lost a cousin at 14 but different situation. Just do what you think is best. But as i said don't fear anything.
Check and balance things out. Hope you find an answer and that i helped.
Sorry for the loss.
May He Rest In Paradise.
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Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'( (link)
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Don't feel like that.
Life ISNT about guys and crap.
Worry about education then when the time is right get into guys.
Its simple. Your "boyfriend" deserves someone better and the other guy should stop with the bullshit.
If he knows your taken why would he do that. It just means he doesn't respect you. And YOU have no respect for yourself, nor your boyfriend.
You have to be okay and happy with yourself before you share yourself. And right now, you aren't either. Get a grip and calm down. A boy isn't worth it.
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Today a new student came to our school. I like him, but like we literally just met. I like another guy, who i've liked for 4 years -- both of them make me laugh(Even the new student). I don't know who to like. I don't want fo like both, because it just makes me feel weird. Help!!! (link)
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Ive had this same problem. Think over all the pros and cons of the situation. Figure out who'll treat you the best, who likes you for YOU, and who makes you the happiest.
Don't go for the one who looks better. Cuz trust me, in the end it wont be worth it.
But get to know them both and you'll eventually get to know who's best for you. =)
Hope I Helped.
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me and my (ex) bf just broke up. we both didnt necessarily want to. feelings are still there but hes in college and rushing for a frat. i know after hes done there will be a lot of temptation to get back together. that will be in about 2 months. do you think i should? also, do you think i should get with other guys, or will it mess things up for the future. were still in love (link)
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Don't feel obligated to stay and wait for him.
If he can go out and have fun, so can you. Just don't do something you'll end up regreting.
If he really wants to be with you he'd much rather stay and have a good time with you not his friends.
Do you right now and let him do him.
If it was meant to be, he'll come back to you.
But if it wasn't, you'll just have to accept it and find someone new.
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Me and my girlfriend have been dating for ten months. Half way through are relationship we broke up because my parents did not like the fact that she was 15 and I was about to be 18 in two months, but then we got back together secretly so that my parents would not know. I told my parents I was dating my girlfriend a month ago but I still treat my relationship with her like a secret. When me and her are around other ppl that we don't or do know, I step away from her, thinking they might accuse me of something and send me to jail. The things is it's not illegal to date her. I just can't have sex with her. I'm allowed to hold her hand and hug her in public , but I am still scared to. "How can I over come my fear and show my girl I truly do love her and only her? " I really love her please give me some advice. (link)
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Maybe, Its too late but;
I think to be able to overcome this fear, you'll have to take it step by step.
Ex:You guys are walking, get close to her and hold hands. And say your at the mall with her, get to giving hugs. Then you can get to kissing and stuff like that.
Just don't think that you're doing wrong.
Hope I Helped.
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