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situation based break up
me and my (ex) bf just broke up. we both didnt necessarily want to. feelings are still there but hes in college and rushing for a frat. i know after hes done there will be a lot of temptation to get back together. that will be in about 2 months. do you think i should? also, do you think i should get with other guys, or will it mess things up for the future. were still in love
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to be completely honest, if you were still in love, you wouldnt be asking the question. should I get with other guys? because that answer would be...I couldnt get with anyone else even if I tried. Thats true love. Just something to think about. About getting back with him in a couple months, if your both "Truely" still in love.. Yes. Do it. its not everyday you find someone you can be in love with. Goodluck to you both. -Istalio
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Don't feel obligated to stay and wait for him.
If he can go out and have fun, so can you. Just don't do something you'll end up regreting.
If he really wants to be with you he'd much rather stay and have a good time with you not his friends.
Do you right now and let him do him.
If it was meant to be, he'll come back to you.
But if it wasn't, you'll just have to accept it and find someone new.
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Okay, Girl personally I think you should move on! If he can go out and have fun at frats then he must not love you too much. If he is screwing other girls (which he more than likely is) then he doesn't have the same feelings for you as you do for him. If you two broke up because he went off to college??(COLLEGE shouldn't kill TRUE LOVE!!) then personally I don't think you should waste your time on a player like this guy when there is a perfectly GREAT guy waiting for you out in the world somewhere hoping for a chance with you!
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Move on!
I know it seems harsh but go out there and date don't wait for him. That is not a good reason to not be with someone is because your in college and in a frat. It's an excuse. If you love someone you'll be with them no matter what and nothing will stop you. You fight for love you don't split and hope it comes back. Go out and date and don't wait for him to stop up at your door. I sorry if this seems harsh but I've been in a similar situation and the excuse was just lame. Good luck!
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From what it sounds like, you two seem to be on a "break". If you still love him, then wait those two months and see what happens. As for getting with other guys, only if you really like them because it could cause problems if you do want to get back together with your ex in 2 months. I hope this helped and good luck :)
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