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I love my Bf but I like this other guy.. I want to end my life.
Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'(
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Hear me loud & clear....NO ONE is worth ending your life or even contemplating it.OMG..girl get a grip.Hes your 1st b/f but odds are he wont be your last.If your having feelings for this other guy then honey you really dont love your b/f.You need to not hurt him but you need to break it off & move forward with your life.Things change for us everyday. You might as well understand that its a revolving door that you have to keep up with.Changes are inevitible in life from day to day & you ARE strong enough to deal with those changes.Believe in yourself or no one else will. Good Luck, Cheriscope
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Hey! Wow, I'm in the EXACT same situation! I'm just sorta going along with my boyfriend who is sweet and lovely, and also flirting with this guy who has a crush on me... I don't know what to do either. I think if the feelings for the new guy develope further for you, you should go for him, because it isn't fair to your boyfriend otherwise. I don't agree with others who have said you're a bad person or anything-because I'm in the same situation and I know how it feels. We can't help our feelings. But weigh your options. Is your current boyfriend always there for you? Which guy do you trust more? Try not to make a rash decision or act too soon. Good luck! This is happening to me too right now haha!
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Don't feel like that.
Life ISNT about guys and crap.
Worry about education then when the time is right get into guys.
Its simple. Your "boyfriend" deserves someone better and the other guy should stop with the bullshit.
If he knows your taken why would he do that. It just means he doesn't respect you. And YOU have no respect for yourself, nor your boyfriend.
You have to be okay and happy with yourself before you share yourself. And right now, you aren't either. Get a grip and calm down. A boy isn't worth it.
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So you are threating to kill yourself if no one helps you out? Thats pathetic. Grow up.
You don't deserve either guy, honestly. If you are falling under temptations, than do your boyfriend a favor and break up with him. He deserves better. The other guy doesn't deserve you either.
If you are tempted while you have a boyfriend; than when you get with this dude, you'll get temptations as well. You need to just stay single, until you can figure out how to carry a decent, committed relationship, otherwise your just wasting these boys' time, and your own.
BE SINGLE! I don't know why girls feel like they need a guy to be happy. If you don't think its fair to your boyfriend, than break up with him, and do not get with the other guy. How would it make you feel if you knew your boyfriend wanted to kiss another girl? If he was talking to her the way your talking to this dude?? How would you feel if he left you and got with that girl?
You'd feel like shit, right? RIGHT.
So until your a little more mature, don't get into a relationship.
I mean I would say that you need to be honest with your boyfriend, but chances are, you'll just do it again. But if you really care about this guy hunnie, than you need to be honest. If he breaks up with you, than you will know better next time. Ya know? It's your first relationship, so your learning as you go. You aren't perfect. I do give you props for not cheating on him, but what you are allowing this other guy to think can end up with you cheating while being caught off guard.
Just relax. Be honest. If all else fails, just leave them both alone.
Good Luck!
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