Member Since: February 18, 2012
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Last Update: February 19, 2012
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I really miss my ex and we've hanged out a bit but I really want him to want me back and show him what he's missing. His best friend sure thinks he's missing out on a lot for some reason. Should I send him a picture? How would he take it? (link)
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Hes your ex for some reason which to me means he wasnt meant to be your future. EX means in the past.Leave it there.No pics move forward in your life.If you 2 are meant to reunite let him be the one to come back.Then youll know its real & not just sympathy.Guys like to be the agressive one.A mistake I myself have made more than once.Dont chase him let him chase you or its his loss but someone elses gain...Good Luck Cheriscope
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My boyfriend and I have been together since the start of the year and things are going really well. The only problem is that I get very jealous of other girls. I get paranoid when he tells me about girls he knows, or if he finds other girls attractive, but my main issue is with his best friend. They have a history, and he has told me that he used to be in love with her. He has reassured me countless times that there is nothing but friendship between them now but for some reason I just cannot get over it. I've never met her as she doesn't live in the same city as us but she's coming to visit in a couple of weeks and I'm really worried. I plan on being nice and trying to make friends with her but I know I'm going to be paranoid the whole time she's here.
I really don't want to feel like this and I don't want to ruin things with my boyfriend. How can I be less jealous?
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You cant change who you are But you can work on having more faith & trust in your b/f & relationship.If something does happen betweeen the 2 of them You have no control over that Just control over yourself & whether your willing to handle whatever arises in you & your b/f relationship.If you cant handle even their friendship You may have to face losing him.And have to move on.Whats meant to be will be. Good Luck Cheriscope
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Can you get pregnant 3 days after oval action day (link)
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Absolutely.There is no SAFE time for pregnancy not to be possible to occur.If you dont want a baby take more than 1 precaution such as a condom & a shield,foam whatever.But even the pill is NOT 100% affective.Abstinence is the only sure way not to become pregnant. Good Luck Cheriscope
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I'm 13 years old. I started my 1st period in December. My period legit comes every other week. What should I do to stop it? (link)
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Your problem is quite common.One of my daughters had to seek a gynocologist at the age of 14 for the same reason.She had to be put on birth control pills even though she was not sexually active & that straightened out her periods.Only once a month as it should be.So go to the doctor of course its best if you can involve your parents,at least your mother,If possible.If not go to a clinic everything is confidential.You'll be alot happier once your problem is resolved Good Luck,Cheriscope
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So, I've posted here once or twice about the same guy. He is in the army and one of my best friends. Well he just got back yesterday, and today is Valentines day. I dated his best friend about two years ago, we broke up around Christmas the year before last and about a month later I hooked up with this guy. We didn't have sex but got pretty close. Anyway, so he took me out on a date about a year ago and it was really fun. After that we kissed a few times and we'd occasionally hold hands. We kind of drifted apart when his friend and my ex found out. Since at the time it was a sensitive situation. Well, I started dating another guy who beat me and just was an awful person. After I caught him cheating I dumped him and remained single for the rest of the year, until New Years Eve, I ran into my friend who I had a thing with at a party, he was on leave for about a week. So we got drunk together and ended up kissing at midnight and well, later on we met up and some other things happened. We went back to the party and about a few hours later we ended up holding hands. Until my ex walked in then we quickly dispersed. Well a short time later he left and I hugged him goodbye. Since then we have been texting, we talk about how we need to hang out, and how he misses food, I told him I'd make him dinner and he was very happy to hear. Well anyways. He has not been in a relationship in over two years and has mostly just fooled around with girls, I have been fed up with relationships and have started doing the same. However, he is the only guy who gives me that feeling in my gut. I realized I really liked him. We're supposed to hang out at a party this week. I really want to tell him, but I'm afraid he might not feel the same since the situation is so, different. What do I do, is there any hints I can drop? Is there anything I can say or do to find out. I'm afraid if I confess my feelings our friendship will be...odd. (link)
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Go for it girl.You need to find out once and for all if hes The One!This on & off again attraction has to be decided a go or no go.You cant keep living in the dark wondering if this is going somewhere or not.If he feels the same Great But if hes just a player you'll know its time you look for your true love for life.Wear your heart on your sleeve,be forward Let it all hang out.What do you have to lose? Good Luck & be happy no matter which way it goes you'll be able to put it to bed.(end it) either way. Cheriscope
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and they're both single?
But I'm afraid to get in any relationship, I don't even see how that could work. This is the last year of high school so nothing would even count, as everyone will go their separate ways. And even though I sense that he likes me idk for sure and I find my own feelings to be embarrassing, because in my mind I just want to be friends, but I can't help how I feel, I can't help but feel the attraction. I also wouldn't want a relationship because of how others would react to it, for various reasons. And that whole romance world is totally foreign for me, as I've never even kissed a guy, much less been in a relationship. how do I make sense of this situation? like now we're just friends but it's sort of awkward because there's some sexual tension and we're just two relatively shy, awkward people in general, but will it always be this way, even with our feelings? we don't see each other outside of school, though. once again, the whole socially awkwardness. it's really embarrassing for me just to type this, btw, and if anyone ever asked me IRL if I liked him, I'd lie, lol (link)
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Sometimes the best relationships start from friendships first.I think you should ask him to do something together after school.Then see where that leads.Your a senior in high school & never been kissed? wow thats almost unheard of But dont you want that before you graduate? It seems by what you say theres a mutual attraction & I think you should go for it.Who cares how others will react This Is your life not theirs.About this particular relationship ,sure it might remain the same but if you want it to be something more then we sometimes have to make bold moves in life & wear our hearts on our sleeve.In other words let your feelings be known to him.The heck with eveyone else.Like you said next year youll all be going seperate ways so enjoy your last year of high school with ALL your heart. Good Luck, Cheriscope
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I'm 20 yrs old and it kills me dat ave neva had a serious relationship. I long for someone to just hold me and love. Guys neva ask me out and i know am not ugly so maybe its cos am shy. I feel so lonely sometimes, i cant even bear to watch romantic movies anymore. (link)
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Everyone on this planet is lookin for that.So dont feel your alone with being alone & lonely.Your so young dont feel the need to rush into a life of love.Sure its great but Im WAY older than you and have a very similar problem Except I still love watching romantic comedies.Lighten up about it When the time is right for you He will be right in front of you.They say love will come when you stop looking,so stop looking & see who pops up into your life..Good Luck Cheriscope
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Well I'm on Middle school and I don't know what to do I like this boy but I don't know if he likes me to my friends has asking him if he likes me and he says know but one of my friends told him do you like her? Why you don't ask her out ? And he just didn't say anything but then another told the same thing and ge said no but I see him that when I'm there he acts like cool and to see cool he makes fun of other people and sometimes ge looks at me well it looks like and sometimes when he makes fun of other people of make joiks it looks like he looks at my way to see if im Laffing si what does et mean dies he like me or not or ge likes and he is to shy and If he likes me how can I make him to tell me he likes ne (link)
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I say you should show a lack of interest in him,Guys are a weird bunch The minute you act like you dont care they WILL come around IF they are really interested.Dont keep stareing at him,you are, or you wouldnt see him looking for your reaction to what hes talking about.If he said he doesnt like you maybe he doesnt & you need to move on.Like I said if you stop googoo eyeing him he'll be around if he likes you.Then you'll know for sure & live happily ever after..Until the next guy..You are young & have so many more to go through in life until your Prince comes into view when your a bit older.So have fun enjoy your youth & dont worrry so much about whether he likes you or not You are the one that has to like yourself & know your good enough for alot of them boys.Good Luck Cheriscope
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Hi! I'm michell. My Dad hates me. Recently he has been extremely cold towards me because he thinks I'm rude to him. I wasn't rude to him. He lives my sisters more than he does me and that hurts a lot. I don't know what I could have done wrong. Or why he can't forgive me for it. My relationship with my dad has always been bad. He never liked me and I never liked him. But recently he's been like talking to my sisters an ignoring me. When we go out together he jokes around with them but when I ask him a question he replies me with a single word. I don't know what to do anymore. I thought he will always love me despite my actions. But I am not so sure anymore. He hates me. I don't care about that part but it hurts when he shows his favoritism! (link)
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Have you thought of asking him to go for a cup of coffee at a public place alone with him & you need to talk privately with him? Then you could air your feelings & tell him you want to start fresh & give your father-daughter relationship a chance before its too late.You may both regret it someday if you dont at least try to rectify this situation.Make sure you emphasize you Love him because you obviously do or you wouldnt be here. Good Luck Cheriscope
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I have been on here before about this sort of question but its a little different this time. I have a step son who lives with my in laws. They raised him because my husband got a girl pregnant at 17. His mother was wanting another child so she told them that she would take guardianship of him so she could have her insurance cover him they agreed. For years he has wanted him back she absolutely refuses. My step son has a lot of problems so right now we are okay with him being there KIND OF. I think he is being abused emotionally.
- Their house is disgusting. They don't clean anything except the living room. My father in law sleeps in another room. My mother in law and step son sleep on the couches.
- He drinks soda 24/7. He ONLY eats junk food, chicken nuggets, pizza, popcorn, green beans. nothing else at all.
- He gets in trouble for fighting at school.
- He plays basketball and is constantly shoving the other kids
Now he is crying all the time over everything. My father in law screams until he is blue in the face about every little thing if he goes to get a drink during practice which he does every few minutes he says get your ass out there now. if he talk back instead of time out they scream at him
if he throws a fit in the store they get him what he wants.
It doesn't seem bad but it is like this 24/7 not just when he misbehaves its all day all the time misbehaving. I have to keep my son away from him because he emotionally and physically was abusing him. if we get together they have to stay away from each other. my son thinks hes being nice but he has Aspergers Syndrome.
What to do??? (link)
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I dont see how you are KIND OF fine with any child being abused in any manner.This boy needs help.Your his step-MOM so step up & get him help!!!You can call the child abuse hotline & be anonymous if youd like,but they have to show up to your in-laws within 48 hours.Its the law.I had to make that phone call myself for neglected children left locked outside in the dead of winter with no jackets shoes nothing.They did come & removed those kids & their Mom got the help she needed.Im so happy I made that call Who knows what would have happened to those little ones if I didnt & THIS IS your step-son.You should be ashamed you havent done something yet.I wouldnt wait 1 more second HELP HIM ! Hes a child..A dissapointed Cheriscope
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I've been in a relationship for a year and a half, and the other day some girl(not knowing I was dating someone) messaged me on FaceBook. She goes to my school and thought I was cute, and asked if I liked to talk dirty. She seemed nervous about the fact that I was in a relationship, but for a few nights we sexted a few times.
Today, right before we finished out working out a place to meet, I told her I couldn't go through with it. I told her she's a great person, and she deserves better, and that she'll find someone who can see how great she is. I told her that neither of them deserved that treatment, and that I was really sorry.
I stopped it before it was too late, and instead of everyone hurting a lot, she was just a little disappointed but relieved.
My questions are these:
Did I go about solving this the right way in the end?
Should I come clean to my girlfriend, or leave it because nothing ended up happening?
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Though you feel youve done nothing,I tend to disagree kiddo.You also know you shouldnt have had any kind of talk behind your girls back,but if your cool witholding that info than do,If your sure you will have no more contact with this other girl.But in my opinon HONESTY is the ONLY policy at all times no matter the cost.Because living with secrets like that or lies is like not living a REAL life at all.Its on you,I myself could not! Be open & honest,No matter what.Good Luck, Cheriscope
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Hey, I'm female, almost 22 years old, and I'm 5 feet. I have a pretty fast metabolism and I've always been pretty petite. I've been complimented on my stomach a lot because it's usually really flat and just looks like it's in good shape.. well lately it hasn't been that way. For the past few weeks I've been extremely bloated. I thought maybe it was a backed up menstrual cycle or I was just gaining weight because I've been eating a lot of junk food, but it just persists even though i've been trying to eat healthier.
I've also had a lot of gas. It'll just be really random and whenever I'm around people I constantly feel like I have to hold it in.
I was on birth control for 2 years and it never gave me a problem. I have an irregular period without it, but recently I stopped taking it.
I shouldn't be having my period anytime soon, one just recently ended and the bloating has been for awhile anyway so I don't believe it has anything to do with it.
Anyways my stomach has been kinda distended and it actually looks like I'm slightly pregnant (SLIGHTLY) not a lot at all. (and I'm definitely not pregnant)... but I'm just trying to explain how it looks. When I press on my stomach it feels tight and sorta firm like it's not exactly fat but there's something inside of me. I don't know if I'm just "backed up" or if it's something serious or what.
Has this happened to anyone else before? I just want my flat belly back :( and I feel sluggish and no matter what I do it's not going away.
It's not permanent right? please help! (link)
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I definitely hope you stopped your birth control pills with the advice from a doctor.You have seen a doctor about this problem Haven't you ?If not MAKE AN APPOINTMENT ASAP...You cant abruptly stop many medications & definitely not without a doctors orders to do so.The junk food weight no matter what age is not gonna just fall off because your eating healthier now.You have to work off what you put on.But Please seek professional medical help.Your worrying might have caused you an ulcer or acid reflux But Im no doctor Thats what you need my friend A doctor.Good Luck Cheriscope
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Ok so I have a bf atm and we have been dating since November 4th. He is really sweet and amazing. I love him very much. But, this other guy started talking to me on MSN and Im kinda falling for him. The other guy confesses to me all the time that he loves me and wants to make out with me. My Bf and the other guy dont really get along. And my Bf doesnt know that the other guy talks to me. The other guy asked me that if he kissed me if i would kiss him back and i was weak with all the things he was saying to me like (hey babe, sup beautiful...) and sadly said yes. I feel bad about saying i would and cant come to tell my Bf about what i said. I want to be honest but I dont want him to break up with me, he's my first bf. Im scared and dont know what to do, I told the other guy today that if he kissed me i would slap him and he said "kissing you would be worth the slap". Problem is, i want to kiss him, I dont wanna cheat on my Bf at all! I dont wanna hurt my bf either. And another thing is that I dream about the other guy 24/7 :( I feel bad about the whole thing and wish i could just end my horrible life and this mess. Plz help me bc i love my bf but also like this other guy and kinda wanna kiss him, HELPP!! if no one does, chances are I'll be dead in a week. :'( (link)
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Hear me loud & clear....NO ONE is worth ending your life or even contemplating it.OMG..girl get a grip.Hes your 1st b/f but odds are he wont be your last.If your having feelings for this other guy then honey you really dont love your b/f.You need to not hurt him but you need to break it off & move forward with your life.Things change for us everyday. You might as well understand that its a revolving door that you have to keep up with.Changes are inevitible in life from day to day & you ARE strong enough to deal with those changes.Believe in yourself or no one else will. Good Luck, Cheriscope
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Scary dream?!?! About Devil!?!!?!..?
. I'm a christian and believe in god. I have had dreams about the devil. I had a dream that I was marrying the devil once and it scared the crap out of me and I also had a dream that I was in hell and I and another were my house was burning and I could not move and a voice told me I was going to hell and a devil and all these people talking about hell. Then I was with my mom dad and sister in a town and they all died. I was on the ground and people ran around and fire was everywhere. I woke up scared. I've had these dreams a couple of nights in a row and I've even prayed before I slept. Why am I having these dreams? Help? (link)
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You say you believe in God but I dont think you have enough faith in him or his being,So these dreams are invading your subconcience.PRAY HARDER...have more faith he will protect you.Have you asked Him to help you stop these dreams?If not do.If that doesn't work seeking professional help is nothing to be ashamed of & can be done confidentually no matter what age you are.God bless you & Good luck,Cheriscope
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I'm not good at dealing with this sort of things, so I need help.
I left my facebook account open and my mom went on and read all my messages and replied to all saying I was grounded and wasn't allowed friends till I am 18, which is two years from now. I think it's unfair that she went through ALL MY STUFF. Without my permission. (link)
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Do you feel you have the kind of relationship with her to be able to air your feelings of being invaded your privacy by her? Tell her if you can.If not Did you think she might habe a good point.Were you maybe discussing things too old for you? Mom is always looking out for your best interest BUT the invasion of privacy WAS wrong.Try to work a compromise out with her to start.Good Luck,Cheriscope
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Me and this guy have been really good friends for like 2 years now, I thought maybe he had feelings for me before, but i don't know now. He flirts with me a lot, and we talk all the time. I do have feelings for him, and he recently started hanging out with his best friend's ex girlfriend and everytime they hang out, he tells me. I don't know why he tells me this, although i would like to know. it does make me jealous. Like last night he didnt talk to me at all like he ushually does, and then this morning he told me he was hanging out with her till 1am. -_- I think i'm just hurting myself by liking him still if he's obviously more interested in her? I don't really know what I should do, clearly there isn't anything I can do about it. But should i try and stop liking him? And give up on my feelings that aren't going to get me anywhere? Or just continue even though it's hurting me inside..
He's 18, i'm 17. We're both seniors in high school, so is the other girl.
Anything helps, thanks. (link)
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Move on my friend.If you 2 were meant to be you would be already & if you really are meant to be he'll be back in your arms,not hers.He might realize shes no you & get jealous when you move on & he sees you with someone else.Only time will tell Good Luck but let your heart sail!
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