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Jealousy.
Me and this guy have been really good friends for like 2 years now, I thought maybe he had feelings for me before, but i don't know now. He flirts with me a lot, and we talk all the time. I do have feelings for him, and he recently started hanging out with his best friend's ex girlfriend and everytime they hang out, he tells me. I don't know why he tells me this, although i would like to know. it does make me jealous. Like last night he didnt talk to me at all like he ushually does, and then this morning he told me he was hanging out with her till 1am. -_- I think i'm just hurting myself by liking him still if he's obviously more interested in her? I don't really know what I should do, clearly there isn't anything I can do about it. But should i try and stop liking him? And give up on my feelings that aren't going to get me anywhere? Or just continue even though it's hurting me inside..
He's 18, i'm 17. We're both seniors in high school, so is the other girl.
Anything helps, thanks.
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Love is a funny thing, but my first point of advice is.. dont just let it go that easily. Talk to him, sit him down an say...ya know, the way youve been acting is kinda making me a little jealous. The only way to get anywhere in life and love is to tell the person how you feel, Dont Hide Anything. Ask him how he feels so your not in the dark forever. Goodluck, Any other questions, feel free to write me, -Istalio
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Move on my friend.If you 2 were meant to be you would be already & if you really are meant to be he'll be back in your arms,not hers.He might realize shes no you & get jealous when you move on & he sees you with someone else.Only time will tell Good Luck but let your heart sail!
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It kinda sounds like something i have been through. If he likes you then maybe he is trying to get you jealous. If you dont want to get hurt then dont like him. In my situation, the guy and me are still really tight but I have a boyfriend now. I hope you choose the right decision, but remember that you dont show your jealousy. Try to talk to him and explain but dont say your interested. Play hard to get. Hope this helps :)
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