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Once I have anal sex and it didn't slipper to my vagina, am I still a virgin? (Stressed)
Yes, you are still a considered a virgin if you've had anal but not vaginal sex.
Someone is blackmailing on kik. I sent him nude photo of mine, he want me to send again if I will not he said that he will post it online website wherein all country can see it. I dont know what to do. He said that he will spread it and all my friends can see it. Im afraid Im fron Hungary. Need help
First things first, NEVER send nude photos of yourself through the internet. Only send what you'd be comfortable sending your parents or guardian. You should really hear Amanda Todd's story on YouTube because the same thing happened to her and it demonstrates how scary it can be if someone has hold of a nude photo of you. Second, you're going to need to tell your parents or a guidance councillor. Someone needs to know in order to stop the blackmail. Don't give this person another photo. I've been blackmailed before but the best thing to do it block him or her and your parents will know what to do .
i have been confused about what i should be, i am a female that is more comfortable dressing in male clothes, i act more masculine then i do feminine however i do have certain female traits that keeping coming out (maternal - from when i was a step mum). i have been reading up and considering going through with a sex change operation. the only thing that is holding me back is i want kids and want to be able to conceive naturally.
I'm 100% for changes in sexuality and I support everyone who wants to change their gender and their sexualities. If you want to have kids naturally, maybe wait until you do find a partner and then if you could decide then if you'd like to go through the operation after having kids or before when you have a partner. You never mentioned how old you are but I would wait until you are positive you want to change your sex because I've heard it's a really painful surgery and you wouldn't want to change your mind half way through. Consider this:)
I want to know how to give urself a bruise im making a low budget film with my collage class i want authentic bruises so it looks real since i had to settle on snags for organs i should get this one!
You can try hitting whenever you need a bruise on the skin with a hairspray can because they\'re metal and don\'t hurt too much but will bruise
I have dreams and then they happen a couple of days or weeks later. what does this mean? How does it happen?
I don't know what its really called but this happens to me 24/7! Its a form of psychic! So be proud of your gift.. many people claim to have it or be a psychic but few actually are! Ive been tested by 4 different people who all claim I do my psychic powers in a form so if you want to make sure then go see your doctor who will send you to someone to be tested! Hope thid helps!
asked a similar question before but really wanted to see more opinions
My mother is currently in jail for a financial crime for six months. I have no problem with my mother and She was a good mother. Before this misdeed though I am wondering if now it might be hypocritical for me to listen to her now that she is a criminal. One thing I wonder is how being in jail will change her. Obviously spending eight months there would change you somewhat. I mean now that my mom is a criminal and will be surrounded by other criminals for eight months. I've talked to her on the phone and she seems the same but I still wonder. One positive that may come from this, maybe she will go easier on me. Though that could be a bad thing I guess
Going to jail can for sure change a person. Being surrounded by people who have also done wrongs can change a person due to being in that specific environmemt. It was lead her to be more trash talking, mean, physical or other things that jail has had impact on. Although, this is not the case. Being in jail does make a person realize that they should be good and a better person but it also sometimes dawns on them that they are now considered a "bad person". It depends on the person though and their mind. In some cases, being in jail for a long period of time can have no effect on the person whatsoever. I have had a few reletives or people I know that have done a crime, gone to jail and changed. I have also known people who haven't changed but got better! It really depends on the person and how long they've spent among other criminals. When your mother comes home, I would be a little cautious about her for a while until you figure out if shes changed or not. Hope this helps!
OK! I'm a 14/f and I've been talking with my crush who is just a few years older than me (not much and don't talk about age, its not that huge of an age gap) we are both mature and are both in a school activity. Since it's summer we text literally everyday. I love talking to him (its very easy talking to him :D) and lately we are both struggling to find topics. Cause I can tell he likes talking to me just as much as I like talking to him. I want to keep conversation fun and continuous but I need help with ideas. So please give ideas!! We usually talk about the activity we are both in and how our days are. SO PLEASE HELP!!!! :)
Something I always like to talk about with my crush or wih new friends over text is like 20 questions / truth (depends on what you'd like to call it). Basically you ask each other questions about anything you'd like to know and they have to answer truthfully and honestly. Ive always liked conversations like this because it gives you more things to talk about after you find out something about the person and you can find more common interests! Hope this helps!:) and you could always go out to the movies or hangout with him too! that's always a possibility!
14/f
so i started to work out but i noticed under my ass there is like this flab of fat and its rlly ugly and my butt is kinda like wrinkly lol its rlly ugly but i did alt of butt workouts for like 3 weeks and it lifted my but and the wrinkles are kinda gone but the flab under my butt is still there any advice?
You an try taking a medicine ball or a weight or something that can be known as a weight and hold it with your arms spread horixontally then do squats like that and keep your back straight. Or u could do regular squats, deep lunges are really good for your butt aswell, and sorry thata all i can thingk of but good luck!!:)
My last period came at the end of March during the week of spring break at my college. A few days after my period came my boyfriend, who lives out of state, and I made love a few times. I started dating him two years ago, and we made the decision since the first one or two times the two of us became intimate to not use condoms which resulted in us using the withdrawal method. At 22 (I lost my virginity at 18 going on 19) and almost 24 (he lost his when at age 17) you would think we would make better choices when it comes to sex but sadly we don't.
The other day I experienced very abnormal symptoms for my body. I believe that I started spotting because the toilet paper started to tell me that faint traces of my blood came out of my uterus (too much information I know). At the time I thought it strange because my period never starts out light. My first days of menstruation always tend to be heavy and very bloody, I actually get nauseous if I do not take two naproxen sodium. However towards the end of my cycle, my period starts to thin out and becomes almost nonexistent.
Should I be concerned about this? Could it be a pregnancy symptom? I'm trying to tell myself that it's probably stress from the last few weeks of the semester. As a third semester college student trying to transfer from a community college to an ivy league school as an accounting major, I get anxious about the effects that my grades will have on my future. I took three tests this week, and found out that I will not be exempt from the statistics final because I got questions wrong that I knew the answers to resulting in a 170/200 (an 85%, otherwise known as a B). Next week I have four papers due, a performance and a creative writing assignment for my English class (both things are due on Tuesday), a one page summary on an article for my phys ed class (due on Friday), and a 6-10 page paper due for my Western Civ II class (on Thursday). None of which I worked on yet, since I was too concerned about my tests. I also want this semester to end with a 4.0 GPA that I really worked for. Due to the death of my paternal grandmother in February completing my work has been difficult for me I currently lack all motivation. However I drag myself through this semester because I know it's what she would want for me, she was so proud of my success in college. Not only that but I committed myself to completing college and earning a highest recognition honors associates degree and bachelors degree from a well-known university.
I really do not want to have a baby yet. Due to the goals we have set for ourselves, neither my boyfriend or myself are ready to have children.
abnormal periods are totally normal. If i weee you i would take a pregnancy test though just to make sure that is.not the case.
how to kiss
It honestly comes totally naturally:) you and your mate (not being offensive to sexuality) judt have to go for it. It doesnt take much. Get close enough to do so and just leans and tilt your head a bit and close your eyes. I thought kissing took like lessons or something but honestly its really just natural. Goodluck!!:) hope this helps!
I just got an iPod, and I'm realizing how much it costs to buy songs. It's so expensive, so I'm wondering, does everyone buy there songs like this and pay full price for each song? Everyone has so many songs but I don't see how because they're so expensive. I'm not looking for a way around this, I just want to know if the majority of people actually do it this way.
You plug your ipod into a computer and then itunes should.come up. Go into an internet tab and then search " youtube to mp3 converter. Open a second internet tab.and go to youtube. From here, type in whatever song you want amd then copy and paste the url into the mp3 converter and click on convert. It willthen put it into your itunes file and then you can sync your ipod and have the songs ontherefor free
hello,i want to know how to anal sex?
Well theres one main way it can be done. Anal sex is sex in which the males penis goes into the womans anal. Or as most people call it the butt hole:p its practically normal sex but u cant get pregnant and it is done through your anal instead of a vagina.
Hi im 14.. and confused like crazy. Ive been dating my bf for 6 months now and i heard that he kissed some other girl and was being unfaithful to me. He tells me how beautiful i am and that he really likes me and nice things like that. Can you believe he doesnt even kiss me no more!!! Its been like 3 months now. We hangout with each other alot but i dont think i trust him now more. Please help.. thanks
You need to sit down with him next time you hangout and talk to him about how your feeling because you shouldnt break up wih him until you are sure..
I really want to play my ukulele while I take a shower! But I'm afraid that if it gets wet that the tuners will get rusted. Can I play my uke in the shower?
Why would u want to play a ukulele in the water? :$and no it wuld fill the little hole thing with water so no u cant
I'm a guy and I dated my best friend. She just told me she was bi wat should I do? I don't want to ruin this relation ship
Well tell her how you feel about this.. Theres nothing wrong with dating someone who is bi. It means essencially that you could possibly be changing their minds on their sexual orientation.. If your their friend then you will accept it
13/F.
So a few days ago, I rubbed my nose with a towel and now there are 3 BUMPS ON MY NOSE. 2 aren't very noticable, but there's this one that totally pops out and is noticable! What do I do? I want it gone without stuff like proactiv (Because this isn't acne). Thanks!
I would make sure there isnt stuff like puss inside the bumps so like either apply pressure or use a tool that gives the same effect. If it doesnt go away within about a week i suggest talkig to your parents about getting you a doctors appointment so they can check it out.
20/f About 6 months ago I went to my old doctor (i had to switch to a new one for insurance reasons). I was then 243 pounds, I was actually losing weight at this time. Three or so months ago I went to my first appointment with my new doctor and I was 265, then the following I went and I was 285 I went 6 weeks later and I am now 305 pounds. I'm starting to have mild headaches, the area around my neck is darkened, and doesn't get lighter however many times i was or scrub, and my neck is also getting that way too, but it has lighter and darker variances. I'm not pregnant, I don't take any medication and I didn't when this started happening. My new doctor has checked my thyroid twice, my electrolytes, and hormones and everything has come back normal. and someone help? or have you had this problem
For loosing weight and being healthy i really strongly revomment the "weightwatcher" program. Its online and free and it helped alot of my family and i loose the weight we wanted:)
Hi
I'm 17, and tbh the only phone I've had has been for 7 year-it still works fine, but it's an ancient brick now!
Everyone else has all these high tech phones-but the thing is I don't want to buy a phone (with my own saved up money) that will be out of fashion in a few months/years time, as I can't throw money away like that.
So what kind of phone should I get? All I'm concerned about is it has to look socially acceptable (not another brick) and have the internet. My price bracket is only like £100 or below, and I'd rather pay-as-you go because I can't commit to contracts as I'm going to Uni soon!
I recommend either a Samsung galaxy s2, samsung galaxy s3, or samsung galaxy ace:) they are cheap great phones and they arent a brick lol
i m from india. i had sex with my boyfrnd on 4 feb i have taken ipill after sex with in 2hrs bt after 2hrs i have taken another ipill again after 2 days i got periods for 5 days. but now i am not geting periods. is there any chance of getting pregnent or its normal. plz help me...
Ok so it is NOT abnormal to get your period late or early. For extra percaussions though, i would take a pegnancy test just to test your chances. I doubt you are pregnant but theres nothing wrong with being too safe.
Ever since mt Best friend.( since 1st grade ) Moved 1 hour away,we have been getting more and more distant. We e mail eachother,and viedo chat some times but i havent seen her since October. She says i am still her Best friend and i belive her,but she has moved to a new school, &i am home school and she has mede new friends. I am kinda worried we could just eventually drift away and separate. We will probably nor see eachother for about 6weeks cause her new house is being biult. BTW thanks for all yourhel and please help me and my friend get back together!
Long distance friendships and relationships are really hard. I have 3 different good friends around the world. 1 lives in australia and i never get to see her, i have another living in ottawa, and a third in florida. I live in london, ontario and it is super hard to keep long distance friendships when u hardly get to see them. Im sorry to tell you this but if your barely seeing each other then its best to only become good friends. You will bwcome great friends with alot of other people in the world. Your young and you likely wont keep the same best friend forever. Its hard to say and believe but its true. Uour going to meet other people who one day youll call your bestfriend but you will eventually grow apart. I used to be friends with this great girl named amanda throughout elementry school and then in high school we went in 2 different direnctions. It does happen and its lifes nature. Youll be ok, you really dont know what shes doing and she couldve called someone else her best friend by now. Im sorry to break the bad news to you but its just the way of life.