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Giving a nude picture to my ex?


Question Posted Sunday February 12 2012, 11:32 am

I really miss my ex and we've hanged out a bit but I really want him to want me back and show him what he's missing. His best friend sure thinks he's missing out on a lot for some reason. Should I send him a picture? How would he take it?

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Cheriscope answered Sunday February 19 2012, 7:50 pm:
Hes your ex for some reason which to me means he wasnt meant to be your future. EX means in the past.Leave it there.No pics move forward in your life.If you 2 are meant to reunite let him be the one to come back.Then youll know its real & not just sympathy.Guys like to be the agressive one.A mistake I myself have made more than once.Dont chase him let him chase you or its his loss but someone elses gain...Good Luck Cheriscope

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WittyUsernameHere answered Monday February 13 2012, 9:07 pm:
Assuming that you're over 18, that's about the most pathetically desperate thing I've ever heard of. Do you find desperation attractive? What makes him different from you?

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adviceman49 answered Monday February 13 2012, 11:47 am:
DON'T DO IT. NOT ONLY IS IT THE WRONG THING TO DO IT IS A CRIMINAL ACT THAT BOTH YOU AND YOUR EX COULD END UP IN HUGE LEGAL TROUBLE FOR.


I'm not kidding. If you are under 18 you could be charged with distributing CHILD PORNOGRAPHY. Your Ex could be charged with being in receipt of Child pornography. if he sends your picture to anyone else he can also be charged with distribution.


Social media sites such as Facebook and Myspace are working with Federal and local law enforcement to crack down on the use of these sites for distribution. If they find it they will report it.


If this is not bad enough, once you picture hits cyberspace not only is it out there for all to see. It is out their for ever. Future employers, boyfriends and anyone else you may not want seeing you in the nude can find and view these pictures.


Never, ever give anyone a picture of you that you don't want your father to see or your clergymen. Given cyber technology today once that photo leaves your hands it could be used by anyone for anything. Your picture could end up in magazines such as Penthouse, Hustler and Magnum. Included in all sorts of nude photo websites and more.


Doing this is just plain wrong, legally and morally. So DON'T DO IT.

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nascarfan1987 answered Sunday February 12 2012, 11:29 pm:
LMAO! WOW. That seems a little pathetic! Hah, sending you ex a picture isn't going to make him miss you, its going to make him realize that leaving you was the BEST decision of his life.


Sending nudes PERIOD, is wrong! Your ex will probably send those pictures ALL over school, along with on the internet. If he wanted you, he would have got back with you. No guy likes a clingy, desperate girl. And hunnie, you are border line desperate.

Get over him, like he did you. Move on, and learn how to have some self respect!

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Xui answered Sunday February 12 2012, 11:00 pm:
Are you kidding me? Why the hell would you go and sell yourself off like that?

You want to send nude photos to show him what he is missing? Do you respect yourself AT ALL?! I'm not sure if you are aware but sending nude photos through a cell phone while under the age of 18 is considered child PORNOGRAPHY. Whether deleted or not, It can be traced. A cell phone is just like a computer deleted or not it still stores hidden files and is completely traceable.

Instead of desperately trying to crawl back to someone who dumped you just move on and get the hell over it. Learn to respect yourself, You are giving off the wrong impression and you keep doing that somewhere down the line you are going to give yourself a real bad rep. That is if you don't already have one.

Sending him a photo isn't going to make him want to come back to you, It's going to prove nothing to him but the fact that you are desperate and willing to sell your body as a catch. If he wanted you, He would of gone back to you for YOU not your body. Using your body like that is the wrong way to grab anyone's attention. Stop being desperate and move on

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KlutzyKim answered Sunday February 12 2012, 10:09 pm:
Never send anybody a nude picture of yourself, no matter how much you think you can trust them. Something bad can happen in the relationship and they could show/send the picture to everyone you/they know just to humiliate you.

Or submit it to isanyoneup . com, thus making it practically impossible to ever get a job again.

If stripping off your clothes is the only way you can think of to get him back, than he isn't worth it.
You can get your ex back without disrespecting yourself.

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