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hi guys, im a girl and i am wondering about tattoo ideas. i want either a skinny design going up the side of my stomach or a quote. does anyone have a really beautiful, or outstanding quote. i live by the quote "Live Laugh Love" but i really dont want that to get tattooed to myself because it deffinitly not original. thankyou so much! =] (link)
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Here are some of my personal favorite quotes:
~Knowledge is realising the street is one way; wisdom is looking both directions anyway.~
~Don’t worry about what people think of you. There will always be someone that wants you to fail because they know they will never succeed.~
~The hardest challenge is life is being yourself in a world where everyone is trying to change you.~
~Enjoy the little things of today because one day you may look back and realise they were really the big things.~
~The best things in life are the people you’ve loved, the places you’ve been and the memories you’ve made along the way.~
~Don’t stress,do your best and forget the rest.~
~Reach high, for stars lie hidden in your soul. Dream deep, for every dream precedes the goal.~
~Laugh at the mistakes you have made, Live for every moment and Love unconditionally~
Hope you liked one :)
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Hi, I'm 14/f and there is a boy I like and I'm not sure if he likes me back...
When we're alone, he would be sweet, flirty & giggly (& a little sexual which is just him kidding... I think) but in front of people he'd be not exactly mean, but he wouldn't look at me or talk to me like he does when we're alone. He won't make fun of me but he'd scoot away as if I did something wrong. He'd ignore me when I call his name, & I don't want to annoy him so I just move away when his friends come in and smile at him :) I can tell by the look on his face and his eyes that he doesn't want me to move away but he doesn't say anything, in fear that he will be made fun of again. Isn't that so cute?
People also make fun of us a lot because I usually go over and sit next to him in class and he would be flirting and all that and his friends would come in and be like "awe you guys are so cute together, you'd make a cute couple" then I'd blush and look away. But on the other hand, he'd not be so happy about it. He just completely shut down. The smile goes away from his face, he won't look at me, & all I do is just move away because he gets mad after a while (but I'm not sure because there was this one time when he was mad when he came into class & then his friends started to make fun of us was when he got mad, so I'm not really sure if he was mad at me at first, (if any of this even makes sense)) and the last thing I want is for him to be mad at me.
I have been thinking about putting a cute little note in his locker, and I know what I want to say (in general) I just don't know exactly how to say it. I want to ask him to wait for me so we can talk after school, but I don't know exactly how to word it. Just in case you were wondering what I wanted to talk to him about, I wanted to ask him why he was doing this. Is this a bad idea?
Should this be a red flag?
What does it mean when a guy does this?
Is it possible that he likes me?
How should I word my note?
If I shouldn't do the note at all, how should I approach him about it?
Thank you all in advance! (link)
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Well, I know exactly how you feel, my boyfriend of now 2 years did that once. To start off, you need to let him know how you feel. Let him know you need to talk to him face to face and be calm about it. When you write a note he will never know your expression and will wonder if he did something horrible. Make it casual, when you get a moment just say "I need to talk to you about something do you mind hanging out after school? I really need to talk to you about it, ok?" And make sure you say it calmly and friendly, don't be jumpy or he will set up his guard and completely shut you out. If he says no then look disappointed, sigh and say something like "Oh, ok. I guess it didn't really matter that much anyway." This will make him feel guilty for turning you down. But if he says yes then after school tell him "I have been wondering why you act so different around other people, it has been bugging me a little bit and I just want to know. You know, I doesn't really matter what people say about us because they aren't the ones who are in control of the situation, we are. Don't worry about it, who cares what people thin or say." Give him spaces in-between the sentences for thing to register and for him to reply if he has one. He will get that you are worried about how it is effecting your relationship and decide whether he is going to let what people say to get to him or if he is going to ignore it and have fun with you.
and just to answer all your question:
1.Not a red flag.
2.It usually means that he is scared in some way or he, in situations not at all like you, could be mad.
3.If he is very flirty then yes it is very possible that he likes you.
4.No note, he needs to know you are calm about the situation and that he doesn't need to freak out or worry.
Hope I helped :) best of luck.
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Okay so I guess people say that i don't know what "love" is but I'm not sure.. I think i do, maybe. Because I am only thirteen going on fourteen in November.. Anyway I have this problem with this boy I used to "date." it lasted seven months. And ended in september because I moved unexpectedly.. When we fought it was horrible. I always thought of him as a best friend more than anything. We talked everyday for hours. And we stayed up All night talking over the phone every Friday and Saturday. He wasn't the best but to me he was perfect.. We did everything together. So the problem is my best friend (ever since I was 5) is really.. Uh what's the word? Judgmental. Yeah she judges every book by it's cover. So she never liked him. In fact, she hated him. Whenever someone asks me about him I kinda get a little on the down side. So she gives me this whole "get over it" story. I wish you knew.. Its just not like that. He is in a juvenile detention center now.. (for running away, people say it was because of me.) I miss him so much. And I just don't know what to do about it.. I have no idea how to talk to him and tell him.. I know I'll forget him. And there's this guy that likes me.. And I like him a lot. But whenever he talks to me I compare him to my "ex" and it's just not the same. Why can't I get over him? Why cant I try and forget him like he forgot me. I could never ask my parents because I don't live with them. And none of my family (well the adults) don't like him so I never told them about him. Like he says anyway. I really hope you can give me advice about how to.. Get over this somehow? :\ (link)
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To start off, all big fights feel harsh, having them often is not uncommon either. Rough patches happen, the reason the fights get so big is because you care so much for each other. You probably cannot get over this guy because he was your first love. Every first love hurts, for everyone. What your friends think should really matter to you, if you are that close with her then at least try to sway her opinion about the guy, the more your friends like him the better off you are. Getting over a guy is very hard for everyone, it took me an entire year to get over some jerk that cheated on me. First of all you have to nip this in the bud, or in other words: stop what your doing and listen closely. Here are some steps that will hopefully help out a lot, but you have to me consistent and keep up a even pace.
1. STOP COMPARING! You have to stop comparing him to this new guy. I know this seems hard but you have to. When you start to compare just tell yourself, no person is perfect and no two people are identical. Pushing all of these thoughts of negativity out of your mind will help with the following steps.
2. STOP AND THINK! Before you start getting depressed about the guy when someone asks or talks about him stop and think to yourself, am I going to let this tiny flaw ruin the rest of my day? Or am I going to put a smile on my face and forget that they even said anything. Then politely just say, I am not comfterable with talking about him at the moment maybe another time. It will take a little bit at first but after a while you will get the hang of it and feel a little bit better every time it happens.
3. USE THE VOICES IN YOUR HEAD! It may seem like a crazy thing to do but imagine having a conversation with him right now. Imagine telling him that you miss him but you need to move on, that waiting for him is just hurting you. Then imagine him being okay with it and telling you to go on and be free. Do this whenever you feel that you just need to talk to somebody about him, so go on girl! USE THE VOICES IN YOUR HEAD!
4. CUT YOURSELF OFF! Stop indulging yourself in the memories of him. Whenever you think of him or a memory pops up think to yourself that its a wonderful memory or thought, that you will cherish it until its value is no more, then stop worrying about it. Occupy yourself with something else and get your mind off of it.
Take your time with these steps and try not to overwhelm yourself by doing them all at once. Go with the flow... If you start and it immediately has an effect in you them keep on doing it at that pace but if you find that you are struggling then take the steps nice and slow...
Well I hope I was helpful
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uhm well one of my really really good guyfriends just confessed he has a crush on me & wants to know who i like. he's not like FORCING me or anything but he's obviously curious.
well i feel horrible, because he knows i like someone else (not him) but what he DOESNT know is that it's one of his "friends" (it's in quotes because my crush isn't very nice to him anymore).
do you think i should just tell him? or just keep it a secret? i dont know which is worse - the curiosity eating his brain away or how hurt he will feel if i ever tell him! (link)
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well, first off you need to tell him you don't feel the same but still want to be friends. It will ease the rejection a bit if you add the still be friends part. If the guy you like started acting different to this guy when he found out the guy confessed to liking you then that means that your crush more tan likely likes you back, which is good. If your guy friend is a true guy friend then he should not complicate things when you start going after this other guy, but if so then slowly cut them out of the situation so they don;t really notice what you are doing but at the same time begin to know less and less. If they are persistently asking what is happening them tell them it is none of their business and move on. Don't over think anything or you will end up more confused in the end.
Best of luck, hope I helped
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My boyfriend is flirting with this girl that i really hate .. What do i do? he's doing it infront of me and crap and im pissed but not showing it.. Its awkward and weird and ugh! What shoudl i do?!?!?!?? Grrrr... (link)
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I have had a very similar situation happen, except it was my best friend. What I did was I talked to him about it, I told him it bothered me and told him to stop. He did. The guy seems like the type that will take charge and leave you in the dirt if you don't say anything. Take some charge yourself and he will realise that you are not messing around. If he doesn't stop then dump him, he is not worth your time. When you feel anything you should always share it with him, it may seem like a stupid idea but it works, it is better to tell him and work things out then to let everything build up then out of nowhere dump him when he does not see it coming. Give him warnings, tell him if he does not stop that you are not going to stick around to watch and will dump him. With most guys this is a real eye opener.
Best of luck, hope I helped
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so theres this guy i kind of really like, im pretty sure its never gunna happen between us because we hooked up once and nothing happend after that. were still on goo terms but hes either too shy or not interested and i definatly wont make the first move. how do i get over him? i know itl be impossible unless i prove to myself that ther eis 100
% no hope or i find someone else which is unlikely given the selection of boys where i live. help please. (link)
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Tell yourself that you are better than that, keep your head up and pretend nothing happened. If he finally acts on what happened then great, go for it, but if he does not then just forget about it. Do not let what is in the past drag you down. You are a strong person and can move past this. Do not let it get to you, he is just another stupid boy, who cares?! If you keep thinking that then eventually you will believe it. Eventually your heart will heal and you will be fine. Just remember, that kind of thing just can't happen over night.
Hope this helped :)
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I'll start by saying I am still in high school. I am sixteen.
I have been with my boyfriend for six months now. He is the definition of perfect to me, everything I have always dreamed of and wanted. He is so respectful, polite, dorky, goofy, and never lets anything get in the way of our relationship. He never gets frustrated with me, never yells, never raises a hand at me, never even looks at other girls. I have been through a lot of guys, all jerks that used me, manipulated me, and left me at the slightest flaw they didn't care for or could tolerate. But my current boyfriend accepts me for me. He never gets angry when I get insecure or annoyed at him or close him out when my mother yells at me or I'm having trouble learning a math problem or something. He has taught me a lot about myself and he always helps me conquer my fears. He always opens doors for me, waits for me to finish eating at the table, and helps me with my problems. He is practically prince charming. He never ever pressures me, never judges me, and the best thing of all: I can truly be myself. I'm not scared of saying something embarrassing or telling him a dorky thought or just being my goofy self. He always tells me I'm beautiful and wonderful and everything to him. I've never ever had such a strong, amazing, loving relationship with anyone before. He is genuine and his intentions are good. He promised the first month we dated that he would never hurt me or never leave me or never give up. I've heard that a lot, but when he said it, it was different. He didn't just say it, he backed up his promise by giving me so much happiness and love. He always surprises me and goes out of his way for me. He is a senior.
We often talk of our future, but I feel awkward sometimes 'cause I get scared I might seem too clingy. He always assures me. We do everything together, even if we don't live together. We cook, clean, babysit, go grocery shopping, fix cars, and all other household chores or anything like a couple would be like when living together when my parents are busy or away or needing help. We can talk for hours, but I'm always comfortable in the silence even. He is my other half. I swear I'm not myself around him. I got ahead of myself last night, and looked him deep in the eyes and said quietly, "One day, I'm going to marry you." It took a lot of guts to say it, but I did, and his face lit up. He became ecstatic, "Really? Oh babe that's so wonderful that you want me in your future!"
I would like an opinion on it. Of course I'm young, and I know I'm too young to marry at this point, but some days I just want to ask, to give him just a simple "I'll be with you forever" whether I have a real ring or a ring from a vending machine. I think about it so much to the point where I wonder. Am I just overwhelmed? Is it okay to feel this way? Or is it wrong? (link)
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I know exactly how you feel, I have felt exactly the same and still do (about the same guy) however with me it has been 2 years. People like to call this the 'honeymoon' stage, however, I do not believe this what so ever. It is normal to feel this way and yes, you are overwhelmed... but in an amazing way, if he has showed you that he will be there for you and help you and he said he wants to be with you forever then I would believe it, but it may just be us in love girls??? I find that guys do not often actually WANT to talk to you about the future, but if he is open to it then take advantage to that all the way. it is okay to want to spend forever with such an amazing guy, the cute and funny part comes when his or your relatives say that they cannot wait until the wedding day. I know you feel the need to just go out and ask but trust me, don't, wait until the actual moment come... you never know he could be planning something this moment. I am not saying to sit around waiting for him to do it but just wait, give it some time for both of you to grow up more then, it the time comes... then do it. Just remember, you are only 16...
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how am i going to prove my love to someone far aways (link)
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If they love you and you love them and they know that then you should not have too. Try calling them and talking to them, ask them about their day, show that you care about what happens in their life even if you really don't. (yes it is possible to love someone but not care about a sports team they are on or things that their friends said)
If you really want to be romantic then send them something, a letter or a present, could be chocolate (make sure they can have chocolate before sending it)could be anything.
Hope this helped :)
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Ok so I have to write an essay about being catholic in todays world and I just finished it and want to know want any of you think because I want some feedback thanks.
Prince Guatama Siddharta once said, “We are what we think. All that we are arises with our thoughts. With our thoughts, we make the world.” He means that our thoughts are changing the world all the time. When thoughts are spoken they become a reality. They either improve or destroy us for a period of time. Though when stuff changes us positively or negatively we still keep our faith and hope. Whether we're Catholic, Jewish, Muslim, or Buddhist it doesn't matter. We still keep our faith close to us.
Being a young Catholic is very helpful. Being a teen and discovering who you are is very difficult. People around you constantly change as you are yourself. To me knowing that you have God and Jesus support me threw my hardships, makes me feel comfortable being who I am and what path I choose in life.
They've helped me a lot threw out my life, so I should pay them back for being so great to me. I go to church every Sunday, I pray to them for guidance, and be kind and accepting to everyone I see. I do this because God and Jesus love everybody and don't bring hate. I want to bring the compassion and acceptance that they bring to each individual Catholic on Earth.
The world is changing dramatically everyday. No matter what happens I still keep my Catholic faith and live for Christ by following my religion everyday. I will do all these things until the day I see Jesus and God for the first time. Then I'll know all my good acts for them will really pay off.
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This is very nice, I like where you are going with it but personally I must say, there is some wording you do need to change. I have a perfection issue, I edit and perfect my own work before I even think about having somebody else read it.
Something I find in essays is when you use reference to yourself, you lose points instead of gaining them like you intended. My teacher always tells the class to NEVER use the word I in formal writing like what you are doing right now. At the same time I would not use phrases like 'To me' or 'We' because it gives a personal incite to it. Also, from experience of writing essays, I would add more to it. Find facts and proof. Here is a form you can use for an opening paragraph, I use it all the time:
Introduction
- an opening sentence to capture the interest of the reader while setting parameters (boundaries)
Three subtopics or statements
- this gives 3 main things you will be looking at so 1. for you would be about how Catholicism has helped many young teenagers.
Thesis
- put something along the lines of Therefore, though it may be difficult, being a Catholic living in today's world is extremely hopeful (or any other word you would like to place there)
Then all you have to do is follow up on that with a paragraph for each statement. The beginning for each paragraph should have a linking sentence then just write from your heart, only using factual statements.
I truly hope you do well in your contest!
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im 13/f, im 85 pounds, and i can call myself pretty(: its okay to think your pretty and fit right? Never have i ever hugged a cute boy, dated, had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity, humped, nothing! is that bad? im 14 in 5 months. i feel like everyone has! especially dated, hugged, or had their first kiss! i havent, is that bad? plus my parents are super awkward, and i would never talk about boys in front of them. if i dated though, it would be a secret. should i be worried? (link)
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DO NOT WORRY! I am also 13 (14 next month) and I have not had my first kiss, made out, lost my virginity or humped. I do have a boyfriend of 2 years and all we have really done is held hands and hugged, trust me it may seem like fun to have a boyfriend but it is so much easier being single. You may seem like the odd one out when it comes to it but when those things happen for you it will be so much more special and meaningful BECAUSE you have not done them before. I know personally how it feels with awkward parents, but DO NOT keep a boyfriend from them! If you do that they WILL find out, they always do and that will lead you nowhere. If it comes down to it, I know it seems hard, but talk to your parents, see where they stand, trust me it IS important and DO NOT over think the situation! You do not NEED a boyfriend, it is not an obligation for you, no matter what people say. If you like a guy and want to date him by all means go ahead, but if you are not ready for any of it then do not do it just to fit in. And, unless your hugs are tight and sexual, hugging is not really something to worry about AT ALL. Keep your head up and remember STOP WORRYING AND DO NOT OVER THINK IT!!!
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i'm 13 1/2. i never knew what sex was until this year in eighth grade. im in health now learning about it! its a lot to take in and very scary! once im learning about it, all i see EVERYWHERE, is SEX SEX SEX. why is sex like everywhere?! i never new how many people have sex all the time. on here there are thousands of questions where people had sex! what's with the world all about sex? (link)
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I know how you feel, sex is everywhere. It is best to try and stay away from it until you think you can fully handle the subject. The truth is that sex is starting to become and issue with younger and younger kids. It is viewed as something that is cool and fun, when really it was originally a showing of affection between a man and his wife. I am not saying that you can not have sex, just stay away from it until you are ready. Many people on here ask about it because they are just as confused as you are about the subject. The world has warped into a very volatile and sexual place.
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