jealousy: my boyfriend is flirting with another girl!
Question Posted Friday March 16 2012, 10:57 pm
My boyfriend is flirting with this girl that i really hate .. What do i do? he's doing it infront of me and crap and im pissed but not showing it.. Its awkward and weird and ugh! What shoudl i do?!?!?!?? Grrrr...
Imperfectionist answered Sunday March 18 2012, 6:57 am: The problem here ISN'T that your boyfriend is flirting with someone you don't like, it's the fact that he is flirting at all. Whether people want to believe it or not flirting and cheating go together like peanut butter and jelly. Your boyfriend shouldn't be flirting with ANYONE. and it shouldn't be wierd and awkward it should get you pissed. Kick his ass to the curb and let him go treat someone else like that. Because you deserve better then that [ Imperfectionist's advice column | Ask Imperfectionist A Question ]
June answered Saturday March 17 2012, 9:36 pm: I think you should dump him because flirting to the beginning of cheating.No girl(or guy) should put up with that. And if you talk to him about it and he stop's then that might just been a way to get you mad. Maybe ( I would not but it up to you) give him an other time. That's IF he stop's. Just adding my two cent's. The other are right so you don't really need me. [ June's advice column | Ask June A Question ]
pgirl0311 answered Saturday March 17 2012, 8:01 am: I have had a very similar situation happen, except it was my best friend. What I did was I talked to him about it, I told him it bothered me and told him to stop. He did. The guy seems like the type that will take charge and leave you in the dirt if you don't say anything. Take some charge yourself and he will realise that you are not messing around. If he doesn't stop then dump him, he is not worth your time. When you feel anything you should always share it with him, it may seem like a stupid idea but it works, it is better to tell him and work things out then to let everything build up then out of nowhere dump him when he does not see it coming. Give him warnings, tell him if he does not stop that you are not going to stick around to watch and will dump him. With most guys this is a real eye opener.
Best of luck, hope I helped [ pgirl0311's advice column | Ask pgirl0311 A Question ]
YataiGuy answered Saturday March 17 2012, 6:16 am: Boys know how to control girls to get you to 'need' them to fill your emotional desires and self worth. this is the move of a player.
If your father is a good guy and is around, ditch this dude and spend some time with your dad. Boys and competitive girls will come and go, but your dad id your dad forever. If hes not around, tell your boyfriend you hate this girl. if he apologises for his actions and stops doing it, hes a good guy. if he mocks you or keeps doing it after you say, then dump his sorry ass. [ YataiGuy's advice column | Ask YataiGuy A Question ]
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