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How to move on?
I really like this guy. He is nice to me most of the time, but sometimes he's mean to me and makes fun of me. I want to move on from him, but I can't. I want to love someone who treats me great and doesn't be mean to me.
How do I move on?
P.S. I know it's not technically "moving on" because we never dated, but just take my word for it.
P.P.S. I also really like this other guy.
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Hey,
Firstly I agree with the below answer-don't move on to another relationship untill you've got over this guy first.
On the bright side-you have already done half the work by realising you can do better, and wanting to move on.
What I did was I wrote a list of all his bad attributes-this shouldn't be hard for you if as you say he makes fun of you.
Then, whenever you miss him, read the list and remind yourself why you deserve so much better.
By doing this, you're not teaching yourself to hate him, you're teaching yourself to quit being in love with him and stop thinkig about him all the time.
Obviously, as you've not been out with this guy he sounds like a crush. And the best thing is that crushes come and go-so it should be easy to get this guy off your mind. It seems you were lucky that you guy never did go out if thats how he chooses to treat a girl:)
Good luck :)
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My daughter took 2 years to finally dump a guy who treated her much the same way, and while she knows it was the right thing to do (shes 17, hes 20), she still misses him. So to get through it, she is not dating anyone. Otherwise, she will keep hopping from guy to guy, to fill the void, so to speak that the first guy created. If you have a dad who is around and a good guy, spend some time with him. Hes the best guy at your age to make you feel whole, and to give you self worth. Boyfriends come and go but your dad is your dad.
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