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uhm well one of my really really good guyfriends just confessed he has a crush on me & wants to know who i like. he's not like FORCING me or anything but he's obviously curious.
well i feel horrible, because he knows i like someone else (not him) but what he DOESNT know is that it's one of his "friends" (it's in quotes because my crush isn't very nice to him anymore).
do you think i should just tell him? or just keep it a secret? i dont know which is worse - the curiosity eating his brain away or how hurt he will feel if i ever tell him!
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well, first off you need to tell him you don't feel the same but still want to be friends. It will ease the rejection a bit if you add the still be friends part. If the guy you like started acting different to this guy when he found out the guy confessed to liking you then that means that your crush more tan likely likes you back, which is good. If your guy friend is a true guy friend then he should not complicate things when you start going after this other guy, but if so then slowly cut them out of the situation so they don;t really notice what you are doing but at the same time begin to know less and less. If they are persistently asking what is happening them tell them it is none of their business and move on. Don't over think anything or you will end up more confused in the end.
Best of luck, hope I helped
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Honesty is the best policy but in this case I would be economical with the truth. I'd tell your friend that you're flattered that he likes you in that way (or words to that effect) but you don't see him the same way.
DON'T mention fancying anyone else. It only causes trouble, trust me! If he asks just say no, it'll save him a lot of heartache trying work out who it is you like and could sabotage your friendship.
Good luck - I hope this helps!
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well what i would do is like tell him the truth. that you like what ever the guys name is. It would be better if you do that then just tell him a lire to keep him happy because deep down inside you wont be happy and i dont think he would want that if he was your friend. so just tell him.
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