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Sex Everywhere!
i'm 13 1/2. i never knew what sex was until this year in eighth grade. im in health now learning about it! its a lot to take in and very scary! once im learning about it, all i see EVERYWHERE, is SEX SEX SEX. why is sex like everywhere?! i never new how many people have sex all the time. on here there are thousands of questions where people had sex! what's with the world all about sex?
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You have asked a very good question. One I ask myself often while answering questions from people your age and even younger. As someone old enough to be your grandfather I will try to answer some of your question. This question though should really be answered by sitting down with mom and asking her.
Remember one thing about us adults; we were once your age. We have gone through everything you will go through. Mom has dealt with boys who are going to be all hands and begging you to have sex with them. She can help you deal with these boys as she had to and learned maybe the hard way how to do so. This is the type of sex question you can and should talk with mom about.
Why is sex every were? Well for one thing sex sells. If you want to sell something put a sexy girl in the ad. Put a sexy girl in revealing clothing next to a shiny car and men want that car. Put skinny models in women's fashions and every girls wants those cloths so she can look like the model.
Puberty plays a big part in why sex is every where you look. You have new hormones floating through you. As a girl your body is under going many changes. Your finding out that these changes attract boys and you can use these changes to control these boys interest.
The boys also have new hormones floating through them. There bodies are changing. They now get executions, something they have little or no control over. These new hormones have them looking for sexual relief constantly. Talking about sex helps to find a willing partner, sometimes.
Remember one thing actually two things about teenage boys and sex. First, they confuse lust and love. They will say anything to get a girl to have sex with them. Second; When they do expect them to gossip about it as they can not keep a secret about this. They have to tell someone that they are now a man. They tell their best friend who tells someone else. With today's social media access by the time you return to school everyone knows you had sex with him and you have a reputation you don't want or need.
Sex is a very intimate thing to shared by two loving people who have invested in a long term relationship. The boys you are dating now are most unlikely to be the boy you marry. After high school the chances of you all seeing each other again are slim as you will all head off to college and different parts of the country.
It is up to you as to whom and when to have sex. It is worth the wait until you are in a truly loving relationship with someone you believe you can plan a life with.
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I know how you feel, sex is everywhere. It is best to try and stay away from it until you think you can fully handle the subject. The truth is that sex is starting to become and issue with younger and younger kids. It is viewed as something that is cool and fun, when really it was originally a showing of affection between a man and his wife. I am not saying that you can not have sex, just stay away from it until you are ready. Many people on here ask about it because they are just as confused as you are about the subject. The world has warped into a very volatile and sexual place.
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It is a good subject to stay away from for many years. It has gotten a lot of people in trouble disease that can kill you. You can get pregnant and going to college and finishing schools gets much much harder. People talk about it because everyone does it ( at a certain age)
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