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Young love?
Please please help me!!!! ugh! ok well i am a 13 year old girl and i got asked out on valentines day by a my best guy friend(also 13) who i like and he doesn't talk to me the same now! we used to always talk and stuff but now we barely ever do and if we do its not the same. if we are in a group of people talking he will talk to like everyone but me! its only been 7 days and its both of our first real relationship so people are saying its normal but idk. he hangs out with other girls alot to. What do i do? i want to talk to him more but i get nervous and he is to.please help ASAP!!!!!
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COMMUNICATION, learn it now and you'll spend a lot less time asking people questions that only he can answer. Why isn't he talking to you as much? I dont know! But he does. This is your first relationship and alot of first relationships (especially with young teens) don't workout, because they have no idea what they're doing. The guy asks you out then stops talking to you as much? Ya doesn't know what he's doing.
So go talk to him. He is your boyfriend now which means like any good boyfriend he's suppose to care about your feelings and want to know what's on your mind. Can't exactly do that if you dont tell him right? And don't sugar coat anything or you will get no where. By that I mean don't say "I really wanna spend more time together... But only if you want to" you'll probably just confuse him. Instead say " I'm glad were together but I feel like we dont spend as much time together, don't you think so?". From there you can go anywhere you want like plan a date for Saturday, or maybe do some school work together.
Good luck with your relationship, there is much more to learn but this is a big step
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This happened to me once and we broke up after a while. I really regreted not doing what it took. I asked what I couldv'e done and he said that I shouldv'e told him what I was upset about and what needed fixing. Which is what you need to do. Ask him why he hasn't talked to you much and don't give on him! I am also 13 so I know what it feels like to have a bf at this age. It's pretty awesome. He gave me such bad butterflies that I lost my appitite for a week. Isn't that horrible? But at least it was Spring Break! :D Anyway, you gotta say it. It may seem uncomfortable or something but in the end, you will be better off. And if it doesn't work then you guys obviously don't belong together. Just think, somewherer in the world is your future husband waiting for you. Don't bound yourself from him with other guys. Wait until your old enough to find that special guy. Even though some people do find their true love at a young age. But you will know if that's the case. Good Luck Chiky! :D
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