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I'm nervous and apprehensive about telling him how I feel.
So, I've posted here once or twice about the same guy. He is in the army and one of my best friends. Well he just got back yesterday, and today is Valentines day. I dated his best friend about two years ago, we broke up around Christmas the year before last and about a month later I hooked up with this guy. We didn't have sex but got pretty close. Anyway, so he took me out on a date about a year ago and it was really fun. After that we kissed a few times and we'd occasionally hold hands. We kind of drifted apart when his friend and my ex found out. Since at the time it was a sensitive situation. Well, I started dating another guy who beat me and just was an awful person. After I caught him cheating I dumped him and remained single for the rest of the year, until New Years Eve, I ran into my friend who I had a thing with at a party, he was on leave for about a week. So we got drunk together and ended up kissing at midnight and well, later on we met up and some other things happened. We went back to the party and about a few hours later we ended up holding hands. Until my ex walked in then we quickly dispersed. Well a short time later he left and I hugged him goodbye. Since then we have been texting, we talk about how we need to hang out, and how he misses food, I told him I'd make him dinner and he was very happy to hear. Well anyways. He has not been in a relationship in over two years and has mostly just fooled around with girls, I have been fed up with relationships and have started doing the same. However, he is the only guy who gives me that feeling in my gut. I realized I really liked him. We're supposed to hang out at a party this week. I really want to tell him, but I'm afraid he might not feel the same since the situation is so, different. What do I do, is there any hints I can drop? Is there anything I can say or do to find out. I'm afraid if I confess my feelings our friendship will be...odd.
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Go for it girl.You need to find out once and for all if hes The One!This on & off again attraction has to be decided a go or no go.You cant keep living in the dark wondering if this is going somewhere or not.If he feels the same Great But if hes just a player you'll know its time you look for your true love for life.Wear your heart on your sleeve,be forward Let it all hang out.What do you have to lose? Good Luck & be happy no matter which way it goes you'll be able to put it to bed.(end it) either way. Cheriscope
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Guy liking situations can be very difficult. Your situation is different. But doesn't have to be hard. I know this is very hard to do.
But ask him if you can talk to him either outside alone if its warm. or in a room where it can just be you two.
Just be like, I know we are good friends, and i don't want to ruin our friendship, But i have to say that i really like you. Say one or two things you like about him like the way he smiles, or the way he holds your hand a certain way.
By what you have told me. I believe he likes you too. or has some kind of feelings for you.
But be honest and tell him the truth. If he says he just wants to be friends, yes it will hurt but at least you will know and won't be wondering what if.
and if he does say just friends, just think of it as another guy closer to finding the true one.
Hope this helps:)
;Jasmine<3
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