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Simple painless way to commit suicide?
I'm a 27 yr old attractive female. I'm smart and I have a loving family. I have thought about killing myself since I was 13. I now live in a new city with my fiance, but I know no one here, I'm so lonely and becoming so needy and therefore unhappy. It's not that I was to die so much as I cant go on this way. I don't know if I'm strong enough to pick up the pieces on my own. My fiance says he loves me (he really is the love of my life) but where is he? I don't know, out drunk with his friends somewhere. So, I know it seems ridiculous but remember, I have been thinking this way for 14 yrs, I've thought a lot about it. Any way I can do this somewhat painlessly and not end up in a hospital with brain or organ damage? Please help me
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you have so much to live for. don't ill yourself. do you feel alive and free and beautiful in new york with your fiance? have you ever felt beautiful, alive and free at any time in your life? if you have, think of that time. ask yourself if you rather kill yourself and never see the beauty of life again, or get a new perspective and see the beauty of life...taking you back to that happy time. It is up to YOU. go out there and live. feel free again. it seems like you are in a situation that makes you feel miserable, but you're not a miserable person. list all of the things you hate and all the things you love. ask yourself if you are willing to say goodbye to all the things you love and let the things you hate take those things away from you. be strong. be confident in yourself. walk out in the warm sunshine and take a breath of fresh air...and see the beauty of life .
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Done give up on life,why would you?When everything wrong seenms to be happening,close you're eyes and just think of ways to make them better.Whenever something bas happens,learn from it and get up because it only made you stronger.What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.
You're beautiful,check.
You have a loving family,check.Whenever you're feeling lonely talk to your family on the phone,or skype with them.
You have a fiance that you love,check.oh and about him,talk to him tell him how you feel about what's going on,spend some quality time together
You live in new york city baby,check.about you feeling lonely,get a dog or go shopping with a girl frnd,you must have atleast one girlfrnd,have a gathering or something fun thatlle take your mind off of the things that disturb you.
Also,you can arrange one day of the week where you can pamper yourslef,get your hair and nails done,get a facial,watch all of you're favorite movies.
When you look at life in a bright and positive way,trust me its not as bad as it looks.
So don't give up,you're beautiful and someday you will realize that.
Goodluckk xx
A.I
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If you hsve been having these thoughts for a while, my guess is you are simply depressed without the knowing of the actual cause. There might be some unconcious factors that are at play here. I think that you should either call the free crisis hotline 1-888-777-4443 or I can recommend you talk to Dr. Andrea Iglesias.. her number is on her website 305 431 9839 www.drandreaiglesias.com and maybe she can help you figure out another solution. sucide is a long term solution for a short term problem. Although it feels like there's no way out, there is. Use the number for the Dr. I gave you. She is your age and very relatable. She can listen...give it a chance and go from there. I hope this helped and I have faith you'll be ok. xoxo
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We are asked this question a lot. why I don't know. If there was a painless way to die we would not tell you as that is not what we do here.
Are purpose her is to help people. You have been thinking about this for 14 years. My thoughts are if you have not made one attempt in 14 years you really want to live not die and we can help you live if I am correct i my thinking.
People who contemplate suicide are generally depressed over something. I can offer you the following hotline to call.
This is the : National Suicide Prevention Helpline 1-800-273-8255 (1-800-273-TALK). The people here will help you through any crisis you may be having as well as help you find people near you that can offer long term help.
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The only simple way to die is wait till your time to die comes. Your fiance could be anywhere but relationships have to sometimes rely just on trust that he is doing the right thing. And if he is and comes home to see you dead and the love of his life gone, that would really hurt him. Having someone close to you die is horrible. It's a piece of you gone. He would feel empty inside and hate himself for leaving. Why don't you tell him how you feel or get revenge and leave without him knowing where your going. That always drove my dad crazy when my mom did that. Go join a group like Mary Kay or something. Mary Kay is a great company and everyone is so positive. It changes my mom's life. Hopefully you can find your happy place and see that the world needs you here for a little longer. :)
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There is no simple painless way to commit suicide. It's as plain and simple as that. You have people who love you, think about how much pain you would put them through if you did commit suicide. They might even blame themselves for it, and that's something they would have to live with for the rest of their lives. You have so much to live for and so much more time left. Moving to a new place is hard, especially if you don't know anybody around there. You could talk to your neighbors or go out or join a community group where you meet other people. You'll feel better once you make a few friends and start adjusting to the new environment. Also, you don't have to do this on your own. You need to talk to your fiance. He probably doesn't understand what you're going through, but if you talk to him about some of this, it will probably make you feel a little better. Tell him that you feel like he isn't around enough. (Also, if he's going out with his friends, maybe you could ask him to introduce you to any of their girlfriends or something). This is the kind of thing that can make your relationship stronger. I understand how hard it is to keep moving on after considering suicide. But look how far you've made it since then. In those 14 years, you've become stronger from not going through with it. One song that really inspires me and keeps suicidal thoughts out of my head is Stronger (What Doesn't Kill You) by Kelly Clarkson. You should really take the chance to listen to the song and really take in the lyrics. If you are still having suicide thoughts, please call 1-800-273-8255. I hope this helps and stay strong :)
If you are concerned about the people that love you, then it's not the right thing to do. If you can't talk to your fiance, then try talking to some of your family. Maybe you could try to organize a trip to go back and visit them. You're going to need somebody's help. Your family is another great way to get support. They can remind you the reasons why you've held on for such a long time. I'm sorry if this isn't the answer that you want, but stuff like this is all you're going to get on this website.
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