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I need a website with links of Cece Jone's(Bella Thorne) clothes. I want to dress like her! AND PLEASE DONT GIVE ME A LINK TO DRESSLIKEBELLATHORNE.COM.
http://www.wambie.com/tuttifrutti_us/photos/WANT_TO_DRESS_LIKE_BELLA_THORNE_-photo_en-1229.html
http://www.polyvore.com/dress_like_cece_jones/collection?id=1348074
-boots
-rubber and splatter paint
~jeans
-only jeans!!
-only white, dark, or washed
-go to youtube type in bleached jeans
~tops
-layer
-long sleeved shirts
-bright colors but not neon
-always have a vest or jacket with you
~hats
-wear old style hats
-only blus singer hats!!
~hair
-curl it or use mousse and scrunch it
-bangs
-make sure the style works for you
~makeup
-mascar
-lipgloss
-very little concealer
-rosy blush
I already know i'm probably going to get a lot of comments that say "dress how you want" or "be yourself" or whatever else, and i understand that. I do and will continue to dress how i want to, but my question is, I guess its obvious that girls dress to impress, like if you like a guy you dress as cute as you can, to impress them, or get their attention or whatever else, but the guy i like told me not too long ago i was starting to "dress preppy"..thats the last thing i want to do is look preppy. i hate preps. lol i just try and dress cute i guess, and if thats meant as a bad thing then im guessing i shouldnt be wearing some of the things i am, idk i just want some kind of feedback please and thank you (:
well, first of all, you're right...i am going to tell you you should dress however you want..but if you want to dress "less preppy" and still look cute...i would say try some skinny jeans with different fun tops..no polos. try wearing some high waisted shorts with a cute top that you can tuck in with some gladiator sandals. you can even try that same thing with high waisted pants instead and with some wedges...unless you want to wear sandals then i would say just some cute colorful sandals. as far as dresses, i'd do long summery dresses and short ones with flower prints and stuff. i hope i was able to help. xoxo let me know if there is anything else.
on saturday night i asked out a very sweet girl from my school, thinking she was very innocent. Her random drug test this morning came back positive for many different narcotics. I am a sensible person who will never go near drugs, and quite afraid of this date with this girl. I want to go out with her, just don't know what to do with her situation.
I have to say, the decision is tough, but you can't necessarily judge until you get the full story. Maybe the narcotics are legal ones...considering narcotics are used for pain killing. It could be that or maybe it is something illegal that is in fact a problem. Sometimes people with a problem need to associate with someone that is against it in order to get their lives straight. Maybe your'e that person. The point is, you asked her out on a date, she agreed and you got this news. Everything happens for a reason..go on the date and talk to her about it. What's the worst that can happen? If you feel you don't like her or her answer then you can simply tell her you think it's best if you guys stay friends. you never know until you try.
Ok I know that's a question asked by a lot ot females but my ex ryan and I were together 4 years we have a beautiful little girl together afew months ago I left him cuz he didn't appreciate me he said he was going to change but still hasn't I'm with him almost always but when he gets a text or call from any other female he makes me leave I feel like his "if I don't have anyone else around" girl it hurts so bad he even kicks our daughter out for a female I also have another guy but he knows about ryan he loves me ane has been trying to get me to forget about ryan and be with him I just don't know what I should do should I give up on a 4 year relationship or keep trying?
i think that for the sake of your child and your own sanity you should restrict yourself from talking to your ex. the important thing is that you have a stable life to provide for your daughter. your ex is clearly unstable and you don't really benefit from him. he will obviously need to spend time with your daughter, so maybe you guys can figure a schedule out. i think that you should test the waters with the new guy before your daughter becomes attached to him also. 4 years is a lot but...the important thing is the quality of it. you have 2 people to think about now.
hi, so my bf fingered me yesterday n after i came back home i noticed some blood on the tissue so i freaked out n i told my bf .. n we both think that i probably just got scratched inside ... plus it was not the first time he fingered me.
this morning, i was a little scared touching my area ... to check if there is more bleeding or not ... but then there was nothing ... but then i was like maybe if i do the same thing my bf did ... blood mite come it ... i just wanted to check... so i kinda did it slightly from outside though .. i didnt go in .. n after that i went to the bathroom .. the tissue had some blood. i used my mini mirror to c it ... but there was nothing visible ... is it serious .. pls help me ... or is it a scratch which ll be healed ... pls help fast m freaking out!!
Hello, honestly it doesn't sound serious but the only way to know for sure is to go to the dr. They will be able to really look and give you some details. You should go regardless because if it something that requires some medicine or special treatment , the longer you take to get started the longer it'll take to get rid of....even though it sounds like it's no biggie. Hope I was able to help. Good luck xoxo
Ok my boyfriend & I had sex, but befor he put the condom on he stuck it in for likke 5 seconds. Now my calender said I should start my period but I havnt & the month is almost over
Well, you CAN get pregnant from precum... Wait until the end of the month. Irregularities in your period can occur for all kinds of reasons. I had a similar situation once. Wait until the end if you don't get it by the end of the month then I would recommend either taking the pregancy test...or going to Planned Parenthood and have them do it for free. You can get checked out for other things too and maybe talk about some birth control so you don't have a scare again. Just naming some options. Hope I was helpful. xoxo
I'm a 27 yr old attractive female. I'm smart and I have a loving family. I have thought about killing myself since I was 13. I now live in a new city with my fiance, but I know no one here, I'm so lonely and becoming so needy and therefore unhappy. It's not that I was to die so much as I cant go on this way. I don't know if I'm strong enough to pick up the pieces on my own. My fiance says he loves me (he really is the love of my life) but where is he? I don't know, out drunk with his friends somewhere. So, I know it seems ridiculous but remember, I have been thinking this way for 14 yrs, I've thought a lot about it. Any way I can do this somewhat painlessly and not end up in a hospital with brain or organ damage? Please help me
If you hsve been having these thoughts for a while, my guess is you are simply depressed without the knowing of the actual cause. There might be some unconcious factors that are at play here. I think that you should either call the free crisis hotline 1-888-777-4443 or I can recommend you talk to Dr. Andrea Iglesias.. her number is on her website 305 431 9839 www.drandreaiglesias.com and maybe she can help you figure out another solution. sucide is a long term solution for a short term problem. Although it feels like there's no way out, there is. Use the number for the Dr. I gave you. She is your age and very relatable. She can listen...give it a chance and go from there. I hope this helped and I have faith you'll be ok. xoxo
I like him. He likes me. We fight like a married couple and play like brother and sister. He asked me what exactly what we are and I don't want to jump out and say I want to be his girlfriend because he has had a million girlfriends. What should I do?
Hello, I would recommend telling him that you like him and notice that he likes you also and ask him how he would feel about only seeing each other instead of seeing other girls. That way you aren't jumping out and asking to be his girlfriend, but you're letting him know that that is something you would like and at the same time seeing if it's something he wants as well. If he does, then that's great. If he doesn't then I think that you should just let it be and try to connect with someone else. There's someone out there for everyone. Trust me. I hope this helped. xoxo
2 nights ago I couldn't sleep until 3 in the morning and got 4 hours of sleep then last night we had to stay up till one in the morning to pick my brother up from work. But he ended up being late and we left around 2:30 am. I fell asleep at 4 in the morning. Then had to wake up around 8. So another four hours. My mom said my eyes were bloods shot and that I look very tired but I ddin't feel it at all. Now that it is the middle of the night and I want to fall asleep I can't. My body is tired and all but I just can't. I didn't have coffee, didn't exersice, and I have a comfortable, quiet room. How can I fall asleep? I have school tommorrow! Thanks!
I have trouble sleeping as well, and I agree witht the columnist below me, but I am also going to recommend drinking some chamomille tea before bed or some warm milk. The chamomille really helps me sleep when I have a bit of insomnia. And yes, make sure you have no televisions or electronics on. Also, I go to the gym everyday and get on some cardio machine and get my heartrate to about 120 and keep it there for about 20 minutes. It helps relieve stress which is what keeps me awake sometimes, that way when I get to sleep...I stay asleep. Sometimes people go into light sleep and stay there because of the tv and stress...we need lots of rem and deep sleep which is why I do that. Hope I was able to help :)
hey, i am a columnist on here and i love helping people but now i need some help back. I've been involved with this guy over a year now, we happen to love each other. He redefined my perspective on love, on life, on MYSELF. He is... amazing.
But i live in a very strict old fashion christian family and i'm literally the only girl in my generation. My family doesn't even allow me to date and i'm EIGHTEEN!!!! Yeah... it's that bad.
But anyway... me and the guy were having sex... and he came in... not just a little bit. the full on throttle shot DEEP in there. i tried to wipe it out but idk if it did anything.
Now before you say where is the protection... talk to trojan. there condemn ripped... beautiful right?
But anyway whats my next move... i can't swallow pills (the morning after thing) and i could wait to c if i get my period but my body is wierd and i only get my period once every three-four months...
So what's my next move?
Hello, Well I disagree with the first columnist...sorry. I don't think you should discuss if you took a pregnancy test or anything. I think it causes unnecessary problems. I know from experience. The morning after pill is very small so you will not even feel it as it's going down with water. All you have to do is rememember to take the second one at the designated time. After a month I would suggest going to your nearest Planned Parenthood, where they keep your information confidential so your family won't know, and tell them your situation. They check for pregnancy for free. That's what I did last time and it was perfect. Also, for the future I would talk to them about birth control so this doesn't happen to you again. It's a scary situation..believe me I know. They have different forms in case you really don't want to take the pills...which are also extremely small. Plus, you won't have to worry about your parents finding an actual test or anything. When they call you, they even ask for permission to say they are from Planned Parenthood. If you say no, they keep it anonymous. Try to be more careful next time because pregnancy is a HUGE life change. I know the response is long, but I would rather fill you in entirely...hope I was able to help. PS I have also heard that the "mirena" is just as effective as the pill and is worth it. It is uncomfortable for about a minute they put it in, but from what I have heard you can't even tell it's there after that.
feel suicidal can anyone help ?
If you are feeling suicidal, the first thing you should do is call a crisis counseling hotline.1-888-777-4443. it's free and very helpful. They can help you discover the problem and really work threw it. For every problem, there is a solution. Suicide is the long term solution to a short term problem. Take the right route and ask for help. Asking for help doesn't mean you are weak, it shows how smart and strong you are. You can pull thru it. I know it. If you want the number for a great psychologist that can take you thru some steps 3054319839 www.drandreaiglesias.com
Oh boy. I've got it bad!
Me and this guy have been friends for about 6 months now, and he is just the awesomest guy I know! A little over a month ago, I broke up with my old boyfriend, and this guy was there for me and took me out to ice cream and made me feel better! I knew I enjoyed hanging out with him, but it wasn't until my Spring Break that I really realized how much I cared for him.
Over spring break, I went home, and he stayed where we go to college. But he drove 4 hours to come to my home town and we had so so much fun! He even put his arm around me, so I started to feel like he liked me too.
Since we have gotten back, we have gone out every night. The way he looks at me is just the most amazing thing ever, and I swear I have never felt this good before. We sat in the car and he told me how he had so much fun with me over spring break, and that it was just the greatest day, and how awesome I was, and he even told me I was cute! I really started to like him at this point... He is seriously amazing!
This morning we got together again, and he taught me how to change my oil! It is kind of silly, but I just had the best time. He had never really broken the "touch barrier" before, but he like touched my hair, my hands, we laughed when I would do something stupid, and at the end of it all, he helped me get all cleaned up.
I guess the point of all of this is, I think I am falling in love with him, and up until this evening, I thought he was feeling the same way!
The issue is...he is going on a date tonight. With another girl. I mean, I have hung out with other guys during all this too, but I knew how I felt about them compared to Alex. So he is going somewhere with this girl, and now I just don't know. He really is a good guy, I know he wouldnt play me or anything, so I just need to know. Does he really like me, or am I somehow reading into this wrong?
Thanks for reading! I know it was long!!
Hello! As I was reading your story, I remembered I was in a similar situation. When I broke up with my ex-boyfriend, my best guy friend was there for me. I spent all my time with him even though he lived 4 hours away...I still went to go see him. I thought I was falling in love with him also. I loved the attention, but one day he also went on a date with a girl. I was so hurt and confused and things got messy. Now I feel that I lost such a wonderful friendship because I let my feelings get in the way. My point is, you never know, maybe he is someone you're supposed to be with, but you need to consider that once you break the friendship and become more than that...it's very hard to go back to how things were. You might not be able to have that same person to comfort you again. I would really consider meeting other people and seeing if you feel the same. Since you broke up with you bf and right after starting hanging out with this guy friend, it could be that he is just a filler for the void you felt when you broke up with your bf. Make the effort, when youre hanging out with other guys, to remember that Alex is just a friend so that you can focus on getting to know other people instead of comparing them the relationship you have with alex. i hope this helped..i know it's long..let me know if you have any questions :)
I wanna know different ways I can make my boyfriend horny. I'm always horny with him but I wanna get him on hard as often as I can. Help me?
It's very simple. You can try little flirty yet subtle things. Try running your hand softly on his thigh, not too high so that it leaves the mystery of how far youre going to go. nibble on his ear when you guys are hugging. you can kiss his neck and play with his hair, but make your touch very light because it'll give him a little tickle which will excite him. little things like that really turn a guy on. the mystery is exciting. sometimes, when my boyfriend and i are discussing where to eat i like to imply things about sex to him. for example, if he asks where i want to eat i'd say i don't know, but i think i know a place with some good desert and give him flirty smirk and maybe wink. I hope i was able to help. let me know if you have any other questions :)