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I want to go out with her, but she is into drugs, and I am not... what am i going to do?
on saturday night i asked out a very sweet girl from my school, thinking she was very innocent. Her random drug test this morning came back positive for many different narcotics. I am a sensible person who will never go near drugs, and quite afraid of this date with this girl. I want to go out with her, just don't know what to do with her situation.
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I have to say, the decision is tough, but you can't necessarily judge until you get the full story. Maybe the narcotics are legal ones...considering narcotics are used for pain killing. It could be that or maybe it is something illegal that is in fact a problem. Sometimes people with a problem need to associate with someone that is against it in order to get their lives straight. Maybe your'e that person. The point is, you asked her out on a date, she agreed and you got this news. Everything happens for a reason..go on the date and talk to her about it. What's the worst that can happen? If you feel you don't like her or her answer then you can simply tell her you think it's best if you guys stay friends. you never know until you try.
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Well, since you already planned a date with this girl I say you should go on it. If she talked to you about her drug test and the details, then you have every right to talk to her about it because she made it your business by telling you. It is very hard to be with someone that does drugs because 1. You don't agree with the choice, and 2. You don't want to start because she is. So, go on the date, and just let her know you'd like to just be friends because she's in a different place in life than you are. You need to do whats best for you! Good Luck, Hope I helped!
-Bri
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