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should i go back to my ex?
Ok I know that's a question asked by a lot ot females but my ex ryan and I were together 4 years we have a beautiful little girl together afew months ago I left him cuz he didn't appreciate me he said he was going to change but still hasn't I'm with him almost always but when he gets a text or call from any other female he makes me leave I feel like his "if I don't have anyone else around" girl it hurts so bad he even kicks our daughter out for a female I also have another guy but he knows about ryan he loves me ane has been trying to get me to forget about ryan and be with him I just don't know what I should do should I give up on a 4 year relationship or keep trying?
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I believe that if you love someone,and of course he loves you back,you should be willing to fight for your love and compassion together in order to solve the problems and obsticles you're facing no matter how tough they are.If your feelings are true for each other,then don't give up on the love you've been building up for four long years.Turst me,all couples fight and undergoe misunderstandings,but every problem has a solution.You have a daughter which means that you have to be extra careful with the decision you make.Its not easy for a girl to grow up with only one parent.So no matter how big the problems that you're facing together are,you have to sit down with your ex and set things straight with him.Choose your final decision,carefully and wisely.Ask yourslef does he make me happy?Ask yourslef is it worth fighting for?and if it is,then keep on trying till it works ou between the both of you guys.Finally,talk to him and decide.
Hope I helped,and if things didn't work out with him,doesn't mean they won't work out with another lucky guy :)
Goodluck xx
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There is no relationship left here if you and child come second to his booty calls.
By the time you have to ask yourself "Should I get back together with my ex?" the answer is almost always No.
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i think that for the sake of your child and your own sanity you should restrict yourself from talking to your ex. the important thing is that you have a stable life to provide for your daughter. your ex is clearly unstable and you don't really benefit from him. he will obviously need to spend time with your daughter, so maybe you guys can figure a schedule out. i think that you should test the waters with the new guy before your daughter becomes attached to him also. 4 years is a lot but...the important thing is the quality of it. you have 2 people to think about now.
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